Episode Spoiler - 12 July 2021 - Page 6

Not a regular viewer but I see a lot of debate on priorities in life. Personally I feel like making a priority list of family members per se is very hard and it’s better to try and take decisions based on the situations. Just like some people had a problem with Aayi creating a ranking when she said a mother will always choose her kids over her spouse, I too believe ranking relationships are unnecessary. That being said, I don’t have experience in these things so you all probably know better.

Coming to this case, it isn’t as simple as priority priority. From Raghav’s point of view Keerthi going to jail will ruin her entire life while for Pallavi she’ll just be kept from closure. Then to guarantee her closure he was even willing to go to jail. The way he probably sees it is not getting closure is mentally draining. It’s also hard but Keerthi going to jail will be both mentally and physically draining with her future also ruined because her record will be tainted. As someone who has made mistakes himself, he probably feels like such harsh punishment is unnecessary if the person has changed. I’m not taking his side here, just saying that I don’t feel like priority case applies here because the impact on both of their lives will be difficult- if it were choosing between Pallavi and Keerthi going to jail then I would understand.
Otherwise I’m with Pallavi here and feel like the criminal must be punished. So many times te excuse of ruining their future is given to protect these people and I find it unfair.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This isn't a typical love story and he's not a hero, he's an anti-hero. I think seeing a soft Raghav made many people in the audience forget how we were introduced to him. The core characteristics won't go away and I am super happy to see the writers remind us of it. Makes it a lot more realistic. This is the same guy who put her in front of a speeding truck, and while he may never do that to her again, he still has it in him to do it to others if necessary.

Before announcing her undying trust in Raghav Pallavi should have atleast remembered these incidents and wondered how many women he has punished like that so far? Or will he be doing it again in future? May be she has short term memory loss like RR says😆

She said she chose him and made him her priority but has she really accepted him 100% for who he is? I think that's where her character's going slowly. Only she can asses it and learn where she'll draw the line.

She has accepted only one shade of his character which is caring husband/friend /family man and thinks its the whole of Raghav. She isn't even thinking about other aspects.

May be this incident will help her.

Also why did the makers completely butcher Keerthi?? I really liked her when she was against the marriage in the beginning and wanted to know if Pallavi was ok. Ever since Sunny came she is awful. Still her blind trust for Sunny can be for xyz reason because he’s been manipulative and lot of people in abusive relationships also can’t think straight. But what was that in the precap?🤢 Instead of going I know that I was wrong and I’m sorry but I have changed and have never even thought about driving irresponsibly since that day, she says nahi aati sharm, her brother will protect her, why did she meet Pallavi and throws down the plate. Just🤢

Originally posted by: hapc

Not a regular viewer but I see a lot of debate on priorities in life. Personally I feel like making a priority list of family members per se is very hard and it’s better to try and take decisions based on the situations. Just like some people had a problem with Aayi creating a ranking when she said a mother will always choose her kids over her spouse, I too believe ranking relationships are unnecessary. That being said, I don’t have experience in these things so you all probably know better.

Coming to this case, it isn’t as simple as priority priority. From Raghav’s point of view Keerthi going to jail will ruin her entire life while for Pallavi she’ll just be kept from closure. Then to guarantee her closure he was even willing to go to jail. The way he probably sees it is not getting closure is mentally draining. It’s also hard but Keerthi going to jail will be both mentally and physically draining with her future also ruined because her record will be tainted. As someone who has made mistakes himself, he probably feels like such harsh punishment is unnecessary if the person has changed. I’m not taking his side here, just saying that I don’t feel like priority case applies here because the impact on both of their lives will be difficult- if it were choosing between Pallavi and Keerthi going to jail then I would understand.
Otherwise I’m with Pallavi here and feel like the criminal must be punished. So many times te excuse of ruining their future is given to protect these people and I find it unfair.

@bold, this is where I think Amma's advice to Raghav will play an important part. She will want him to do what's good for Keerti in terms of her learning a lesson while also being a good husband by supporting Pallavi.

Perhaps Raghav needed to hear that from Amma to see that even as a mother she's willing to choose the difficult path and that she'd stand by him during the aftermath.

I would say today's episode was Beautiful - kudos to creatives for keeping the core traits of the characters intact - be it amma, Raghav, Pallavi or Keerti.

Amma - she totally understands what it is for Pallavi to get a closure about Mandar's death. And one look at Keerti I feel she understood that Keerti was wrong and that is why she advised Raghav to help her. I absolutely love her moral conviction. No wonder Raghav has gotten this trait from her.

Raghav - he never professed to be morally right. Had it been any other person who caused Mandar's death he would have given his everything to find the culprit and get closure to Pallavi. Unfortunately it turned out to be Keerti. Even then he could have destroyed the evidence and closed the matter - he didn't do that. He didn't even lash out at Pallavi for secretly recording Keerti's confession. He knew she would reach the culprit - he understands her pain and that is why he was not smug about what he did. He silently heard all of Pallavi's accusations and very calmly put his views out. There is no way he can bear the burden of losing one more family member even when they are the guilty party. I understand where he is coming from and even Pallavi does - it is tough luck for him.

Pallavi - you got to feel for her. Innocent girl who literally went through he'll for 2 years for no fault of her own. I felt bad when she was saying out her ordeal - of how she selected her mehendi design. Even Raghav was feeling bad. Does that mean she should stop pursuing the case ? No she needs closure as much as Mandar's family.

Keerti - it is very obvious that she doesn't have the strong moral conviction that Amma or Raghav have. She might be saving Sunny but still it doesn't make her crime less. I really hope after this Amma and Raghav say that even though they consider her family they are going to distance themselves from her for causing and hiding the accident. Keerti should go through the same treatment that Raghav was given earlier. Only then she will realise what she did was wrong on so many levels.

All in all I can say this show has delivered a superb episode where truth and reality is depended on the persons POV. Hats off.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, this is where I think Amma's advice to Raghav will play an important part. She will want him to do what's good for Keerti in terms of her learning a lesson while also being a good husband by supporting Pallavi.

Perhaps Raghav needed to hear that from Amma to see that even as a mother she's willing to choose the difficult path and that she'd stand by him during the aftermath.

it was amma who had ostracised him for his past actions.. held him guilty for destroying their family that till date he carries the burden and would prolly carry it lifelong. today he stands at a similar position of losing keerthi. But, to probably hear it from amma to let go of keerthi and stand by pallavi.. that is where amma understood why raghav did what he did.. amma is extremely astute.. he doesnt want his amma to accuse him again of taking away keerthi from her after his dad and bro... that keerthi who was with amma during the 10 most difficult years of her life..

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, this is where I think Amma's advice to Raghav will play an important part. She will want him to do what's good for Keerti in terms of her learning a lesson while also being a good husband by supporting Pallavi.

Perhaps Raghav needed to hear that from Amma to see that even as a mother she's willing to choose the difficult path and that she'd stand by him during the aftermath.

I guess with amma by his side he ll think about this in a new light. Because amma clearly saw kirti had no remorse or guilt while she saw how devastated Raghav was tough he was not the one to kill her husband n son. But still d guilt n repentance was sincere but kirti has gone far away for being morally right d way she badmouthed pallavi and was trying to add ghee to amma anger showed amma how much wrong it ll be to shield kirti. A mother knows when the child s guilty n remorseful come what may nothing remains hidden from d eyes of a mother.

She truely s a strong lady to stand for right even if it is against her own children she stood by pallavi against Raghav she ll stand against kirti too coz she knows accident was not deliberate but what she s trying to do now s deliberate n morally wrong. Hope cvs show some retrospection from Raghav n he can find a middle way to punish kirti without getting her lif spoiled.

I like the fact that despite of knowing that they are hurting each other by their actions, they have their priorities set very clear in their minds..that's how strong the conviction is on their respective beliefs and intentions. Raghav stands to lose both ways which is why his earlier statement about his family getting destroyed if the truth comes out makes sense.. If Keerthi goes to jail, ofcourse he and Amma will be mentally devastated and Keerthi's life will be finished.. but if he saves Keerthi from the punishment she deserves, then his and Pallavi's relationship, who is also family now will take a major blow. Imagine having to live in a house where you know your sister is responsible for the death of your wife's ex husband.. he is indeed in a very tough spot and I get his reasons to priorotize which family needs to be saved at this point..its someone's future versus a past closure ..Only if Keerthi had acted like someone who deserved that consideration.

Keerti jis bhai ke dum par itna uchhal rahi hai

She has no idea he's going to come with everything he has when he comes to know its Lampat

I think Lampat is jealous of the bonds Rao family has

Keerti was sane till we saw the entry of Lampat in her life

Matters not relating and not fuelled by him she is sane

Raghav saying " apne bhai aur pita ka boj uthakar chal raha " hit me hard. It clearly indicates Amma forgiving him hasn't stopped him from blaming himself.

It also indicated to me in future when Krishna Rao appears he is going to forget every promise he ever made to Pallavi and will be doing everything and anything to avenge his family. Will Pallavi be able to handle?