Changing Perceptions

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Finally the best bahu competition came to an end today😆......and our powerful Imaliya managed to win the competition after all😆


I felt it was a well done conclusion that addressed all the important points that needed to be addressed about this issue.....and this was done through the words of Mrs. Arora and the other two judges as they addressed the audience as well as Ts by making the important point that Imlie is not the best bahu for the Ts because she can cook or dance or do chores around the house.....she is the best bahu because she treats the family like her own and loves them like her own.....which is how any set of relationships is nurtured.....especially when you aren't blood related or born into a family.....


One heartfelt gesture and the ability to think for someone else before yourself can melt many selfish hearts.....as was the notable case with Mrs. Arora today😆.....the woman literally did a 180 cuz she was SO touched by Imlie bringing her a glass of water when her own bahu could barely be bothered😆. After that, she herself became Imlie's biggest fan and was advocating on her behalf to Aparna too🤣


Jokes apart, I felt Mrs. A ka character was used well to show a bunch of things - chasing after society ki validation is ultimately a mirage.....they can flip in an instant towards deciding what suddenly is worthy of respect in their eyes and most of society will fall in line per herd mentality😆......the same women who were berating Imlie as a maid for so many days suddenly were applauding for her best bahu win, calling her Mrs. Imlie Tripathi with respect, wanting to see her on stage with her husband😆.


I loved Imlie's speech too.....especially with the way she did such an effective countering of Prachi's insinuation that she got the trophy out of pity.....that the judges gave it to her seeing her gareebi.....I'm glad they gave Imlie the space to push back on this notion which many people like to accuse the makers of vis a vis this story that supposedly Imlie is glorified cuz she's from the village......lol it's a hilariously bizarre excuse IMO.....but anyways, getting back to Imlie's speech.....she rounded out her own journey with some very good dialogues.....acknowledging the fact that for a person from the village, to now be interacting with city folks like this in the city is a big deal in of itself....and she would have felt grateful for their benevolence if she had indeed come here to WORK.....but she DIDN'T.....she came here as Adi's WIFE......she reminded everyone that it wasn't her CHOICE to be married the way she was but since then all she's tried to do is nibhaao the rishte that came with the fact of that marriage......but when she tried to even that much, the society around her decided to show her her "aukaat".....tried to put her down for her background and insult her whole family over it. So for her, this competition was just a way of bringing back that respect for her family......everyone was determined to write her off and disrespect her family over her background.....and she decided that the perception had to be changed.....and change it she did......because ultimately we all saw how quickly perceptions shift.😆.......the people who were determined to see her as nothing but a maid were suddenly all praises for her goodness, her compassion, and restored her humanity and respect in an instant.😆


That is what this competition was ultimately about......needing to put out a different perception of Imlie than the one they had all gotten used to and were now using to diminish her.....winning this competition on the basis of her own qualities rather than some artificial measures proved to everyone the caliber of her personality and earned her respect on her own dum......that is how she not just restored but elevated her image in front of everyone......her goal was to elevate the respect of her family along with that.....but Ts decided to continue remaining mutinously stubborn😆.


It was really quite amusing to see Mrs. Arora cajoling Aparna ki you know what you really ARE very lucky to have Imlie as your bahu.....😆.....Aparna's face was just cracking me up....she must be thinking ki jis society ke darr se itna gussa kiya, woh society bhi mujhe DHOKA de gayi and Team Imlie ho gayi?🤣.....ultimately I think Adi-Imlie did manage to prove the point ki log toh apni baatein bol ke side pe ho lete hain....toh unki baaton ke basis pe apni zindagi ke har faisle ko tikaana is a fallacy......so I think what's lingering for Aparna now is the core hurt over herself feeling betrayed by Adi-Imlie.....society ki judgement wala issue is resolved for now😆......woh log toh khud khushi khushi Adi-Imlie ko couple maan chuke hain aaj😆



I LOVED the brief moment when Adi came on stage and gestured at Imlie to lift up her trophy.....aww woh scene yaad aa gaya when he had won an award and had showed her the trophy first and made her lift it up.....😆


Baaki the Adi-Imlie kitchen scene was nice too where Imlie was taking shehed for Aparna....still thinking about the fact ki sasumaa apna muh jalaa ke baithi hai mirchis se😆.....meanwhile Adi was like trophy bhi saath mein lekar jaao to remind Maa that this is a symbol of what all you have been willing to LOSE for her sake.....apni self-respect, apni jaan.....sab kuch toh daavn pe lagaya hai Aparna ke liye kitni baar.....lol last time bhi ped pe chadh gayi just to get shehed for Aparna to make mithaai😆.....nice partnership wala convo again :)


Baaki gundas have already arrived at Editor Saab ka office to target Adi over some story he just published......lol@ Adi telling Imlie ki gunde/terrorists se zyada use ab MAA se darr lagta hai🤣.....Sahi bhi hai......lol


Precap mein ho gaye lagte hain Babusahib kidnap....bori mein ghusaa ke😆.....Imlie is yet again a witness to his kidnapping😆.....toh jaayegi ab apne Babusahib ko bachaane phir se......looks like AC has haath milaaoed with some gundas to get Adi kidnapped.....this seems seperate from whichever goons wanted to target him over his story.

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AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago
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The last 5 minutes of extensive AC monologue seemed dedicated to trying to turn Malini against Imlie.....if only we were so lucky😆


But yes, it did raise the issue of class differences yet again.....the Didi who was once trying to claim herself to be an advocate for Mithi was today again quietly listening as her ghatiya Maa accused Mithi of trapping Dev with her gareebi/bechaargi......


The main point of AC's twisted bakwaas today seemed to be that supposedly women like Mithi/Imlie manage to "win" over rich women like herself and Malini is because they aren't their equals😆.....that supposedly the fact that they are poor makes them win by default because privileged women feel too "guilt ridden" about taking something away from a poor woman.....Wow AC ji, Wow....aapki ghatiya soch ke liye👏👏.....please keep falling lower daily.......there will never be a bottom, we know very well.


It all did seem to register on Didi because AC touched the only nerve that Didi has.....how did Adi choose someone like Imlie over her😆.....AC has concluded that Adi loves Imlie BECAUSE she is a naukraani🤔.....and Imlie has played up her gareebi to trap him....cuz apparently there is no other way a man like Adi would ever choose Imlie😆......lol you enjoy that delusion, Mrs. C......aaj aapki CHOP hui shakal was worth a million dollars anyways😈


So on one hand, AC seems to have gotten Adi kidnapped to get him beaten up for whatever random sadistic daura has come upon her🤔.......and on the other hand, she seems to be trying to convince Malini that Imlie supposedly manipulated both her and Adi with her gareebi so that Malini will be compelled to give up her husband to her😕😆......


Anyways, ab aage dunno if Didi will act on any of this latest bakwaas or switch to doing token attempts to help find kidnapped Adi.


AC ko achha cover mil gaya hai cuz I guess people will presume minister ke goons kidnapped him but AC ke khud ke gunde lagte hain koi😕😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
#3

Caps on the bit when Adi asked Imlie to raise the trophy up high.....awww❤️😆









Parallel to this old scene:



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Posted: 4 years ago
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Mera rumaaliya


I will come later but I am just touched by few things today will mention later abhi maine poora dekha nahi but at the same time I feel like crying and pulling my hair at somethings too. Like I feel like a kiddo wanting to free herself from the torture but nothing working in my favor other than that I liked what I saw in quick glimpse details later. Will be spamming ...

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: AreYaar

Caps on the bit when Adi asked Imlie to raise the trophy up high.....awww❤️😆









Parallel to this old scene:




Oh mY rabba ❤️❤️ this is oh so adorable..cannot wait to see it.. but aww chalo shukar hai at a didi free moment of happiness and sharing the trophy


How adorable is this that they 1 each of trophies too can they put a shared display..humare sabse kaabil mian biwi.. who actually have intelligence and smartness and talent to boast about ...how freaking rare that they actually have talents and bhuddhi and are equal in that too ...can talk about worldly matters and share their successes.. truly a unique pair..🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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ImageThank you Dear ❤️🤗

Looks like Adi’s kidnapping will become comedy of errors 🤣🤣

Two gangs one from the professional side & one from the personal side 🤣

Bechara Adi 😆 na ghar ka raha na kaam ka 🤣

Once it is sorted each one blame the other🤣


Lol! High class AC with low class Gundas with her even lower class mindset 🤪🤣 meet the Mrs classist 🤪


Aparna is still grumpilicious 😆 this time with the Faltu society who changed sides for whom she bent backwards to please them and safeguard her image

They turned out to be the paltu gang 🤣


AC - now whitewashing her loser pati ‘s image that Dev was smart enough not to get trapped by meeti🤣 lol


Just hoping Malini brings her core character out - Viscious like her mom soon 😆

I can’t bare to see her playing victim and begging for attention and sympathy 😵


KC looks like took the first train back home 🤣🤣

Bhaag hi gaya bechara 😆










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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Oh mY rabba ❤️❤️ this is oh so adorable..cannot wait to see it.. but aww chalo shukar hai at a didi free moment of happiness and sharing the trophy


How adorable is this that they 1 each of trophies too can they put a shared display..humare sabse kaabil mian biwi.. who actually have intelligence and smartness and talent to boast about ...blow freaking rare that they actually have talents and bhuddhi and are equal in that too ...can talk about worldly matters and share their successes.. truly a unique pair..🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿


Yeh toh bas shuruaat hai😆......future mein bahut moments aayenge for this talented miyaan-biwi to share each other's accomplishments and successes :)


This was a brief but lovely moment today.....yay indeed for them getting to share a trophy moment without Didi ki sadi shakal in between.....small mercies😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nice closure to the best bahu competition.. I love Imlie's new look. I especially like her with red bindi, she wears that in pagdandhiya.

Arora ne kaisa flip mara hai..but that is true in real life too, one good gesture even to a stranger, makes their day. Here Mrs. Arora taunted her and her in-laws for days, but even then Imlie considered her pain and gave her the water first. But it is easy for her to flip because Imlie is not her bahu. When it is personal, it takes more time and effort than that one gesture. That is the case with Aparna, when she came to know Imlie was married, she was all ok to not even ask Imlie why she didn't tell them she is married and was ready whole heartedly welcome her husband, but as soon as she came to know that Imlie's husband is none other than her own son, she is not able to come to terms with it.


The stage is set for the next track to remind Sr. T's to what extent Imlie can go to for her loved ones, just like Adi suggested she does.

Atleast Anu didn't disappoint, she has set up some gundas to kidnap Adi. Imlie and others may get side tracked initially, thinking that Adi is kidnapped by the terror cell, wonder how they will realize it is not them but Anu who got him kidnapped.. let's see... Hope didi also joins hands with her mom.. Mahanta ki murthy se chutkara tho milegi.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Mera rumaaliya


I will come later but I am just touched by few things today will mention later abhi maine poora dekha nahi but at the same time I feel like crying and pulling my hair at somethings too. Like I feel like a kiddo wanting to free herself from the torture but nothing working in my favor other than that I liked what I saw in quick glimpse details later. Will be spamming ...


Aaj Editor Saab was the perfect visual representation of how many of us feel being attacked by Loservedi bakwaas in any epi😛😆




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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: brat2008


AC - now whitewashing her loser pati ‘s image that Dev was smart enough not to get trapped by meeti🤣 lol


Just hoping Malini brings her core character out - Viscious like her mom soon 😆

I can’t bare to see her playing victim and begging for attention and sympathy 😵


KC looks like took the first train back home 🤣🤣

Bhaag hi gaya bechara 😆


@blue: That is the one thing the makers will sadly never give.....bas carrot dangle karte hain by showing SILENT Didi when her Mom talks ghatiya crap about Imlie....she doesn't have the dimaag or guts to fully show her true colors. Mehhh


LOL KC kahin nahin gaya.....BTS pics showed he will come with Malini to T house for some upcoming scene😆


Word about Adi's kidnapping starting to look like a comedy of errors with two rival gangs targeting him and confusion about who really managed to kidnap him🤣

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