Shivangi Khedkar/Pallavi AT#10 - Hungama Ho Gaya - - Page 80

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

I totally agree on this, very few actors can portray that, thus i always admire that when Raghav and Pallavi are around each other, they look at each other, try to read each other face rather than the world around them. Happens so many times that it feels so natural. Pyaar dikhta hai...

Also some of the VM makers have captured this so beautifully, made me fall in love with the two even more so.

Yea , Raghav as a person is very closed he doesn't voice out much of his inner thoughts ever unless he is close to that person . Pallavi has somewhere acknowledged that and she reads his eyes more so to understand him and he knows that .

Yaa those VMS❤️ got me started 😳

Originally posted by: parboni

+1

I started watching the show that way as well. Isi liye jab ppl say Raghav has no feelings for her I go:

https://tenor.com/9KmT.gif

Toh maine kya dekha???

Ikrrr I want to know who are they ? And which version of mhrw airs for them 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: PSharada

Thank you for the welcome - The main forum is little too pessimistic for my liking today. So decided not to venture out there. I don't know why fans are cribbing about Raghav and calling Pallavi OTT when they are doing exactly what I envisioned their characters to do. Maybe I am at a phase in life where I can distinguish puppy love to deep soulful love connection.

What Raghav and Pallavi share is not puppy love - They are emotionally connected and intertwined into each other. The creatives have laid it out so nice in the show.

Raghav has emotional bonding with Farhad but even in his moments of despair he could never share his guilt, his story with him. Raghav unfortunately is stuck at the same place - as a 17 year old. He has not forgiven himself for the tragedy that befell his family. He understands the pain that Pallavi is going through but since he still holds himself responsible for the shattering of his family he can't do justice to Pallavi's pain. That is why he offered himself - saying I am willing to take the punishment for the sake of my sister. Is this twisted - Yes absolutely because like Pallavi says 2 wrongs don't make it right. But in many countries, US included for hit and run cases usually the victims settle with momentary compensation. In crude words it is usually the rich paying off the victim party for their misdeeds. Raghav is doing something similar - My sister caused the accident uska barpayi I am going to do by going to jail. In his mind he feels at least Pallavi will feel that the culprit's family served the sentence. Completely twisted idea of Justice - But I totally get why Raghav is like that.

Coming to Pallavi - why did she do the stupid stunt. Because their is no way other that that to be with Raghav. Raghav is on self-destruct mode and only Pallavi can stop him from doing so. Hence she didn't think twice before putting herself in tight spot and landing inside the jail. Pallavi is ahead in this relationship for 2 reasons - She has no emotional baggage in her life prior to Mandar's death and the second thing is she experienced the trigger which totally made her see the face of her baba when VD forced the stupid washing the feet condition on Raghav. She realized the true face of Vijay and the family she was clinging on to and decided to dump the past in past. Unfortunately our Raghav hasn't gotten the trigger yet where he can chuck the past in past and move to secure his present and future.

I really want Pallavi to be hurt in the upcoming track - Shot would be absolutely fantastic because Raghav needs a trigger to realize what he stands to lose if Pallavi is not in his life. Till now he feels that he is not deserving of the love he has gotten from her but once he sees her in life and death situation he will realize that you need to be greedy enough to grab onto your happiness. Otherwise when Mandar comes I wouldn't be surprised if the Gochu would step back and say - Pallavi you are free. It is not because Pallavi is not a priority for Raghav, it is solely because he feels undeserving of having a pure and innocent person like Pallavi love him with all her heart and soul. Hopefully the accident will serve as a trigger for Raghav to fight for his happiness.

Sorry for the long essay.

You have written so beautifully. I usually don’t prefer this almost death scene for a person to confess his feelings but I agree with you, Raghav needs a trigger. He cares for her too much to surrender himself but hasn’t realised that he needs to express himself to her. She also needs to hear it in words what she means to him. Maybe after he comes out of jail, he might realise to what extent she has gone to save him.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Thank you for the welcome - The main forum is little too pessimistic for my liking today. So decided not to venture out there. I don't know why fans are cribbing about Raghav and calling Pallavi OTT when they are doing exactly what I envisioned their characters to do. Maybe I am at a phase in life where I can distinguish puppy love to deep soulful love connection.

What Raghav and Pallavi share is not puppy love - They are emotionally connected and intertwined into each other. The creatives have laid it out so nice in the show.

Raghav has emotional bonding with Farhad but even in his moments of despair he could never share his guilt, his story with him. Raghav unfortunately is stuck at the same place - as a 17 year old. He has not forgiven himself for the tragedy that befell his family. He understands the pain that Pallavi is going through but since he still holds himself responsible for the shattering of his family he can't do justice to Pallavi's pain. That is why he offered himself - saying I am willing to take the punishment for the sake of my sister. Is this twisted - Yes absolutely because like Pallavi says 2 wrongs don't make it right. But in many countries, US included for hit and run cases usually the victims settle with momentary compensation. In crude words it is usually the rich paying off the victim party for their misdeeds. Raghav is doing something similar - My sister caused the accident uska barpayi I am going to do by going to jail. In his mind he feels at least Pallavi will feel that the culprit's family served the sentence. Completely twisted idea of Justice - But I totally get why Raghav is like that.

Coming to Pallavi - why did she do the stupid stunt. Because their is no way other that that to be with Raghav. Raghav is on self-destruct mode and only Pallavi can stop him from doing so. Hence she didn't think twice before putting herself in tight spot and landing inside the jail. Pallavi is ahead in this relationship for 2 reasons - She has no emotional baggage in her life prior to Mandar's death and the second thing is she experienced the trigger which totally made her see the face of her baba when VD forced the stupid washing the feet condition on Raghav. She realized the true face of Vijay and the family she was clinging on to and decided to dump the past in past. Unfortunately our Raghav hasn't gotten the trigger yet where he can chuck the past in past and move to secure his present and future.

I really want Pallavi to be hurt in the upcoming track - Shot would be absolutely fantastic because Raghav needs a trigger to realize what he stands to lose if Pallavi is not in his life. Till now he feels that he is not deserving of the love he has gotten from her but once he sees her in life and death situation he will realize that you need to be greedy enough to grab onto your happiness. Otherwise when Mandar comes I wouldn't be surprised if the Gochu would step back and say - Pallavi you are free. It is not because Pallavi is not a priority for Raghav, it is solely because he feels undeserving of having a pure and innocent person like Pallavi love him with all her heart and soul. Hopefully the accident will serve as a trigger for Raghav to fight for his happiness.

Sorry for the long essay.

You know,you remind me of myself from a week ago. I too was fed up from too much pessimism in the main forum and decided to vent my thoughts and rant here. Tab se Pallavi thread become my home.

You're welcome here as well🤗

And I completely agree with your thoughts par this might be a Raghav fight sequence judging from his blood-covered shoulder photos.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

Sorry, I meant Raghav thinks she is been lying and all out of her fear. He hasn’t seen her behaviour with Pallavi and I’m not sure whether that’s going to come out ever. I still can’t understand Sunny’s strong influence on her. Today also he was trying to instigate her against Pallavi and she is just blindly falling for it. She seems to believe he can do anything for her.

Their relationship dynamics might have some connection with Mandaar's accident as well.

Originally posted by: SONIA441

So this isn't a question about the above exactly.

But I have always heard people say that Eyes can tell you whether a person truly adores you or whatever it's called.

I for one, have not either seen it or maybe never understood it when the case comes.

I mean how do you people say that in real life that - Yes, I know he/she is actually truly with us by just looking at their eyes

Thoda overboard question hua toh please ignore. I just have never found these answers so I always get confused when people discuss these things irl too

I would say it is by actions you know that you would want to be with the person as a life partner. I can say my own experience. When my marriage was being settled(it was an arranged marriage) and like most of the marriages in south the parents settle it out by talking and discussing things. My husband was in US at that time working and I was just fresh out of my masters program and working. My in-laws absolutely loved my family and went ahead with fixing the alliance and everything within a month. Like they approached my family in Dec and my marriage was settled for Feb 6th. In all this I was not even talked to or consulted with. My In-laws did not even meet up with me other than just the formal seeing of me in my house. I was damn nervous and what not. This was in 2000s so there was no whatsapp calling or video calling. My husband when he came to know that the marriage date was fixed immediately called me home and talked to me. The very first thing he said was - Please do let me know if you are not comfortable with this match. I will call off the wedding and I will take the blame on myself and trust me no one will tell you anything. That was when I knew this was my life partner. And yes I am happily married to him after all these years.

Actions definitely lets you know if the person is one for you.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Sunny doesn't have to do much to instigate Keerthi against Pallavi. She hates Pallavi enough on her own because of obvious reasons. Pallavi is the woman who according to her is in the way of her happiness with Sunny and now in the way of her freedom if she has to go to jail on murder charges. I think somewhere deep down she also doesnt like the fact that her amma is so close to Pallavi..

Kirti doesn’t seem to like anyone who comes in her way with Sunny. I really want to know how their relationship started and how Sunny has such a strong hold on her. Amma is close to Pallavi only recently but she always supported Kirti before so how come she seems to be a puppet of Sunny from the start. What was her mindset when she fell for him that has led to her feeling that Sunny is her world ? I have been curious from the time Sunny has been introduced.

Originally posted by: SONIA441

So this isn't a question about the above exactly.

But I have always heard people say that Eyes can tell you whether a person truly adores you or whatever it's called.

I for one, have not either seen it or maybe never understood it when the case comes.

I mean how do you people say that in real life that - Yes, I know he/she is actually truly with us by just looking at their eyes

Thoda overboard question hua toh please ignore. I just have never found these answers so I always get confused when people discuss these things irl too

Yaa I can understand it feels sheepish and cheesy when we say this but irl definitely harder to understand than how easily we write it .

But irl as well I am this very similiar to this . I love my bf's eyes 🤭

Its a kind of familiarity with those eyes that you understand how over time that when that person is happy or sad or excited , missing you .

Just like a smile - when we are close to someone we know which smile is fake , which is the actual happy smile or which is shy smile .

I dunno how well I explained 😅

Originally posted by: Diya2021

yeah, now it’s more than enough. We need him to express his feelings and maybe like some are saying, if something happens that makes him feel he will lose her, he will realise how important she is to him and express himself.

Isi liye people are experiencing Mandar to pop up alive and take Pallavi away. Par I wish something else happens. Mandaar zinda hoga aur Pallavi bhaage bhaage sab bhul k uske paas slow motion mein bhaage bhaage jaayegi is too OTT even for my imaginations 🤢🤢🤢

Originally posted by: parboni

Their relationship dynamics might have some connection with Mandaar's accident as well.

yeah that’s what I initially thought. Maybe he helped her through the trauma and that has led to her firm belief in him as a right partner for her. Today her consistent calls to Sunny made me feel she is actually a weak person. She needs that support from Sunny which he may have been doing from the time this happened.