Originally posted by: Inese_20
Guys, I came across an elaborate post on MF which was about mistakes Pallavi’s making, and then at one point the TM said now Pallavi will be responsible for anything Mandaar would do. Didn’t drive me mad or angry, I successfully ignored it, but I am disgusted. VICTIM BLAMING ?? Really? 🤐🤒🤧
Given the fact that I was already feeling a bit uncomfortable about the creepy bgm music they gave mandaar. Like is he going to try harming Pallavi at some point? 😒
How is mandaar turning into an obsessive stalker Pallavi’s fault?? The post implied she was leading him on. I am in a total disbelief that a woman can say that. Like really, konsi sadi se ho aap?
I think I know which post you mean Parul, I saw something too along those lines yesterday and it shocked me as they were highly critical of Pallavi, again, but yeah this time because of what she said to Mandar.
Having read the responses to your post here I didn’t realise how divided the fandom is and how the gap has widened from early days. I’ve said this before in older threads that my reason for watching has always been Pallavi right from the start. The way the show was promoted was that of the story of a widowed girl and what happens when an ‘anjana toofan’ comes into her life. So when people think that the show doesn’t need Pallavi as they mute or fast forward when she comes on the screen, what is the point in them watching as the story is about her full stop! She is not going anywhere!
Then on top of this blaming her for absolutely everything is just beyond disgusting now. Is this a reflection of these people are outside of SM world I wonder? Is this how they treat women in their own environments? As for the language they use on here, is this what they use for female members of their family or female friends? It’s all this that makes it disgusting how we see women treat other women on here.
I know we all get lost in films/serials etc and fangirl over actors male or female but you know there is a limit where lines are crossed. Yes we are talking about fictional characters here but it’s still not ok to victimise just because you fancy the male lead and think the world should revolve around him. How immature.
Have we not learnt anything in this day and age how words can impact people to the point where they take drastic action. Comments on reel life can impact people in real life and we should all be mindful of that. Real people read these comments.