Originally posted by: .Rinnie.
 
I expected her to be very independent and doing her own thing too post leap 😆 But then after rewatching the preleap episodes, I realize it's expecting too much since she has spent 8 years just with that one hope that she would go back and win the world with him by her side. She has always imagined her life with him being her source of encouragement.
It was cute for a certain number of times phir it became annoying because it usually happens after scenes where you see Tupur getting abused or Ani having a breakdown due to the memories.. jab aisa continuation hota hai then you naturally feel annoyed with Bondita being in a bubble.
I'm still 50-50 on whether her optimistic nature is a good thing or a bad thing because we haven't gotten any result except she has melted through Ani's walls. It protects her from getting disheartened and going on a downward spiral but it also makes her stupidly positive. 
No no. She doesn't want him to admit it to the world, she wants it to admit it to her (VJ) She wants him to acknowledge the importance she holds in his life. The letters are something he will deny, the memories are something he is still very adamant he has locked up, he has yet to say it in his own words that Bondita still means a lot to him, that there is a relationship between them. He is not acknowledging the existence that the relation still lives. That is what is making her so desperate to get him to say it. 
Uske aas paas saare proof hi hai that he cares and it matters but his current words and actions contradict whatever she believes. 
Uss din jab uske back pe wo wound dekha.. the first thing, he is pull out a gun on her I was like kya kar raha hai yeh.. Bondita hai.. pagla gaya hai kya. 
That's when I understand even if all the memories and certain reactions of his say that he cares and loves her, there is no point until he, himself, admits it because that's the final wall to break.