“To the world you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.” — Bill Wilson
I know that I am guilty of still replying to many incredible observations that have been showered with love, thought and care on various threads. 🤗
But, here I am again with a sequel of conversations regarding the recent discovery I made while watching the wedding scenes again.😆
The trigger of thoughts has been Dev (Ever thought I would start loving him so much.😛)
Though, the wedding was happening for Dev, the secondary dynamics of Shiva and Ravi were very intriguing to watch. We see Raavi bumping into Shiva in the previous episode, and lets him watch her first in the bridal attire as compared to her moon or prince charming.
Later when she sees Dev for the first time sitting on the chariot as a groom, she’s still in her dreamland. Her reality soon shifts to 2 very important people in her life-Dhara and Shiva. She showers all her love to Dhara and for Shiva she has all her playfulness. No matter how much Ravi claims to love Dev, as a viewer we can’t help but notice the subtle nuances during the wedding between Shiva-Raavi!
It does makes me always curious! It was never meant to be Dev; it had always been Shiva-Raavi and their universe. They both were oblivious that their lives circled around each other. When in the middle of a romantic dream wedding, Ravi couldn’t help but want Shiva closer to her and watch her ceremony.
This is Shiva’s precise reaction after seeing her beating her own trumpet and being in her Lala land.
Particularly liked this frame where Raavi thanks Dhara for bringing this happiness into her life. You can see everybody having an endearing look at Raavi apart from Shiva. Though there is a slight hint of irritation, he probably thinks that she is supremely foolish to live in her fancy world
Out of the blue, she just couldn’t stop herself from poking😆 Shiva to dance with her. Look at her face and she talks to him! She is sassy and always looking for acceptance from him!
Shiva is supremely bored to dance with her 🤣🤣
And, look at Krish 🤣
The next two caps are sheer gold!
Banno ri Banno playing in the background while Raavi showers all her love!
A gaze of Shiva hovers from Raavi, watching her with warmth when she hugs Dhara, and then finally towards Dev. There is a tiny split-second of emotion which is very difficult to construe. It could be that how this man is lucky to have a loving girl like her. It could also be that Dev doesn’t share the the enormity of the emotion to tie this girl in love. Or, it could also be that despite getting married to such a loving girl, Dev will never be happy.
Wonder what oily is thinking at this moment? 🙊
This look of Shiva is interesting! 
She calls Shiva right in the middle of the ceremony 😆She can't control 🤣
Her beautiful smile breaks my heart! No matter how much I knew what was happening, I can't help feeling really sad for Raavi!
Shiva was standing like a statue. It's very tiny, but he keeps the decorum of the ceremony intact; he seeks the permission of Gaura first before reaching out to Raavi sitting at the wedding altar.
Her logic of asking him to sit and watch the ceremony by sitting close to her. 🤣
I captured every single second. She is so happy in the one 😆
Doesn't she look stunning ❤️
Their heads are practically touching!
Your memory feels like home to me.
So whenever my mind wanders, it always finds it’s way back to you.
Ranata Suzuki
These two ❤️
There is a 1973 Lee theory on the styles of lovers. What Ravi felt for Dave is similar to Fragma defined by him. This is copy pasted from his research.
Pragma is a style of love that emphasizes the practical aspects of love. The pragmatic lover considers compatibility and the sensibility of their choice of partners. This lover will be concerned with goals in life, status, family reputation, attitudes about parenting, career issues and other practical concerns.
Shiva and Ravi share are more related to Mania and Eros.
Mania is a style of love characterized by volatility, insecurity, and possessiveness. This lover gets highly upset during arguments or breakups, may have trouble sleeping when in love, and feels emotions very intensely.
Eros is an erotic style of loving in which the person feels consumed. Physical chemistry and emotional involvement are important to this type of lover.
The Not So Dreamy Varmala Scene!
I have always felt that this scene has been criminally underrated in our discussions about Pandya store. 🤪
That’s why I thought it deserved a special segment, because all my married sisters here would agree that despite all the banter during the Varmala ceremony, the conversation never hovers to the people teasing them in real life.
It's always between the bride and the groom! But, the entire VarMala sequence is so focused on Shiva and Raavi here 😆
Pardon me if you feel that I have gone berserk while capturing each and every emotion. This was too hard to resist.🥰
See Shiva at his prankster best when he signals Krish to lift Dev up during the garland exchange.😆
While everyone is having fun, looking at Dev, Shiva tightened his jaws and simply glares at Ravi.😆
Raavi tries her nautanki best to make Shiva melt.
Tu aaj bhi mujhe tang karna nahi chodega
Puri Zindagi bhar nahi!
And this intensity and declaration give me goosebumps. I hope you can now see that during the entire wedding sequence, Shiva and Ravi had a universe of their own.
The sequence of Ravi and her fights with Shiva don’t change at all. She will poke him, he would tease her. He would tease her, she would whine and plead! 🤣
These two kids 😆
Toh Daal na! Maine kaun as tera hath pakad rakha hai 😆
Now that I go back to all their scenes, it becomes fairly evident that their dialogues were always hinting towards their deep-rooted bond from childhood. We all have indulged in multiple discussions about whether Shiva was attracted to Raavi always? The answer is fairly yes, subconsciously, as both of them were completely oblivious to the fact that their entire universe revolved around each other. They both yearned for each other’s acceptance, would indulge in playful banter for comeuppance, and poke each other constantly. Both were equally involved! 🤗
His challenge game becomes a notch higher 👿
Ja nahi karta...Kya kar legi tu!
It like there staple conversation?
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Sometimes life is a zero-sum game between the people you love.
K.D. Elizabeth
P.S- Link to all the other write-ups!
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156989457
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