Malini knows what true sacrifice is, DT note page 8 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

Correction. Imlie never interfered remember, she was forcefully married.

She never told anyone truth, because it wasn't her place to tell and no one would have believed, as told to her by Aditya. Please watch episodes.

That time the marriage held meaning only for her, not Aditya. She never expected Aditya to fell in love with her, that's why she accepted Adini's marriage, even though she was hurt.

Imlie has never came between Adini. There problems started because of their own reasons. I am tired of explaining this. Already people have explained enough in this post that Aditya and Malini weren't compatible. They would have fallen apart Imlie or no imlie.

If Malini isn't a player, than neither is Aditya or Imlie. I am all in if Malini has spine to punish Aditya or call him out, but her giving him a free pass doesn't makes her sacrificial.

She hasn't let him go on her will, she HAS TO because she has no choice left. That is My main POINT. She may had rights on Aditya in past, but doesn't any more the moment he confessed he isn't in Love with her and the reality of their marriage.

she can get him arrested all she wants, Aditya is indeed wrong, but she isn't sacrificial.

So her boasting to Imlie about sacrifices she made for her, is nothing but hypocrisy and lies.

At least one adili fan accepted Aditya is wrong.

Originally posted by: Shiner

First of all when u talk of nullification of marriage how do u do that ? It's not a legal marriage that u divorce ? Secondly ADI never accepted saying he never believed as it was forceful.

Then blaming the victim mentality ... Blaming Malini because she became sick and couldn't believe something so she is at fault. This is like justification of liers.

I don't agree that Malini ADI relationship would break because they were happy together. There were fights but which couple doesn't fight. That's a normal part of relationships.

I don't blame imli as much as ADI in this situation but once imli started staying hostel after ADI proposed her she shouldn't come and stay at chaturvedi house and romance with ADI under same roof when she consider Malini as her sister. Or if it's ur choice u love ADI then don't say this dialogue Malini didi Ka Ka hui ?😆

They never followed any legal procedure to nullify it ..it was forceful marriage but it was a real marriage with all rituals and witnesses..so that make it legal valid Marriage.

People do feel out of love after years even ..it's not like you got married once so there is no chance of divorce or separation without any expernal force .fight is normal but insecurities , imbalance etc becomes the reasons for divorce even ..

It was Adi's mistake in some way but he too not responsible for these mess 100%. .. situation made him take wrong decisions too..

Adi and Imlie ne kab romance Kiya ?? Muze to nahi dikha ..aur kar bhi Liya hota to it wasn't wrong ..they are husband wife and both love each other ..infact they were trying to find the way from that complicated situation..

She left Ts for her DD and faced all tortures from DD's mommy ( DD didn't bother to do anything accept giving token warnings to get mommy) and left Adi too later but as I said destiny jaisa bhi hota hai ..

Ekbaar Kismat be kuchh like Diya tumhaare liye wo milta hi hai ..Adi is her Kismat and so she got him ..

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

First of all Imlie is Aditya's wife ..it was forceful marriage but no one cared to nullify it ..none of the parties objected it legally so it's a valid marriage..

Where did she get mingled with married man?? Infact Malini got married with already married man , unknowingly hi Sahi but she did ..if your bf who is a serious person ,tell you that he had to marry some girl when he was on work but you just ignore it ..never try to think about it but just forget it as a joke then definitely your life turn to mess/ joke only..she is a professor not a teenage girl who dont think these kind of situations happen in the area where her fiance went for his work ..she was so desperate to marry him even though her mom always against it ..

So Imlie has to do everything for princess Malini??

An 18 years old girl with very much backward background ,no financial backup, no family backup ,not much knowledge of law and order, grew up in a belief of ladki ki shadi ek hi Baar hoti hai etc stood up for all the odds while putting her and her mother's life at risk and fight for princess Malini??

It's her choice that she wanted to stay with her husband ..if he followed her then it's her choice to come with him ( her husband)

Mithi never married to styakam again her choice..it's her choice to wait for dev ..they are village people poor one so they need to sacrifice for city Ladies the rich one???

People should understand that Adi - Malini marriage would break sooner than later w/o Imlie..spending time as a bf-gf is different thing and stay under one roof 24/7 as a husband wife is different...

@bold: couldn’t put it any better.

Originally posted by: Writer_Soul

Correction. Imlie never interfered remember, she was forcefully married.

She never told anyone truth, because it wasn't her place to tell and no one would have believed, as told to her by Aditya. Please watch episodes.

That time the marriage held meaning only for her, not Aditya. She never expected Aditya to fell in love with her, that's why she accepted Adini's marriage, even though she was hurt.

Imlie has never came between Adini. There problems started because of their own reasons. I am tired of explaining this. Already people have explained enough in this post that Aditya and Malini weren't compatible. They would have fallen apart Imlie or no imlie.

If Malini isn't a player, than neither is Aditya or Imlie. I am all in if Malini has spine to punish Aditya or call him out, but her giving him a free pass doesn't makes her sacrificial.

She hasn't let him go on her will, she HAS TO because she has no choice left. That is My main POINT. She may had rights on Aditya in past, but doesn't any more the moment he confessed he isn't in Love with her and the reality of their marriage.

she can get him arrested all she wants, Aditya is indeed wrong, but she isn't sacrificial.

So her boasting to Imlie about sacrifices she made for her, is nothing but hypocrisy and lies.

As u said malini is not sacrificial but letting go of someone whom u have loved for 7 years is not so easy imlie despite being married for sometime is unable to live without adi then how can u expect malini to forget everything in a whiff of a second she needs some time to accept the reality and move on

Appreciate the fact that she is trying to move on which she is failing as of now give her some space she has invested in her relationship with as well there would be a lot of emotional baggage as well here she is not only trying to move on but she is supporting adilie as well So plz if u can't appreciate her efforts atleast don't insult her for her strength & efforts to move on

Coming to other point u said that imlie didn't say truth bcoz it was not her place and adi didn't believe in marriage and all but she was still with him bcoz somewhere deep down she knew she was married no matter whether it was on gunpoint I bet she was always in love with him from day 1 might be attraction first later turned into love though she loved him silently she did love him whole heartedly that's fact

Whatever u mentioned of imlie u r right and also in other post mentioned that imlie is just 19 years old no back up and all but if seen imlie has stood against AC till recently before the revelation of dev being her father .When she can stand against the world for tripathi family then how come she never stood for herself in this entire scenario of she stood for then this mess wouldn't have happened in the first place at all

I mean showing courage only to AC and DC not before tripathi or others for that matter is she selective in her battles she has done a lot for Nishant pallavi and other members of tripathi clan but can't she be honest with them of what she has to face coz of their laadla son immature decisions which costed 3 lives altogether

Atlast agree to disagree lead is not one who sacrifices everything they r the one who stand for truth and be honest and have an open communication with their near and dear ones

Not saying malini is not at fault but the root of the mess is definitely adilie adi for his egoism and stupid decisions and imlie for being silent throughout this mess by giving message that man can do anything and the women in his life has to bear the brunt of it

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

They never followed any legal procedure to nullify it ..it was forceful marriage but it was a real marriage with all rituals and witnesses..so that make it legal valid Marriage.

People do feel out of love after years even ..it's not like you got married once so there is no chance of divorce or separation without any expernal force .fight is normal but insecurities , imbalance etc becomes the reasons for divorce even ..

It was Adi's mistake in some way but he too not responsible for these mess 100%. .. situation made him take wrong decisions too..

Adi and Imlie ne kab romance Kiya ?? Muze to nahi dikha ..aur kar bhi Liya hota to it wasn't wrong ..they are husband wife and both love each other ..infact they were trying to find the way from that complicated situation..

She left Ts for her DD and faced all tortures from DD's mommy ( DD didn't bother to do anything accept giving token warnings to get mommy) and left Adi too later but as I said destiny jaisa bhi hota hai ..

Ekbaar Kismat be kuchh like Diya tumhaare liye wo milta hi hai ..Adi is her Kismat and so she got him ..

First of u said they dint nullify the marriage which makes it real so my point is how to nullify a marriage with rituals ... Ulte phere liye tab nullify Hoga ? See there is no procedure for that. It all depends on belief system of person. That marriage got null and void when ADI denied to accept it.

Yes people do fall out of love ...if ADI felt out of love and even tried to make relationship work it's was acceptable . At the lawyer s office he hardly had reasons to divorce with Malini.

It's just that overnight he decided to be imli and Malini was nothing to him after that night. So it's nothing to do with compatibility and falling out of love but his love or realisation to be with imli. It's not wrong to say he discarded Malini like garbage so what if ADI was discarded as garbage or imli was discarded as garbage by ADI ? I doubt anyone of ul would accept it.

Edited by DT

I liked Malini today, I so wanted to see her being honest to herself on what she is going through.

It is not easy to move on from a 7 year relationship and am glad she was finally able to admit it to herself and KC.

She took the step towards the divorce because she understood that Aditya had fallen for Imlie and in a big way Malini did it because she came to know that Imlie was her sister and never enjoyed the upbringing that she had(would she have taken the step if Imlie was not her sister, I am not sure).

It was nice to see Malini and KC being completely honest with each other, I like their friendship. Malini's parents are extremely toxic though they love her, mother is cruel and her dad is very weak, you can see why she is not able to express her feelings to them.

I loved KCs advice to Malini of completely cutting of her relationship with Aditya and family and only meeting Imlie if Imlie wants her too, for Malini's own mental health and for her to move on. Aditya and Imlie relationship and their family is not her problem.

Unlike Imlie who is very strong and resilient, Malini is not very strong and she has toxic people as her parents, she does want to do the right thing but somewhere messes up further, I am glad to see her with someone like KC who understands her and is extremely honest with her and doesn't mince words, she needs someone like that to be with her.

Originally posted by: Panchhi1

They never followed any legal procedure to nullify it ..it was forceful marriage but it was a real marriage with all rituals and witnesses..so that make it legal valid Marriage.

People do feel out of love after years even ..it's not like you got married once so there is no chance of divorce or separation without any expernal force .fight is normal but insecurities , imbalance etc becomes the reasons for divorce even ..

It was Adi's mistake in some way but he too not responsible for these mess 100%. .. situation made him take wrong decisions too..

Adi and Imlie ne kab romance Kiya ?? Muze to nahi dikha ..aur kar bhi Liya hota to it wasn't wrong ..they are husband wife and both love each other ..infact they were trying to find the way from that complicated situation..

She left Ts for her DD and faced all tortures from DD's mommy ( DD didn't bother to do anything accept giving token warnings to get mommy) and left Adi too later but as I said destiny jaisa bhi hota hai ..

Ekbaar Kismat be kuchh like Diya tumhaare liye wo milta hi hai ..Adi is her Kismat and so she got him ..

They never followed any legal procedure to nullify it ..it was forceful marriage but it was a real marriage with all rituals and witnesses..so that make it legal valid Marriage.

So, what his marriage with Malini? That too happened with all the rituals

And for those you say - two adults married with consent - let me remind them - When Aditya married Imli - neither one of them HAD ANY CONSENT! They both DID NOT WANT the marriage - so there is absolutely no doubts about that

People do feel out of love after years even ..it's not like you got married once so there is no chance of divorce or separation without any expernal force .fight is normal but insecurities , imbalance etc becomes the reasons for divorce even ..

It is normal to feel "out of love" in which case - the two people involved discuss and arrive at a mutual consent to separate. Here it is quite the opposite.....all along Aditya LOVES Malini and then suddenly out of the blue - overnight - was not in love with her anymore. Not just that - he didn't even respect having any friendship with her. He is incorrigible to say the least

It was Adi's mistake in some way but he too not responsible for these mess 100%. .. situation made him take wrong decisions too..

oh WOW this is amazing

If all criminals used this excuse - we took a wrong decision - there would be no need for the laws. In a way you are right though - he didn't make a mistake. HE COMMITTED A CRIME!!! There is a big big and big difference between the two. If he had any doubts about his marriage with Malini - he could have stepped back. But he didn't! Not only he married her- he was totally in love with her. Called her moon and what not -

Aditya is not a baby who just took a wrong decision and then suddenly decides that he can rub anyone the wrong way to correct his mistakes. Sorry things don't work like that. Exactly why should Malini pay for his wrong decision?

Adi and Imlie ne kab romance Kiya ?? Muze to nahi dikha ..aur kar bhi Liya hota to it wasn't wrong ..they are husband wife and both love each other ..infact they were trying to find the way from that complicated situation..

Amazing you missed so many episodes of the puke romance

She left Ts for her DD and faced all tortures from DD's mommy ( DD didn't bother to do anything accept giving token warnings to get mommy) and left Adi too later but as I said destiny jaisa bhi hota hai ..

Let's be clear on this - the writers made her go to C house only so that she could record the video of AC's torture which only God can explain at what point she recorded that - so she could later use it to release Tripathis and win them all over. The only reason that track was done was the add another of Imli's mahanta to the already never-ending oh so lengthy list of mahantas

Ekbaar Kismat be kuchh like Diya tumhaare liye wo milta hi hai ..Adi is her Kismat and so she got him

But where was Imlie suppose to go ? She also was married to him on gun point and send to an unknown place with her so called husband....

So since she didnt know where she was suppose to go - how is Malini responsible for this? Aditya made her a servant in his house....Not Malini

Remember the first fight between Adi and Malini... it was Imlie who sorted the differences between them.

They are not the only couple who fought with each other - it is perfectly normal for couples to have disagreements. Even without Imli - the couple would have sorted out their differences. In fact Imli has a bad habit to just poke her nose in other people's business. In fact in one of the episodes Malini even had to remind her that is is bad manners to speak between husband and wife! Imli needed that - she has crossed her line many times

In fact Malini was the one who encouraged Aditya to atleast speak politely with Imli - he couldnt even stand a sight of her at that time

She even left everything to go to PD when Adi went to get her... She didn't call him. When she returned she went to the hostel not his house she didn't even contact him he found out and went to her hostel....

OfCourse Imli was enjoying all the attention from Aditya - only she didn't care to remind him that he was married to Malini at that point

And discourage his behaviors - why would she? She was secretly plotting to get the "bahu" status anyways

She had wanted to do more and more and more mahaan things to show to Aditya and Tripathis that she is the ultimate bechari

Heck she went to live with the Chaturvedis why??? For Malini

This I have answered above - just to add another feather in her mahanta cap!

Where did she get mingled with married man?? Infact Malini got married with already married man , unknowingly hi Sahi but she did .

So, the victim is the criminal here? What a joke

So Imlie has to do everything for princess Malini??

Who is the actual princess here? Malini or the Mahan Imli?

An 18 years old girl with very much backward background ,no financial backup, no family backup ,not much knowledge of law and order, grew up in a belief of ladki ki shadi ek hi Baar hoti hai etc stood up for all the odds while putting her and her mother's life at risk and fight for princess Malini??

If Imli believes that a girl gets married only once - ALL THE MORE REASONS- she should not have ruined Malini's home. If Imli had even a little bit of shame - she would have corrected her wrong deeds long time ago. And let me say this too - it's actually Imli who is the real princess here! The entire T house revolves around her little finger

People should understand that Adi - Malini marriage would break sooner than later w/o Imlie..spending time as a bf-gf is different thing and stay under one roof 24/7 as a husband wife is different...

This is just a baseless assumption and theory - that has no heads or tails

Lastly what sacrifice you are talking about? How has Malini ever sacrificed Aditya, when he was never hers to begin with. He didn't love her, than how she can give him to Imlie?

Another baseless assumption

First why does Malini need to sacrifice for Aditya? Just because she didn't take a bullet for him - she didn't sacrifice anything for him.

Again - even a blind person can tell that when Aditya married Malini - he was TOTALLY HEADS OVER HEELS IN LOVE WITH HER. May be ppl who have doubts on this go back and watch the episodes for their own revision!

Originally posted by: cts22

I liked Malini today, I so wanted to see her being honest to herself on what she is going through.

It is not easy to move on from a 7 year relationship and am glad she was finally able to admit it to herself and KC.

She took the step towards the divorce because she understood that Aditya had fallen for Imlie and in a big way Malini did it because she came to know that Imlie was her sister and never enjoyed the upbringing that she had(would she have taken the step if Imlie was not her sister, I am not sure).

It was nice to see Malini and KC being completely honest with each other, I like their friendship. Malini's parents are extremely toxic though they love her, mother is cruel and her dad is very weak, you can see why she is not able to express her feelings to them.

I loved KCs advice to Malini of completely cutting of her relationship with Aditya and family and only meeting Imlie if Imlie wants her too, for Malini's own mental health and for her to move on. Aditya and Imlie relationship and their family is not her problem.

Unlike Imlie who is very strong and resilient, Malini is not very strong and she has toxic people as her parents, she does want to do the right thing but somewhere messes up further, I am glad to see her with someone like KC who understands her and is extremely honest with her and doesn't mince words, she needs someone like that to be with her.

Agree with your post especially imlie being strong and resilient yes u right unlike malini imlie doesn't have toxic parents where meethi despite being a single mother given imlie good values and imbibed good sanskars in her

But here she saw her mother go through a lot bcoz of her silence might be her love for dev.She has silently endured all struggles even her daughter had to bear the brunt for no fault of her.

These days there is a short story trending how two sons grew up around an alcoholic father where one soon has become an alcoholic nand the other has decided to never ever touch alcohol in his life coz the second know of the repercussions of the thing

In the same way when imlie saw her mom struggle then how come she committed the same mistake her mother has done.Not saying the truth is equal to lies which she did she accepted it as well

I heard somewhere that by saying truth initially it might be difficult but later the path becomes easy on the other hand if u say lies or hide truth initially it may be easy but the going gets tough as the path progresses.

Here imlie took the other road she is facing the heat that's it there's no one else to blame here except adi that too for a certain extent only bcoz everything happened with her choice and decision only except the gunpoint marriage

I understand where you are coming from. Technically she didn't fast for a stranger but her husband, she was married to him before Malini. If Malini truly wants to sacrifice why does she keep going to their house.

Maybe we have different ways of looking at things but let's just agree to disagree 😊

If Malini is so Mahan and great to sacrifice her so could husband, want to give Imeli her rights then why each time she land in T house every time at the drop of hat. If she really want to sacrifice then she cut all the ties with Adi and T also. Jo sacrifice karte hai wo jatate nahi har wakt. I can understand her pain as she still in love with Adi. But every woman must have self respect if husband did not consider her wife then she must walk out from such marriage. Either take a stand for herself or cut the ties with Adi completely. But what Malini id doing either tiring to gain sympathy or hoping to still get Adi back .

And about Imeli why should she should sacrifice her love and husband . Till date she is doing the same but when Malini told her about her EMA then only she starts to take a step towards Adi.

And main point if Malini is so sacchi and acchi then just live the cheater like Adi and Imeli and move on with dignity.