Malini knows what true sacrifice is, DT note page 8 - Page 3

Originally posted by: AISHU183

Agree with your post especially imlie being strong and resilient yes u right unlike malini imlie doesn't have toxic parents where meethi despite being a single mother given imlie good values and imbibed good sanskars in her

But here she saw her mother go through a lot bcoz of her silence might be her love for dev.She has silently endured all struggles even her daughter had to bear the brunt for no fault of her.

These days there is a short story trending how two sons grew up around an alcoholic father where one soon has become an alcoholic nand the other has decided to never ever touch alcohol in his life coz the second know of the repercussions of the thing

In the same way when imlie saw her mom struggle then how come she committed the same mistake her mother has done.Not saying the truth is equal to lies which she did she accepted it as well

I heard somewhere that by saying truth initially it might be difficult but later the path becomes easy on the other hand if u say lies or hide truth initially it may be easy but the going gets tough as the path progresses.

Here imlie took the other road she is facing the heat that's it there's no one else to blame here except adi that too for a certain extent only bcoz everything happened with her choice and decision only except the gunpoint marriage

Agree with u n plus.imli alleged that she is 12 th pass.

imlie is educated unlike meethi. In 8th all of u have read about raja ram mohan rai. second marriage concept. Monogamy in India n all. Even in whole studies she also read Indian constitution n all. From where she made ideology u marry once. As far as I know she is a brilliant student n got admission in college on her capabilities. She is a fast learner too People said she don't know what to do. She knows well what she is doing. She is a very selective fighter. Before marriage happened she is going to come alone in city. Going to continue her study with her scholarship. Going to work get a good life. After meeting t's she wanted what destiny gave her. She also knew Aditya marriage to her have no validity in eyes of law if Aditya dines it. Every girl in the world wanted their in laws like T's. That wasn't also bad till the point she remained silent on Malini n Aditya wedding. Even that day she had full chance to tell the truth. Her mother n dada was also there to help her , take care of her. She hid from them as well what is happening to her. I don't know how easily every time Imlie fans pointed out she is just 19. She is just 19 not to young for 30 years old man. Not 19 years when pati mera Devta hai jap she repeated every time. Not 19 for Aditya while she want her as wife . Forcing his parents to believe that she is just 19 years old to make them accept his forced marriage.... Ye 19 years wali baat made me laugh really. What Imlie said when Aditya parents denies to give their blessings. She said to Aditya they have accepted her if she knows English. Really when t's are like that ever. When they ever thought of such thing. If they think like that never treat Imlie as daughter. Kuch bhi Imlie... really. U r that innocent they are angry because you do romance with their married son as they knows forced marriage are not legal atleast for them. They are also angry with Aditya because he made drama of Malini life . Their son ruined one girl life.

Originally posted by: joman

If Malini is so Mahan and great to sacrifice her so could husband, want to give Imeli her rights then why each time she land in T house every time at the drop of hat. If she really want to sacrifice then she cut all the ties with Adi and T also. Jo sacrifice karte hai wo jatate nahi har wakt. I can understand her pain as she still in love with Adi. But every woman must have self respect if husband did not consider her wife then she must walk out from such marriage. Either take a stand for herself or cut the ties with Adi completely. But what Malini id doing either tiring to gain sympathy or hoping to still get Adi back .

And about Imeli why should she should sacrifice her love and husband . Till date she is doing the same but when Malini told her about her EMA then only she starts to take a step towards Adi.

And main point if Malini is so sacchi and acchi then just live the cheater like Adi and Imeli and move on with dignity.

Malini is not mahaan but imlie is not mahaan as well she too is trying to get sympathy from aparna radha Pankaj and Bk

As u said everytime imlie left she came back for whatever reason she came back to adi and tripathi family if she was so good she shouldn't have given a damn to adi but no she is like a pendulum keeps on changing her decisions at the drop of a hat

If u blame malini for her nature blame imlie for her indecisiveness

I am not saying malini is flawless she is trying to let go of her feelings for adi which might take time but she didn't make a fuss about it and came out of it for the betterment of 3 lives but do u really think it's easy to move on for her for investing few years into this relationship even before marriage happened on the other hand imlie whom everyone knew from few months

Btw did imlie move on if so she would have never come back into adi life admit it that she too has feelings for adi and their love might be deep but in between malini had to suffer

U said self respect right malini atleast moved out of house and applied for divorce but what about imlie where did her self respect vanish when senior tripathi clan are insulting her like anything and treating her like garbage from few days

Originally posted by: joman

If Malini is so Mahan and great to sacrifice her so could husband, want to give Imeli her rights then why each time she land in T house every time at the drop of hat. If she really want to sacrifice then she cut all the ties with Adi and T also. Jo sacrifice karte hai wo jatate nahi har wakt. I can understand her pain as she still in love with Adi. But every woman must have self respect if husband did not consider her wife then she must walk out from such marriage. Either take a stand for herself or cut the ties with Adi completely. But what Malini id doing either tiring to gain sympathy or hoping to still get Adi back .

And about Imeli why should she should sacrifice her love and husband . Till date she is doing the same but when Malini told her about her EMA then only she starts to take a step towards Adi.

And main point if Malini is so sacchi and acchi then just live the cheater like Adi and Imeli and move on with dignity.

Wait she will really leave them. She is really a innocent soul. It's the matter of time . She is taking that time to process her 7 years n all her life. Whatever u said applied on Imlie too. Why she thought aditya as her husband when he disrespected her so much even got married to someone else before her eyes. If imlie emotions matters Malini emotions also matter. They both made Malini second women in their equation. She didn't only had a relation with Aditya in these 7 years but also with his family. From the Bengali serial they took story Malini left them alone but Imlie took Malini back in their life. She again made Malini life miserable by supporting kunal ex wife. Aage dekho kya hoga .

Sorry, I have no idea about the other version. You are right Malini also need the time but my point is if she want to sacrifice then do it properly. Why involve into their matter again and again if it hurts you. And Adi made it very clear that he loves Imeli then why she always run to T house. She must say No to Apu may be sweetly or rudely. And again today SBS segment she again there at T house even though she make a resolve to not go to that family. So ....

I am not saying Imeli is mahan not even Aditya . All 3 are at fault and made mistakes and suffering a lot at their own way. but why it is only Malini pain or Malini husband. Husband to Imeli ka hai and both Imeli and Adi also in pain. I agree Adi commit a very big mistake by marring the Malini, just sorry is not gonna reduce her pain or returns her 7 years. But Adi admitted his mistake and ready to take any punishment. So in my opinion Malini as a independent , educated woman who is professor should either live them on their own completely or punish Adi why to hang on them on the excuse of Imeli or giving Imeli her right.

Anyway i did not not saw any proper efforts for Imeli to get her due rights apart of some token line by Malini?

May be every persons opinion is different. I not blaming any of 3 leads instead i believe all 3 committed mistake and they have every right to be happy in their life. My only concern about the what Malini say and how is her behavior exactly in 180 degree direction.

Originally posted by: joman

Sorry, I have no idea about the other version. You are right Malini also need the time but my point is if she want to sacrifice then do it properly. Why involve into their matter again and again if it hurts you. And Adi made it very clear that he loves Imeli then why she always run to T house. She must say No to Apu may be sweetly or rudely. And again today SBS segment she again there at T house even though she make a resolve to not go to that family. So ....

I am not saying Imeli is mahan not even Aditya . All 3 are at fault and made mistakes and suffering a lot at their own way. but why it is only Malini pain or Malini husband. Husband to Imeli ka hai and both Imeli and Adi also in pain. I agree Adi commit a very big mistake by marring the Malini, just sorry is not gonna reduce her pain or returns her 7 years. But Adi admitted his mistake and ready to take any punishment. So in my opinion Malini as a independent , educated woman who is professor should either live them on their own completely or punish Adi why to hang on them on the excuse of Imeli or giving Imeli her right.

Anyway i did not not saw any proper efforts for Imeli to get her due rights apart of some token line by Malini?

May be every persons opinion is different. I not blaming any of 3 leads instead i believe all 3 committed mistake and they have every right to be happy in their life. My only concern about the what Malini say and how is her behavior exactly in 180 degree direction.

Kunal rightly pointed out to Malini that she is confused ... Yes she is... Even she alone because her both parents busy in their own game. She needs help real help from psychologist. She need to sort out how to came out of pain. I want to see her story. Want to see her happy. She is the character through which they can show people can moved on even from 7 years relationship. I don't like other two lead behave. I don't want them goes apart. I only see this serial to see Malini story. I only want them for once they regret really what they actually did to Malini. Aditya specially. I know Malini character is little weak but she is pure soul. They can show through this character their are other stories also in the world.

Originally posted by: gopi2929

They never followed any legal procedure to nullify it ..it was forceful marriage but it was a real marriage with all rituals and witnesses..so that make it legal valid Marriage.

So, what his marriage with Malini? That too happened with all the rituals

And for those you say - two adults married with consent - let me remind them - When Aditya married Imli - neither one of them HAD ANY CONSENT! They both DID NOT WANT the marriage - so there is absolutely no doubts about that

People do feel out of love after years even ..it's not like you got married once so there is no chance of divorce or separation without any expernal force .fight is normal but insecurities , imbalance etc becomes the reasons for divorce even ..

It is normal to feel "out of love" in which case - the two people involved discuss and arrive at a mutual consent to separate. Here it is quite the opposite.....all along Aditya LOVES Malini and then suddenly out of the blue - overnight - was not in love with her anymore. Not just that - he didn't even respect having any friendship with her. He is incorrigible to say the least

It was Adi's mistake in some way but he too not responsible for these mess 100%. .. situation made him take wrong decisions too..

oh WOW this is amazing

If all criminals used this excuse - we took a wrong decision - there would be no need for the laws. In a way you are right though - he didn't make a mistake. HE COMMITTED A CRIME!!! There is a big big and big difference between the two. If he had any doubts about his marriage with Malini - he could have stepped back. But he didn't! Not only he married her- he was totally in love with her. Called her moon and what not -

Aditya is not a baby who just took a wrong decision and then suddenly decides that he can rub anyone the wrong way to correct his mistakes. Sorry things don't work like that. Exactly why should Malini pay for his wrong decision?

Adi and Imlie ne kab romance Kiya ?? Muze to nahi dikha ..aur kar bhi Liya hota to it wasn't wrong ..they are husband wife and both love each other ..infact they were trying to find the way from that complicated situation..

Amazing you missed so many episodes of the puke romance

She left Ts for her DD and faced all tortures from DD's mommy ( DD didn't bother to do anything accept giving token warnings to get mommy) and left Adi too later but as I said destiny jaisa bhi hota hai ..

Let's be clear on this - the writers made her go to C house only so that she could record the video of AC's torture which only God can explain at what point she recorded that - so she could later use it to release Tripathis and win them all over. The only reason that track was done was the add another of Imli's mahanta to the already never-ending oh so lengthy list of mahantas

Ekbaar Kismat be kuchh like Diya tumhaare liye wo milta hi hai ..Adi is her Kismat and so she got him

But where was Imlie suppose to go ? She also was married to him on gun point and send to an unknown place with her so called husband....

So since she didnt know where she was suppose to go - how is Malini responsible for this? Aditya made her a servant in his house....Not Malini

Remember the first fight between Adi and Malini... it was Imlie who sorted the differences between them.

They are not the only couple who fought with each other - it is perfectly normal for couples to have disagreements. Even without Imli - the couple would have sorted out their differences. In fact Imli has a bad habit to just poke her nose in other people's business. In fact in one of the episodes Malini even had to remind her that is is bad manners to speak between husband and wife! Imli needed that - she has crossed her line many times

In fact Malini was the one who encouraged Aditya to atleast speak politely with Imli - he couldnt even stand a sight of her at that time

She even left everything to go to PD when Adi went to get her... She didn't call him. When she returned she went to the hostel not his house she didn't even contact him he found out and went to her hostel....

OfCourse Imli was enjoying all the attention from Aditya - only she didn't care to remind him that he was married to Malini at that point

And discourage his behaviors - why would she? She was secretly plotting to get the "bahu" status anyways

She had wanted to do more and more and more mahaan things to show to Aditya and Tripathis that she is the ultimate bechari

Heck she went to live with the Chaturvedis why??? For Malini

This I have answered above - just to add another feather in her mahanta cap!

Where did she get mingled with married man?? Infact Malini got married with already married man , unknowingly hi Sahi but she did .

So, the victim is the criminal here? What a joke

So Imlie has to do everything for princess Malini??

Who is the actual princess here? Malini or the Mahan Imli?

An 18 years old girl with very much backward background ,no financial backup, no family backup ,not much knowledge of law and order, grew up in a belief of ladki ki shadi ek hi Baar hoti hai etc stood up for all the odds while putting her and her mother's life at risk and fight for princess Malini??

If Imli believes that a girl gets married only once - ALL THE MORE REASONS- she should not have ruined Malini's home. If Imli had even a little bit of shame - she would have corrected her wrong deeds long time ago. And let me say this too - it's actually Imli who is the real princess here! The entire T house revolves around her little finger

People should understand that Adi - Malini marriage would break sooner than later w/o Imlie..spending time as a bf-gf is different thing and stay under one roof 24/7 as a husband wife is different...

This is just a baseless assumption and theory - that has no heads or tails

Lastly what sacrifice you are talking about? How has Malini ever sacrificed Aditya, when he was never hers to begin with. He didn't love her, than how she can give him to Imlie?

Another baseless assumption

First why does Malini need to sacrifice for Aditya? Just because she didn't take a bullet for him - she didn't sacrifice anything for him.

Again - even a blind person can tell that when Aditya married Malini - he was TOTALLY HEADS OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH HER. May be ppl who have doubts on this go back and watch the episodes for their own revision!

You made my day all the things u answered on my behalf 💝👍👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌

One point only

Imlie and Adi life was always in danger if the truth of Adi left Imlie alone and refuse the marriage

That's what had kept Imlie in the Ts house

And that is why she kept the married look whenever she get back to PD

I am not here to defend anyone, because it is obvious after 200+ episode we are watching a different version of the show

We will see what will happen in the next100 episode

Have a nice day

Originally posted by: joman

Sorry, I have no idea about the other version. You are right Malini also need the time but my point is if she want to sacrifice then do it properly. Why involve into their matter again and again if it hurts you. And Adi made it very clear that he loves Imeli then why she always run to T house. She must say No to Apu may be sweetly or rudely. And again today SBS segment she again there at T house even though she make a resolve to not go to that family. So ....

I am not saying Imeli is mahan not even Aditya . All 3 are at fault and made mistakes and suffering a lot at their own way. but why it is only Malini pain or Malini husband. Husband to Imeli ka hai and both Imeli and Adi also in pain. I agree Adi commit a very big mistake by marring the Malini, just sorry is not gonna reduce her pain or returns her 7 years. But Adi admitted his mistake and ready to take any punishment. So in my opinion Malini as a independent , educated woman who is professor should either live them on their own completely or punish Adi why to hang on them on the excuse of Imeli or giving Imeli her right.

Anyway i did not not saw any proper efforts for Imeli to get her due rights apart of some token line by Malini?

May be every persons opinion is different. I not blaming any of 3 leads instead i believe all 3 committed mistake and they have every right to be happy in their life. My only concern about the what Malini say and how is her behavior exactly in 180 degree direction.

Overnight adi cannot brush off his sins under the carpet right keep aside imlie what about adi what did he do to save his and malini relationship till date from the beginning he was satisfying his ego an stubbornness that's it he is one of the most selfish male lead I have seen on television till date What punishment did he get till now and now when his decision of marrying imlie was not supported by his elders he started behaving like a teenager or say like lovesick puppy

As far as malini coming to his house most of the times it was his family members who keep on calling her and for god's sake even before marriage of adini malini has good relations with the family who know her for a long time she can meet these days though relationship breaks inlaws r maintaining cordial relations society has progressed I think we should also progress in our thought process

Exactly malini about taking 180 degree turn ok it's natural people might get tempted to go back to the people they love but she is resisting so hard and successful to certain extent atleast she resisted it unlike imlie who always failed to resist her emotions for adi and embraced him back in her life whenever she left him

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

One point only

Imlie and Adi life was always in danger if the truth of Adi left Imlie alone and refuse the marriage

That's what had kept Imlie in the Ts house

And that is why she kept the married look whenever she get back to PD

I am not here to defend anyone, because it is obvious after 200+ episode we are watching a different version of the show

We will see what will happen in the next100 episode

Have a nice day

I watch it for Adili. i dislike Malini very much so weak and fragile. I am completely disagree ki Malini is pure soul still i agree she is also a victim alone with Adili. But I don't want anyone to regret their decision and stay happy in their life. For me Adili are already paying for their mistake. But for Malini --- Adi already told her truth about his marriage in PD, but doll can not handle it what is Adi and Imeli mistake in it. Even take it as joke. Again people said Adi must tell this truth to this and that.

Here I am talking about Malini only , is it not her mistake to just ignore truth go ahead? ok if she is not ready to processes with truth then why not she postponed her marriage and confront Adi after some days to clear her droughts. Is not her mistake?

Edited by DT

anyway full stop from my side.