Shivangi Khedkar/Pallavi AT#10 - Hungama Ho Gaya - - Page 82

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Wow Sharda, First of all Thanks for sharing your story to help me understand my question🤗

Secondly, that's such a sweet story . Your husband sounds like a gem of a person who understood that your thoughts needed to be listened to foremost👏 .

And yes, I agree. Actions will help us understand the other person more!

Wow! Aaplog humesha Happy raho🥳😎

Yes especially in South during that time - it was basically parents settling the matches and kids were supposed to just accept the decision. Oh my husband actually ran up a bill of $5000 talking to me in one month. Over the month we talked about everything - likes, dislikes, hobbies, movies, home dynamics(I was going from a nuclear family into a big joint family), Staying in US, weather and what not. That actually eased my tension and apprehensions. And even though we were meeting on Feb 4th for the marriage festivities, He landed a week earlier and made the journey to my home place to meet me in person and spend time with me. He landed on a Friday from US and boarded the train on Saturday to come to see me on Sunday and left back to home on Monday. Jet lag is a killer and I really don't know how he made all this possible - that too to spend a day with me. My husband is from Bangalore and I am from Rajahmundry so the train journey is around 20 hours. Yup I kind of knew he was the one for me when he did all this just so that I will be comfortable with him.

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaa I think virat anushka wedding video was a good example of how eyes speak ❤️

Ooh yes, that was the only celeb wedding that truly strung at my heart, when Anushka walked towards him and he had eyes only for her...it was such an aww moment

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaa I can understand it feels sheepish and cheesy when we say this but irl definitely harder to understand than how easily we write it .

But irl as well I am this very similiar to this . I love my bf's eyes 🤭

Its a kind of familiarity with those eyes that you understand how over time that when that person is happy or sad or excited , missing you .

Just like a smile - when we are close to someone we know which smile is fake , which is the actual happy smile or which is shy smile .

I dunno how well I explained 😅

Thanks for trying to explain🤗. So okays if you're familiar with the person you'll recognize what they're feeling.

Waah! Kaafi fida hain aap apne unnki aankhon par. Sahi jarahe ho😉

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Okays. So you have also seen these infront of you & figured this happens😛

It's just I have also seen people like this but never understood the 'How'😆

Guess, it'll take time!

Yup, maybe you will experience it yourself too 😊

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaa I can understand it feels sheepish and cheesy when we say this but irl definitely harder to understand than how easily we write it .

But irl as well I am this very similiar to this . I love my bf's eyes 🤭

Its a kind of familiarity with those eyes that you understand how over time that when that person is happy or sad or excited , missing you .

Just like a smile - when we are close to someone we know which smile is fake , which is the actual happy smile or which is shy smile .

I dunno how well I explained 😅

I totally get this ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: PSharada

I would say it is by actions you know that you would want to be with the person as a life partner. I can say my own experience. When my marriage was being settled(it was an arranged marriage) and like most of the marriages in south the parents settle it out by talking and discussing things. My husband was in US at that time working and I was just fresh out of my masters program and working. My in-laws absolutely loved my family and went ahead with fixing the alliance and everything within a month. Like they approached my family in Dec and my marriage was settled for Feb 6th. In all this I was not even talked to or consulted with. My In-laws did not even meet up with me other than just the formal seeing of me in my house. I was damn nervous and what not. This was in 2000s so there was no whatsapp calling or video calling. My husband when he came to know that the marriage date was fixed immediately called me home and talked to me. The very first thing he said was - Please do let me know if you are not comfortable with this match. I will call off the wedding and I will take the blame on myself and trust me no one will tell you anything. That was when I knew this was my life partner. And yes I am happily married to him after all these years.

Actions definitely lets you know if the person is one for you.

You truly have your Raghav in your life 😄

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Maybe it’s not just the eyes, it’s their body language overall. ❤️ They would pay undivided attention to you while talking, won’t look here and there, eyes will have this soft expression, sometimes that of amazement and a smile with which their eyes shine! Since there’s a lot of talk about eyes in these things, that’s probably why they say that eyes can tell 😆

Feel free to ask more😆🤗

I understand what you are trying to say but matlab I feel if someone gives me this much attention I'll run away & hide. I'll be like yeh Kaun hai jo mujhe aise dekh sakta hai jaise main khud ko nahi😆

And then undivided attention toh I'll also have to reciprocate na toh Hum dono apna kaam kab karenge🙈

Originally posted by: SONIA441

Okays. So you have also seen these infront of you & figured this happens😛

It's just I have also seen people like this but never understood the 'How'😆

Guess, it'll take time!

It will take falling in love I guess ❤️🤗

it’s beautiful to say the least!

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

Have no tear when Pallavi's AT is here, we love and bash everyone equally 😊

I absolutely agree with your points but specially the ones in bold. and to add further, i believe he went to jail for Pallavi, not just to save Keerthi. The Dufus thinks that this way he can give Pallavi some peace.

We have said this here before Pallavi gives things in double, so her love for Raghav will always mean more trust, more respect and more honesty from her to him. So she will also do stupid things, sometimes to just to get a reaction from him.

I somehow don't want an external situation to trigger that in Raghav, because it would feel like he needs her not want her something that we see even in the current situation, he hasn't explicitly mentioned or declared that he wants her for him, and that he in no situation is ever going to take her granted for like the Deshmukhs did. Definitely it would be good to watch him ache for her, but it can be done in a less dramatic situation no?

@Blue: Love reading long POVs

@Bold :- Yes if Raghav understands what Pallavi is to him then it would be absolutely perfect. But unfortunately since the marriage happened both Raghav and Pallavi are thrown into one situation after another without a respite. That is why an external trigger will help him realize things his heart and soul already knows but his mind is not actively accepting. His heart and soul needs Pallavi that is why he was sad when Amma suggested to free Pallavi but his mind did not fight back the suggestion because in his mind he feels he doesn't deserve this beautiful girl. Pallavi is on board this marriage with everything whereas Raghav's mind needs to come up on page with his heart and soul.

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

Yup, maybe you will experience it yourself too 😊

Filhaal toh aisa prateet nahi hota😆 . But Thanks 😄