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Posted: 4 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Btw am really liking imlie ke earrings proper dupatta and the way her hair are done in precap too even if I do not like the outfit as such


She does look pretty in that look :)….outfit is ok but the earrings are making a difference. Would be nice to see her get some more variations in the coming days. Simple cotton saris mein bhi pyari lagti hai.


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Posted: 4 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: Gwiwer

I feel that Adi has to be very careful here, as announcing to all and sundry that Imlie is his wife is coming over as a bit childish as well as him being in danger of showing her off as a trophy much as Dev was accused of doing. This is not good. She is an independent woman and should be treated as such. Adi is really coercing her into doing what he wants just as he forced her to keep quiet in the beginning. He is listening to what she says but dismissing her concerns I feel.

I also felt sorry for Malini today. I have never been keen on her, but to have your not-quite-ex-husband walk in the room with another woman on his arm and announce this was his real wife must be embarrassing and hurtful. It was tactless and unkind, even if she was stupid to have gone there. I know if it happened to me I would just feel awful. 😏


Don’t agree at all.

Adi has always been a brutally honest person and this is his honest side coming forth again where he refuses to hide behind convenient facades and let his relationship with Imlie only be revealed when it’s neat and easy for everyone. When something started with such a big mess, being willing to face the mess is a big thing.

If he stays quiet at this point, he allows Imlie to be perceived as someone he had an affair with and is the cause of his marriage with Malini breaking….which is not the truth at all. So he is stating the truth candidly no matter how messy and uncomfortable it is for people to hear 🤷‍♀️


As for Malini, no I don’t feel any sympathy for someone who shows up at the house of her ex like that. Adi has provided a 100 opportunities to her before this to exit with dignity and to punish him as she feels. Instead she chooses to hang around his life like a despo still expecting him to call her back.

How long is Adi expected to only manage Malini’s image and not prioritize the upholding of Imlie’s status in his life?

As for Imlie, Adi isn’t doing anything against her wish or imposing anything on her. He’s just refusing to let her hide from taking her place in his life which she’s already done for a long time. Escapism is not the solution. That’s all he’s saying.


Calling someone your wife publicly makes them your trophy?🤔 This is news to me 😆

Edited by AreYaar - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Thank you, MB.

@bold: I think I’m kinda liking this approach despite it creating more mess for Adilie. It’s refreshing to see them going against the grain with Adi being willing to own his mistakes without the divorce making it easier for him and Imlie. It adds more conviction to his character even if people want to debate the practicality of his approach otherwise 🤷‍♀️


The fact that he’s living up to his word of declaring Imlie his wife and supporting her through all of this without backing down from the judgement of the truth is amazing to me 😊.


This path is the harder path but it takes more courage to step on it and I find Adi’s courage admirable for this situation.


I am liking this approach to for the sheer fact that Adi is not hesitating in telling the entire truth to anyone. He is ready to accept the blame of everything because it was he only who actually made the mistake of committing bigamy.


Even with telling this truth people are still hell bent on painting Adi-Imlie as an EMA. But at least Adi-Imlie have told the complete truth. Whether people believe it or not is another matter altogether.


Also it saves us from future main mahaan rants of Didi. Now she cannot claim that she was the one who left Adi for Imlie because Adi himself is letting people know that he got married to Imlie first so she is his legal wife. He is separating from Didi.


Also I think he has always been ready to take the punishment of his crime. He never ever told Didi ki you can't take legal action against me. It is Didi herself who didn't take any action against him because she didn't want to let people know that she is his 2nd wife & also because she didn't want to cut off from Adi completely.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#74

Great discussions everybody!!


Finally Imlie lands in saas-bahu drama, no surprise there and really which ITV production will not land up there at one point or another... That's the bread-butter of ITV Trp model but what I find refreshing here is Aditya's take. For once we have a ML who is in the center of storm rather than the FL doing it all on her own. He is the one who is firm on his stand and taking the lead where its required. The fact that they are fighting this battle by being on each other sides really shows the strength of the relationship. The way Imlie coaxed a smile out of Aditya even in the middle of the storm that they are in, its refreshing to see that. Thats only possible when you have the right person on the side who knows you in and out. Right now, it all about giving recognition to their "rishta".


I have no thoughts about the divorce, I think its something that they are just using as a drama point to keep Malini in the picture and frankly, the divorce delay really brings down Malini more for me. I thought her ego and pride were more important than Aditya but well I was wrong (no surpirse there where this character is concerned😊). I would have preferred if she would have been firm on the fact that whatever happens I am not going back but well as some keep pointing out that not all women are strong especially the educated one 😛 Beats me that why would you want to be with a person who has straightway said and shown multiple times that he is not interested. Like I always said, it always gives me the laughs that during the marriage, Aditya was more interested in Imlie than the rituals. Now for the divorce its the same. He is more interested in giving Imlie her rightful place. He is told the truth to all parties concerned, his heart is clear and for him its just a piece of paper. In this heart and mind, that relationship was over the day he climbed the bus to go to PD the second time. From then on he has given the rights to Malini to end it. If she wants to delay so be it.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: Lodestar


I am liking this approach to for the sheer fact that Adi is not hesitating in telling the entire truth to anyone. He is ready to accept the blame of everything because it was he only who actually made the mistake of committing bigamy.


Even with telling this truth people are still hell bent on painting Adi-Imlie as an EMA. But at least Adi-Imlie have told the complete truth. Whether people believe it or not is another matter altogether.


Also it saves us from future main mahaan rants of Didi. Now she cannot claim that she was the one who left Adi for Imlie because Adi himself is letting people know that he got married to Imlie first so she is his legal wife. He is separating from Didi.


Also I think he has always been ready to take the punishment of his crime. He never ever told Didi ki you can't take legal action against me. It is Didi herself who didn't take any action against him because she didn't want to let people know that she is his 2nd wife & also because she didn't want to cut off from Adi completely.


@bold1: Reminds me again of Imlie pointing how subjective truth remains for people based on their own prejudices. Adi is explicitly stating the truth, owning his mistake and still people are choosing to interpret it as Adi having had an EMA with the maid who stole him away from Malini 🤔…..


Truth can remain subjective for people but I still find it worthy of admiration that Adi is willing to own this uncomfortable truth.


@bold2: This is another point that has been lost in selective hearing waale rants 🤷‍♀️😂. From the get go, Adi has been saying he’s ready for whatever punishment Malini wants to give to him. She immediately retorted with wanting a divorce so he was like ok 🤷‍♀️😂…when has he ever stopped her from filing a bigamy case? He’s simply told her he only considers Imlie his wife and only loves Imlie. Iske aage peechhe was always in Malini’s hands and she’s chosen not to do anything coz she’s despo over Adi🤷‍♀️…..so remind me again where exactly he’s tried to run away from the consequences of bigamy? 😆…..People want him to file a case against himself now Kya? lol kyun bhai? He’s apologized to Malini and has stood ready to face consequences from her. She didn’t choose to do that, her problem 🤷‍♀️ How is he liable for that?


Why is he expected to put his life on hold for Malini? He told the truth, apologized, gave her a window of time to retaliate…and she didn’t. Toh ab kya puri zindagi baithe raho for her decision to take legal action? Lol and is sab mein Imlie ko bhi bas limbo mein rakhein kya ki her own husband who loves her isn’t allowed to be with her? 🤷‍♀️😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: AreYaar


@bold1: Reminds me again of Imlie pointing how subjective truth remains for people based on their own prejudices. Adi is explicitly stating the truth, owning his mistake and still people are choosing to interpret it as Adi having had an EMA with the maid who stole him away from Malini 🤔…..


Truth can remain subjective for people but I still find it worthy of admiration that Adi is willing to own this uncomfortable truth.


@bold2: This is another point that has been lost in selective hearing waale rants 🤷‍♀️😂. From the get go, Adi has been saying he’s ready for whatever punishment Malini wants to give to him. She immediately retorted with wanting a divorce so he was like ok 🤷‍♀️😂…when has he ever stopped her from filing a bigamy case? He’s simply told her he only considers Imlie his wife and only loves Imlie. Iske aage peechhe was always in Malini’s hands and she’s chosen not to do anything coz she’s despo over Adi🤷‍♀️…..so remind me again where exactly he’s tried to run away from the consequences of bigamy? 😆…..People want him to file a case against himself now Kya? lol kyun bhai? He’s apologized to Malini and has stood ready to face consequences from her. She didn’t choose to do that, her problem 🤷‍♀️ How is he liable for that?


Why is he expected to put his life on hold for Malini? He told the truth, apologized, gave her a window of time to retaliate…and she didn’t. Toh ab kya puri zindagi baithe raho for her decision to take legal action? Lol and is sab mein Imlie ko bhi bas limbo mein rakhein kya ki her own husband who loves her isn’t allowed to be with her? 🤷‍♀️😂


No their expectation hai ki Didi mahaan banti rahe without taking any action against Adi while Adi-Imlie need to put their life on hold for Didi their entire life🤪.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: pamk06

Like I always said, it always gives me the laughs that during the marriage, Aditya was more interested in Imlie than the rituals. Now for the divorce its the same. He is more interested in giving Imlie her rightful place. He is told the truth to all parties concerned, his heart is clear and for him its just a piece of paper. In this heart and mind, that relationship was over the day he climbed the bus to go to PD the second time. From then on he has given the rights to Malini to end it. If she wants to delay so be it.


That’s the thing na. His heart and mind are clear cuz he’s owning his truth, even the uncomfortable parts….but usmein bhi HE’s the one being accused of insensitivity even though he’s made his stance clear to Malini since a LONG time, still even now he’s expected to allow Imlie to be demeaned at the cost of sparing embarrassment to Malini? For how long, man? He’s already been doing that LONG enough. He’s reached the end of his rope now and can’t bear one more SECOND of Imlie’s place in his life being demeaned.

So why is this being considered wrong? Well I guess most people can’t handle directness and honesty. It’s misinterpreted more often than not as insensitivity. Adi is also being judged in the same way even though this phase of not mincing words about Imlie’s place in his life has been a long time in the making. Still people are acting thrown off by it like this isn’t his basic personality 🤷‍♀️😂


I also find it ironic that Didi is the one who claimed right after learning the truth that this is just a relationship on paper so better to end it with divorce and now she herself is using the convenience of her marriage only existing on paper as a reason to still keep hanging around Adi in some delusion of reconciliation 🤷‍♀️😂

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Posted: 4 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: AreYaar


She does look pretty in that look :)….outfit is ok but the earrings are making a difference. Would be nice to see her get some more variations in the coming days. Simple cotton saris mein bhi pyari lagti hai.



Yup it is a subtle change but making a difference I like how she still got stud types hi bilkul chote chote new earrings unline the truck sized ones every other FL is wearing on every other show yuck

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Posted: 4 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Don’t agree at all.

Adi has always been a brutally honest person and this is his honest side coming forth again where he refuses to hide behind convenient facades and let his relationship with Imlie only be revealed when it’s neat and easy for everyone. When something started with such a big mess, being willing to face the mess is a big thing.

If he stays quiet at this point, he allows Imlie to be perceived as someone he had an affair with and is the cause of his marriage with Malini breaking….which is not the truth at all. So he is stating the truth candidly no matter how messy and uncomfortable it is for people to hear 🤷‍♀️


As for Malini, no I don’t feel any sympathy for someone who shows up at the house of her ex like that. Adi has provided a 100 opportunities to her before this to exit with dignity and to punish him as she feels. Instead she chooses to hang around his life like a despo still expecting him to call her back.

How long is Adi expected to only manage Malini’s image and not prioritize the upholding of Imlie’s status in his life?

As for Imlie, Adi isn’t doing anything against her wish or imposing anything on her. He’s just refusing to let her hide from taking her place in his life which she’s already done for a long time. Escapism is not the solution. That’s all he’s saying.


Calling someone your wife publicly makes them your trophy?🤔 This is news to me 😆


Lol so basically people want adi to not stand up for respect of his actual wife caz ex ki feelings hurt hi jaayengi hain? And when has he done that on purpose he has been protecting uski bhi ghatiya image ke mere ghar main koi uske liye bhi koi ghatiya shabd na nikale all this time to taiji but imlie ki baari aayi hai toh chup kar jaaye and lol phir kya not like he will not be called a loser then too infact I will kill him myself for turning out to be Loservedi too..why should he not fight for respect of imlie his wife and her status in hsi life isn't that the biggest thing in being married ..jahan izzat na ho wahan kya?? Isn't that what mithi also told imlie..and imlie is only getting it caz her husband wants her too


Lol amazing ke people think he is imposing on her as if they do not see her clearly say ke usko bhi nahi rehna adi ke bina ke usko aasan raaste nahi lene ke woh ladegi but yeah just caz she says it a bit more calmly matlab she is being forced jab rak chillayegi nahi kisi ko sunai nahi dega

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: pamk06

Great discussions everybody!!


Finally Imlie lands in saas-bahu drama, no surprise there and really which ITV production will not land up there at one point or another... That's the bread-butter of ITV Trp model but what I find refreshing here is Aditya's take. For once we have a ML who is in the center of storm rather than the FL doing it all on her own. He is the one who is firm on his stand and taking the lead where its required. The fact that they are fighting this battle by being on each other sides really shows the strength of the relationship. The way Imlie coaxed a smile out of Aditya even in the middle of the storm that they are in, its refreshing to see that. Thats only possible when you have the right person on the side who knows you in and out. Right now, it all about giving recognition to their "rishta". Truly living by what he once said ke rishta pankh ban jaata hai jab saathi sahi honand we are seeing it on daily basis ke itne tension main bhi they are able to take the burdens of each others shoulders bring out this lightness and just be themselves and find strength by being with each other doing their stuff and not being out there there resent themselves as a last when they have actually been victims and can very well put on a show but they have chosen the truth the saath and the logical and ane way..dusra attention seeking has never been their Forte


I have no thoughts about the divorce, I think its something that they are just using as a drama point to keep Malini in the picture and frankly, the divorce delay really brings down Malini more for me. I thought her ego and pride were more important than Aditya but well I was wrong (no surpirse there where this character is concerned😊). I would have preferred if she would have been firm on the fact that whatever happens I am not going back but well as some keep pointing out that not all women are strong especially the educated one 😛 Beats me that why would you want to be with a person who has straightway said and shown multiple times that he is not interested. Like I always said, it always gives me the laughs that during the marriage, Aditya was more interested in Imlie than the rituals. Now for the divorce its the same. He is more interested in giving Imlie her rightful place. He is told the truth to all parties concerned, his heart is clear and for him its just a piece of paper. In this heart and mind, that relationship was over the day he climbed the bus to go to PD the second time. From then on he has given the rights to Malini to end it. If she wants to delay so be it.


+1 to all the fact that they have said it all has given them a different sort of sukoon and that makes it worth it 👌

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