Shivangi Khedkar/Pallavi AT#10 - Hungama Ho Gaya - - Page 81

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

hehehe..true, i would have felt the same way had i not seen people get smitten by their partners, like seriously absolutely smitten, and these are grown ass, practical people yet the way they look at their partners is simply so wonderful, like they are their start and end.

Yaa I think virat anushka wedding video was a good example of how eyes speak ❤️

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I am waiting for the day Raghav sees her behaviour towards Pallavi... Amma is a very good judge of character that way..not blind in love..

The only person I have expectations regarding Pallavi rn is amma only. She was upset initially but caught up with Kirti's reactions. And Kirti blatantly badmouthing Pallavi like that sealed the deal.

Originally posted by: PSharada

I would say it is by actions you know that you would want to be with the person as a life partner. I can say my own experience. When my marriage was being settled(it was an arranged marriage) and like most of the marriages in south the parents settle it out by talking and discussing things. My husband was in US at that time working and I was just fresh out of my masters program and working. My in-laws absolutely loved my family and went ahead with fixing the alliance and everything within a month. Like they approached my family in Dec and my marriage was settled for Feb 6th. In all this I was not even talked to or consulted with. My In-laws did not even meet up with me other than just the formal seeing of me in my house. I was damn nervous and what not. This was in 2000s so there was no whatsapp calling or video calling. My husband when he came to know that the marriage date was fixed immediately called me home and talked to me. The very first thing he said was - Please do let me know if you are not comfortable with this match. I will call off the wedding and I will take the blame on myself and trust me no one will tell you anything. That was when I knew this was my life partner. And yes I am happily married to him after all these years.

Actions definitely lets you know if the person is one for you.

Wow Sharda, First of all Thanks for sharing your story to help me understand my question🤗

Secondly, that's such a sweet story . Your husband sounds like a gem of a person who understood that your thoughts needed to be listened to foremost👏 .

And yes, I agree. Actions will help us understand the other person more!

Wow! Aaplog humesha Happy raho🥳😎

Originally posted by: parboni

Isi liye people are experiencing Mandar to pop up alive and take Pallavi away. Par I wish something else happens. Mandaar zinda hoga aur Pallavi bhaage bhaage sab bhul k uske paas slow motion mein bhaage bhaage jaayegi is too OTT even for my imaginations 🤢🤢🤢

Pallavi would never run back to Mandar but she still will go because she will be pressured by her responsibilities and obligations. She has huge respect for Mandar and wouldn’t be able to let him down but she loves Raghav as well. I feel if Mandar returns, it’s her turn to be in dilemma of who to choose like how Raghav is going through now.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Thank you for the welcome - The main forum is little too pessimistic for my liking today. So decided not to venture out there. I don't know why fans are cribbing about Raghav and calling Pallavi OTT when they are doing exactly what I envisioned their characters to do. Maybe I am at a phase in life where I can distinguish puppy love to deep soulful love connection.

What Raghav and Pallavi share is not puppy love - They are emotionally connected and intertwined into each other. The creatives have laid it out so nice in the show.

Raghav has emotional bonding with Farhad but even in his moments of despair he could never share his guilt, his story with him. Raghav unfortunately is stuck at the same place - as a 17 year old. He has not forgiven himself for the tragedy that befell his family. He understands the pain that Pallavi is going through but since he still holds himself responsible for the shattering of his family he can't do justice to Pallavi's pain. That is why he offered himself - saying I am willing to take the punishment for the sake of my sister. Is this twisted - Yes absolutely because like Pallavi says 2 wrongs don't make it right. But in many countries, US included for hit and run cases usually the victims settle with momentary compensation. In crude words it is usually the rich paying off the victim party for their misdeeds. Raghav is doing something similar - My sister caused the accident uska barpayi I am going to do by going to jail. In his mind he feels at least Pallavi will feel that the culprit's family served the sentence. Completely twisted idea of Justice - But I totally get why Raghav is like that.

Coming to Pallavi - why did she do the stupid stunt. Because their is no way other that that to be with Raghav. Raghav is on self-destruct mode and only Pallavi can stop him from doing so. Hence she didn't think twice before putting herself in tight spot and landing inside the jail. Pallavi is ahead in this relationship for 2 reasons - She has no emotional baggage in her life prior to Mandar's death and the second thing is she experienced the trigger which totally made her see the face of her baba when VD forced the stupid washing the feet condition on Raghav. She realized the true face of Vijay and the family she was clinging on to and decided to dump the past in past. Unfortunately our Raghav hasn't gotten the trigger yet where he can chuck the past in past and move to secure his present and future.

I really want Pallavi to be hurt in the upcoming track - Shot would be absolutely fantastic because Raghav needs a trigger to realize what he stands to lose if Pallavi is not in his life. Till now he feels that he is not deserving of the love he has gotten from her but once he sees her in life and death situation he will realize that you need to be greedy enough to grab onto your happiness. Otherwise when Mandar comes I wouldn't be surprised if the Gochu would step back and say - Pallavi you are free. It is not because Pallavi is not a priority for Raghav, it is solely because he feels undeserving of having a pure and innocent person like Pallavi love him with all her heart and soul. Hopefully the accident will serve as a trigger for Raghav to fight for his happiness.

Sorry for the long essay.

Have no tear when Pallavi's AT is here, we love and bash everyone equally 😊

I absolutely agree with your points but specially the ones in bold. and to add further, i believe he went to jail for Pallavi, not just to save Keerthi. The Dufus thinks that this way he can give Pallavi some peace.

We have said this here before Pallavi gives things in double, so her love for Raghav will always mean more trust, more respect and more honesty from her to him. So she will also do stupid things, sometimes to just to get a reaction from him.

I somehow don't want an external situation to trigger that in Raghav, because it would feel like he needs her not want her something that we see even in the current situation, he hasn't explicitly mentioned or declared that he wants her for him, and that he in no situation is ever going to take her granted for like the Deshmukhs did. Definitely it would be good to watch him ache for her, but it can be done in a less dramatic situation no?

@Blue: Love reading long POVs

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

hehehe..true, i would have felt the same way had i not seen people get smitten by their partners, like seriously absolutely smitten, and these are grown ass, practical people yet the way they look at their partners is simply so wonderful, like they are their start and end.

Okays. So you have also seen these infront of you & figured this happens😛

It's just I have also seen people like this but never understood the 'How'😆

Guess, it'll take time!

Originally posted by: Diya2021

Pallavi would never run back to Mandar but she still will go because she will be pressured by her responsibilities and obligations. She has huge respect for Mandar and wouldn’t be able to let him down but she loves Raghav as well. I feel if Mandar returns, it’s her turn to be in dilemma of who to choose like how Raghav is going through now.

Yeah,this kinda makes sense even though we'd all hate to see Pallavi going back to Deshmukh family.

Originally posted by: PSharada

I would say it is by actions you know that you would want to be with the person as a life partner. I can say my own experience. When my marriage was being settled(it was an arranged marriage) and like most of the marriages in south the parents settle it out by talking and discussing things. My husband was in US at that time working and I was just fresh out of my masters program and working. My in-laws absolutely loved my family and went ahead with fixing the alliance and everything within a month. Like they approached my family in Dec and my marriage was settled for Feb 6th. In all this I was not even talked to or consulted with. My In-laws did not even meet up with me other than just the formal seeing of me in my house. I was damn nervous and what not. This was in 2000s so there was no whatsapp calling or video calling. My husband when he came to know that the marriage date was fixed immediately called me home and talked to me. The very first thing he said was - Please do let me know if you are not comfortable with this match. I will call off the wedding and I will take the blame on myself and trust me no one will tell you anything. That was when I knew this was my life partner. And yes I am happily married to him after all these years.

Actions definitely lets you know if the person is one for you.

Sometimes when i hear stories like these i feel confident that no matter where we are but the world has not lost all the good in it. Its reassuring....

Originally posted by: SONIA441

So this isn't a question about the above exactly.

But I have always heard people say that Eyes can tell you whether a person truly adores you or whatever it's called.

I for one, have not either seen it or maybe never understood it when the case comes.

I mean how do you people say that in real life that - Yes, I know he/she is actually truly with us by just looking at their eyes

Thoda overboard question hua toh please ignore. I just have never found these answers so I always get confused when people discuss these things irl too

Maybe it’s not just the eyes, it’s their body language overall. ❤️ They would pay undivided attention to you while talking, won’t look here and there, eyes will have this soft expression, sometimes that of amazement and a smile with which their eyes shine! Since there’s a lot of talk about eyes in these things, that’s probably why they say that eyes can tell 😆

Feel free to ask more😆🤗

Originally posted by: parboni

Yeah,this kinda makes sense even though we'd all hate to see Pallavi going back to Deshmukh family.

even I don’t want that and that too when VD is there. Not sure how they are planning to show. Maybe Mandar would only be in FB. Let’s see.