Virat ko bash karne ke unlimited asaan tareeke - Page 5

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I won't excuse Virat for doing a few things just because his wife was at fault too. What he did was wrong so was wrong. He is rightly bashed and criticized but bringing the same topic again and again gets actually tiring. I see daily new posts are made on those old mistakes by him. Every day repeating the same thing isn't tiring ? 🤔 And then the audacity I see when Sai is bashed (which is hardly) or criticized people question how can you criticize her for that. I really want MODs to make two threads. Sai bashing thread and Virat bashing thread so that the forum becomes positive like before. I am tired of the negativity. Don't we come here for fun ? Or do we come here to fight ? 🤢 No wonder people have left. 🤢

Hi it looks like you misunderstood the point of my initial post. I in no way was defending virat's action but i can totally understand where he was coming from when he did that. Neither of us can say we havent done things in anger that we regret now.

I just made a point here that just because most of the members on the forum can relate to sai in terms of how she thinks and acts and use that as defense the same can be done for virat too if the things are thought through his perspective.

The most used trope of "domestic violence" here on the forum that most members use to make it sound like virat tortured his wife sounds a tad bit exaggerated to me since as her guardian he does have the tiniest bit of right for a firm discipline.

Most if not all children have had to be disciplined a little strictly atleast once in their lives and parents do rely on different methods for that. Some may ground their kids for a specific amount of time and the others spank their children. Although i do not condone spanking a child to get the point across the spanking isnt considered child abuse is it?

I totally agree that virat loses his control and the need of control and that tiniest bit of misogyny shines through his behavior time to time. Probably the unfortunate side effect of living with a controlling hard to please father and emotionally distant matriarch of the joint family.

But what sets virat and sai apart for me is the fact that virat tries his hardest to not let the ugly part of his being get control and when it does happen he apologises for his mistakes and atones for them sufficiently.

Sai on the other hand has that little "i know the best and i am always right" problem where she refuses to work on her character flaws and expects people to accept her as that. I dont see why anyone is obliged to love her when she speaks rudely and says things without even thinking through.

Virat is often targeted for the smallest of things saying he should have known better because he is an ACP and an IPS officer and i agree with a lot of points there but sai herself hasnt shown a lot of why she topped the entire state in her medical entrance exams.

Any student who has studied the basic bits of biology knows that stress for a heart patient can result in fatal health conditions. She knew of ninad's heart problems and yet decided that it was a good idea to manipulate and force them into coming for her show like that? We can all agree that ninad doesnt give two hoots about sai's life but surely the fear of prison can push an already sick person into severe stress and panic?

I would just like sai's faults being addressed as much as virat's faults are.

The only reason i feel soo strongly against sai about her faults is because of how poorly they are handled onscreen. Sai has never officially apologised to virat for what she does while virat has time and time again apologised whenever he felt he was in the wrong.

I am sorry if i looked like i was defending everything virat has done. Virat was a guardian and definitely should have handled this in a better way. There is no excuse for ousting a teenager out on the roads at night without a thought about her safety.

The thing that i am pissed about the most with virat is also for some reason the very thing that is least talked about in the forum. Virat was absolutely horrible to usha maushi. If the mistake was sai's for getting pulkit and devyani married he had no right to throw usha maushi out of the house too.

I do however apologise if i come off as a bit protective about virat and a little critical of sai

NVM. Not interested

kya hai bhai . What fun do you people have bringing up the past again and again.

everyone is jolly here after todays segment and episode. and Here you people are on some other tangent. Be jolly and let others also be.

I saw only one anti virat topic but thar was directed towards writers not virat.

Bekar me ashanti bs

Yaar this is why I barely check or comment on other threads except for the social media or DDT……..I’m tired of these Sasta Avengers Wars between Sai vs Virat……..

Everyone should instead bash Vanku like I do that’s a more useful use of your time and energy 😆

Originally posted by: chenjulia110

Hi it looks like you misunderstood the point of my initial post. I in no way was defending virat's action but i can totally understand where he was coming from when he did that. Neither of us can say we havent done things in anger that we regret now.

I just made a point here that just because most of the members on the forum can relate to sai in terms of how she thinks and acts and use that as defense the same can be done for virat too if the things are thought through his perspective.

The most used trope of "domestic violence" here on the forum that most members use to make it sound like virat tortured his wife sounds a tad bit exaggerated to me since as her guardian he does have the tiniest bit of right for a firm discipline.

Most if not all children have had to be disciplined a little strictly atleast once in their lives and parents do rely on different methods for that. Some may ground their kids for a specific amount of time and the others spank their children. Although i do not condone spanking a child to get the point across the spanking isnt considered child abuse is it?

I totally agree that virat loses his control and the need of control and that tiniest bit of misogyny shines through his behavior time to time. Probably the unfortunate side effect of living with a controlling hard to please father and emotionally distant matriarch of the joint family.

But what sets virat and sai apart for me is the fact that virat tries his hardest to not let the ugly part of his being get control and when it does happen he apologises for his mistakes and atones for them sufficiently.

Sai on the other hand has that little "i know the best and i am always right" problem where she refuses to work on her character flaws and expects people to accept her as that. I dont see why anyone is obliged to love her when she speaks rudely and says things without even thinking through.

Virat is often targeted for the smallest of things saying he should have known better because he is an ACP and an IPS officer and i agree with a lot of points there but sai herself hasnt shown a lot of why she topped the entire state in her medical entrance exams.

Any student who has studied the basic bits of biology knows that stress for a heart patient can result in fatal health conditions. She knew of ninad's heart problems and yet decided that it was a good idea to manipulate and force them into coming for her show like that? We can all agree that ninad doesnt give two hoots about sai's life but surely the fear of prison can push an already sick person into severe stress and panic?

I would just like sai's faults being addressed as much as virat's faults are.

The only reason i feel soo strongly against sai about her faults is because of how poorly they are handled onscreen. Sai has never officially apologised to virat for what she does while virat has time and time again apologised whenever he felt he was in the wrong.

I am sorry if i looked like i was defending everything virat has done. Virat was a guardian and definitely should have handled this in a better way. There is no excuse for ousting a teenager out on the roads at night without a thought about her safety.

The thing that i am pissed about the most with virat is also for some reason the very thing that is least talked about in the forum. Virat was absolutely horrible to usha maushi. If the mistake was sai's for getting pulkit and devyani married he had no right to throw usha maushi out of the house too.

I do however apologise if i come off as a bit protective about virat and a little critical of sai

It's ok don't say sorry. Initially even I used to criticize Virat a lot and hardly say anything to Sai because for me her character was one of the best ones. But since that DevKit track, I kind of feel we have lost that old Sai. Now I see a lot of things about her which I don't always agree even though I still love her. So yes I find it quite irritating that Virat's six months old misbehavior will be brought up today also while Sai's one is overshadowed because Virat's was a bigger one. If 70% of the topics can be about Virat than I think a few can be on Sai too even then we see how much she is defended and made her the devi. If Virat is rightly bashed then Sai is also rightly criticized. I am also tired of the counter posts. If a topic is made to bash Virat I see the same topic on Sai. If Sai is bashed then someone opens the same topic with Virat. Why make it a Sai vs Virat.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I won't excuse Virat for doing a few things just because his wife was at fault too. What he did was wrong so was wrong. He is rightly bashed and criticized but bringing the same topic again and again gets actually tiring. I see daily new posts are made on those old mistakes by him. Every day repeating the same thing isn't tiring ? 🤔 And then the audacity I see when Sai is bashed (which is hardly) or criticized people question how can you criticize her for that. I really want MODs to make two threads. Sai bashing thread and Virat bashing thread so that the forum becomes positive like before. I am tired of the negativity. Don't we come here for fun ? Or do we come here to fight ? 🤢 No wonder people have left. 🤢

Originally posted by: PrachalChandra

bashing for fun is fun... i feel its the part of the fanclub....😆

I do that every day in my post. 🤣

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I do that every day in my post. 🤣

For a moment, let’s just attribute all the characters like patriarchal, egoistic etc for virat and immature, trouble magnet etc for sai. Even then shouldnt we wait for the show to progress and see their character arcs changing for good?

We should discuss their behavior as a part of understanding the characters, but why arguing about how they should behave? If they behave idealistically, then where is the story? 😳

Unless they glorify what virat does or trivialize the actions of domestic violence or suicide we should not start a debate. Virats actions when he ousted or suspects her character are questioned by himself and other characters, so what’s the problem? We like virat and sai for their overall goodness. If they make mistake the show IS showing it as a mistake. So is it not fine?

ps: today’s hand holding i will ignore as blooper unless they bring it back to justify something. That scene was not needed at all.

Originally posted by: PrachalChandra

ikr... without bashing love and connection isnt felt🤣

Haan it gets so boring too. 😆 Maaze lo, aish karo aur kya. 😆