Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#65|Masale Ki Mehek,Janu Ko Baja Dala - Page 92

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

That's so appalling! I am so sorry for people to place you in this situation and not even allowing you to mourne in peace. I am angry for you!

As far as the cousins are concerned, isn't it great?! Why why waste your energy thinking about those who really don't care. It's better to cut these toxicity from your life. I have started with "busy with work" as an excuse to avoided meeting toxic relatives in my life. Not sure how hard/easy to do that in your situation though.

Honestly, I personally don't give a damn about them. But when you are hit such a low mentally and emotionally, you look out for some comfort and support in others, so did I. And it just hurt me that being the youngest child in the family and having gone through so much already in life, (I bet my cousins can't get through even half of it without support) they couldn't even show me the slightest of empathy.

Being highly educated and holding some important and prestigious government positions, still didn't have them do the minimum what we'd do even for strangers. And it hurts, even though I didn't expect them to do much, but it still hurts. Strangers or acquaintances have lent me more support than them.

Sadly, for me I can't get out of some issues without them. I can't boycott them or avoid talking to them at the moment. I have reduced it to the bare minimum though.. let all these problems resolve and I won't even see their faces in life, if I'm given a choice.

Hello ladies

Kya chal raha hai??

Originally posted by: Transference

Sakshi 🤗

The best way to deal with these constant vermin like behaviours is to shut down. Trust me; life is too short to wallow with petty stuff affecting you. In my mentoring & coaching sessions, I always tell people to strengthen their personal mental acumen rather than wasting energy on energy vampires 🤗

You are strong, callibrate yourself to be stronger!

We should all connect separately once the show is over! It would be lovely to have all you women in a close-knit group!

I understand what you are saying Piu. I have shut them to the bare minimum. But unfortunately, for me, some of the problems and issues that I have currently cannot be resolved without them.. and I will have tolerate all their nonsense till I get everything resolved.

Once all this is sorted, I won't even see their faces again, if given a choice. I don't give a damn about them, but it does sometimes hurt, when they say real mean things on the pretext of "caring for you". They just want their egos to be satisfied and nothing else.

If I didn't have all the compulsions in life that I do, I would have smashed their faces if they said that to me😡

I'm all up for the separate interaction group, count me in whenever you make one. I'm more than happy to interact with all you beautiful and strong women ❤️❤️

What coaching and mentoring do you do, by the way?😆

I am sorry for the super late post...Yesterday was a tough day at work

I just now read the last few pages of the previous EDT. After reading, I can very proudly and happily tell that I have met some amazing and strong women here. I am so glad all of you came forward and shared your personal issues and turmoil here. These posts have given me many life lessons. I am yet to explore many things in life. Marriage, pregnancy, family life...all these are something I am yet to experience. You are all true inspirations for me. I have lots to see in life, but reading all your posts has given me the extra energy and courage to face the world more bravely.

Right now, I am feeling very much emotional and almost had tears reading all your posts....I am so fortunate to have got associated with all of you. I am learning so many lessons from you all.

Also it gives me the assurance that in future I can always seek the help of all of you whenever I have any problem. You all have made me more stronger. I feel like I have got tons of strength in me now. I love you all and I am so happy I got a chance to read these inspiring storiesThese will be cherished my me forever...

Lots and lots of love to all of you...I look up to all of you and feel so lucky to met you all here. I really wish to be in touch with each and everyone even after PS shuts down❤️

Apologies if I have missed tagging anyone else

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Saakshiii... 🤗

Very sorry to hear about your father, even more sorry to hear about relatives. I too have terrible relatives in my mother's side who love to cook up trouble, so I know what it is to grow up in a stifling environment 😐

That said, you seem to have managed everything beautifully ❤️ I am sure you are a big source of support for your mother too. You are as strong as the other women here and your story is as inspiring ❤️

Hang in there, and continue being strong. Life does become better as you get older- definitely when you get more financially independent and settled, and most certainly irrespective of whether you get married or not.

Thank you Srii🤗❤️for your kind words.

I just did the least I could in the circumstances I was in or am in.

Let's see where life takes me to the better or not😆

Par dekhi jayegi😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Hello ladies

Kya chal raha hai??

fogg chal raha hai (please don't kill me for this)

I'm almost done with all my work at this point, so, having a free day mostly

& trying to pick a movie for movie night even though I know we're gonna end up watching FRIENDS

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Hello ladies

Kya chal raha hai??

Maaaahi veeeeee ❤️

Lots of YKBs and love happening 🤗

Also we are getting ShiVi candle scene part 2 tomorrow 🤣

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Oh god! Sakshu dont you worry!!🤗❤️

These so called relatives are the least important people in your life. But yes, at the end we are all humans and we do feel bad when someone says mean stuff or does something downright rude! But always remember you will reap what you sow. What goes around comes around! They will definitely pay for their deeds! These people have so much negativity in their lives and its going to ruin them! You should stay strong, be with your mom and support her because she needs it the most! Baaki you toh already know this that “Karma is a b**** “

We all love you Sakshu! You are a very strong woman. Dont let all these things affect you! ❤️❤️

I do want to believe what you said about karma, but I don't see that happening to these evils around me anytime soon or ever😆 These people make me think that there is nothing left in being good to people or doing good to others.

I've seen my father help all these people, serve them, help them make their businesses and careers all his life, while keeping his comfort, desires and benefits aside. And when these people don't give 2 cents about him when he's suffering when they've achieved all they wanted.. I don't know when this karma hits or not but till then I only know that I'm at the suffering end.

Whatever comes, I shall take it as it is.

Originally posted by: Transference

Raavi got her cheeks pulled by Gaumbi 🤣🤣

Oh! The brothers and Raavi are inseparable 🤣Krish had also pulled Raavi’s cheeks 🤣if you remember 😆

No wonder all the brothers love her. Shiva ko bas uski khwahish banna hai 🤣🤣

Kabootar letter worked out😆

This scene was super cute....Gaumbi-Raavi finally❤️

This scene was shot so beautifully...perfectly depicting that Raavi has always tagged along with the brothers..the comfort she shares with all them❤️

So this is the third Gaumbi-Raavi moment in the show I guess

Originally posted by: Transference

Dev passed on his shirt to Shiva! Symbolic

Raavi mimicking Shiva wearing the shirt-Symbolic

It's as if Dev had passed on something to Shiva, but he will never be able to look good enough.

Ahh! The subtle sibling rivalry and the curse of getting a second turn at things. 😭

Symbolism on point Momzii👏

This post breaks my heart so much...Poor Shiva💔