Episode Spoiler - 12 July 2021 - Page 5

Pallavi got a clue after 2 years and now she is turned into a jet

She's just thinking of justice giving answers to Deshmukh family

I think they were her sole purpose in life and now that she's moved on May be feels guilt of her changing priorities

She should have taken Amma into confidence

I agree somewhere Keerti has suffered due to the loss of her dad and both brothers but this much anger and hatred she has for Raghav somewhere even Amma is responsible Keerti must have been what 14-15 when that incident happened

I hope they don't make her an overnight abla who has been blackmailed by Lampat all along

After her mms when they introduced Lampat and his pc was shown I thought kahin Jr has not dled those pics or something else on Keerti

Don Raghav

Khurraat Raghav

Kameena Raghav

Kagan toh I thought he said sorry for future because he was going to surrender and he tune its kiya but loved it

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, he told her at the train station that he'd make her/her happiness his first priority, right? He hasn't stopped trying since then. Right now though, he has two conflicting priorities that he can't choose between without some collateral damage. So he's going with what he thinks is the lesser of two evils.

I just think they aren't on the same page as a couple, which is understandable since they are still getting to know each other. The fact that she has to ask him if he doesn't care about her feelings already shows that she doesn't see the side of him that we see, the emotional suffering he's been through since he found out about Mandaar. When he said main har cheez bolta nahin it wasn't just about love or romance, it was also about how he views her and this relationship. He knows and understands her need to punish the culprit, which is why he offers himself up, otherwise he would have shut everything down and not let her punish anyone.

Raghav could have tried to explain his perspective and it's something he's going to learn the hard way, but I think he feels she doesn't understand him or isn't in the right headspace to understand. I think he's further ahead in the relationship spiritually, so none of what she's said or done so far is a surprise. He anticipated all this, which is why he had that breakdown outside the D-house. Why me? How am I going to handle all this? If he'd had to be ruthless about all this without caring for her feelings, he wouldn't be tormented. He never once claimed to be doing the morally right thing, rather he's focused on doing what he thinks is right for his family.

No, I am not bashing Pallavi or Raghav. They are both right in their own way. I'm just saying that as an audience we see a lot more of the 360 than they do, which is why their reactions aren't always 'as people would expect'. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing couldn't be truer than what we're seeing here.

I can't believe I'm saying this but short of Mandaar actually being alive, I'm not sure I see a way forward.

U have summed up everything prety much dear really awesome understanding of d dynamics.

Both r stuck in a whirlwind. Whichever direction they take the end of the day hurt s what will come in their share. D said sister s busy with BEINTAHA pasta.

For whom she s fighting s dead for whom he s fighting is too ungreatful to see his sufferings. I just hope the damage done will not be too much. I m not worried about what Raghav ll think of pallavi coz he has already understood her stand n knows she s right n he is wrong. He s also not happy or smug about being wrong. He s also equally pained at being on d wrong side especially being against her but he s helpless.

Hope things get cleared soon..

Originally posted by: Jiarao

1. I am too Jean. I hope he stays like that. The mysterious Raghav Rao.

2. Ofcourse about staying in marriage. She is absolutely right about giving justice to Mandar. Keerti deserves punishment ( if she was the one driving)

3. Some lessons are learnt hard way.

This isn't a typical love story and he's not a hero, he's an anti-hero. I think seeing a soft Raghav made many people in the audience forget how we were introduced to him. The core characteristics won't go away and I am super happy to see the writers remind us of it. Makes it a lot more realistic. This is the same guy who put her in front of a speeding truck, and while he may never do that to her again, he still has it in him to do it to others if necessary.

She said she chose him and made him her priority but has she really accepted him 100% for who he is? I think that's where her character's going slowly. Only she can asses it and learn where she'll draw the line.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@Bold.. this says it all. I completely agree with your post.

I guess all we can do s wait for the CV'S.

pallavi s not immature to misunderstand his intensions.

She knows he ll do this. N she has also accepted that he s not doing anything to stop her from reaching culprit he could have done lot more to stop n hush d case but he chose to be quite n stay behind d curtain. He s closing d door to kirti but has kept the door open for himself.

Lot of things r dre which one sees when u see from d point of view of d person u love. That makes a lot of difference..

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

I guess all we can do s wait for the CV'S.

pallavi s not immature to misunderstand his intensions.

She knows he ll do this. N she has also accepted that he s not doing anything to stop her from reaching culprit he could have done lot more to stop n hush d case but he chose to be quite n stay behind d curtain. He s closing d door to kirti but has kept the door open for himself.

Lot of things r dre which one sees when u see from d point of view of d person u love. That makes a lot of difference..

@bold, loved this line! Perfect description.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well said.

I totally believe that if Raghav can't stop Keerti going to jail it will destroy him as well as Amma. He can't be a good husband to Pallavi not because he won't be able to love her but because his guilt and hatred of his failure will outweigh all the good in their relationship, especially after what happened to his family and how hard he's fought to get Amma and Keerti back. When Raghav says he's choosing the future, he is choosing her to be in that future with him, wholly.

If Pallavi drops the case to prevent Raghav going to jail (because clearly she'd lose the battle to stop him from manipulating the police, courts, etc.), she can't get mental peace knowing Mandaar's killer wasn't punished. I wonder if she'd be more at ease if the Ds forgave Raghav eventually, although I am skeptical about Sanki ever doing so. The way things are going, she might be better off going back to live with Mandaar, whether or not he's a good guy. I still believe that he might have been involved in shady stuff but could've still been a good husband, so no difference between Raghav and him in terms of moral code.

Actually raghav is not wrong in offering hself for the pusnishment.. yes he did not do the deed but everything else after till date is also punishable. that should satisfy pallavi..

re.. mandaar.. i agree.. even today she spoke of a happy married life with him.. now that her own second married life is not really a bed of roses.. it isnt about raghav perse.. its about the kind of situation they are in.. what has happened in the past.. raghav and pallavi never met.. but still the amount of grief he has caused her due to past cannot be undone.. she should reconsider..

Raghav was so right when he was crying by her bedside.. their destinies were entwined even before they met and he has only brought misery to her life..

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she might have been naive and idealistic when she had those rosy dreams of a married life with Mandaar, which is why her life as a widow in that house wasn't smooth sailing. Now she has a second chance at life but hasn't stopped to think about the long-term. For her, it's been very much living in the moment, which I understand.

Raghav was willing to send her away for her own good not just to release her but also because seeing the long-term he knew that life with him would never be a walk in the park. If it weren't for this Keerti accident track it would have been something else. She decided on the spot not to go and proceeded with hitting with with a broom. It might have seemed funny and cute but now her eyes are opening to the fact that there's this whole other dimension that she hadn't considered. Raghav is not like other people that she'd usually encounter in her daily life and neither are his views on life, love, and relationships.

For the first time since I started watching the show I'm starting to disagree that Raghav has learned or has to learn from Pallavi about relationships. There's a whole other aspect that he's well versed in that she has no clue or experience about. I think they can both learn from each other but she's no torch bearer.

On a side note, I know it was briefly mentioned by Sunny in the precap, what issue do you have with the brother-sister bond? but it made me think back to her treatment of Siddesh, whose words she ignored when he asked her to return to Kolhapur with him, and whose love and care as an almost-parent she valued less than the Ds.

She was blind to the faults of the Ds, and her bhabi's words still ring true. I am hoping they explore this at some point.

D family ki kahani nakko re. They r a bunch of panautis.

I didn't like her treatment of her own brother. He was doing what was in her best interest. Can understand his stand when they accused her of abortion n also for going away on sangeet night n all that. But that's what we do in real life too don't we, we take our loved ones for granted everytime. Where there s blood there s a right over the person we don't think if it ll hurt them n all. N when we realise n d matter s closed because the pull of blood s dre.

But they didn't show her apologising to him is what I didn't like.

She should have apologized for her behaviour n also behaviour of d family..

Atleast they should have shown her to be guilty about that. That was a major flaw they showed in Her.

Hope she ll realise now seeing Raghav n kirti that her brother was also like Raghav. He would none of it if someone accused his sister.

Let's see aur kya kya dhamake hai.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

D family ki kahani nakko re. They r a bunch of panautis.

I didn't like her treatment of her own brother. He was doing what was in her best interest. Can understand his stand when they accused her of abortion n also for going away on sangeet night n all that. But that's what we do in real life too don't we, we take our loved ones for granted everytime. Where there s blood there s a right over the person we don't think if it ll hurt them n all. N when we realise n d matter s closed because the pull of blood s dre.

But they didn't show her apologising to him is what I didn't like.

She should have apologized for her behaviour n also behaviour of d family..

Atleast they should have shown her to be guilty about that. That was a major flaw they showed in Her.

Hope she ll realise now seeing Raghav n kirti that her brother was also like Raghav. He would none of it if someone accused his sister.

Let's see aur kya kya dhamake hai.

@bold CVs are you reading this? Can we get Siddesh back please? If Rama can come why can't he?

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

Actually raghav is not wrong in offering hself for the pusnishment.. yes he did not do the deed but everything else after till date is also punishable. that should satisfy pallavi..

re.. mandaar.. i agree.. even today she spoke of a happy married life with him.. now that her own second married life is not really a bed of roses.. it isnt about raghav perse.. its about the kind of situation they are in.. what has happened in the past.. raghav and pallavi never met.. but still the amount of grief he has caused her due to past cannot be undone.. she should reconsider..

Raghav was so right when he was crying by her bedside.. their destinies were entwined even before they met and he has only brought misery to her life..

@bold, if nothing else that scene alone should tell everyone how agonizing it is for him to be in that position, to be hurting so much not just because of the dilemma but also for being the cause of her pain by his current actions. He knew how this was going to play out. He's not surprised by any of it.

I don't want her to return to Mandaar because it's her only option. I'd rather she stay alone than with a husband who she can't see a future with. If she goes to Mandaar it should be for who he is and what she believes she can build with him as a good life. With Raghav, I don't think she's ever discussed it, which is part of the problem, and if Mandaar appears soon, then chances are they won't have time for this discussion before the legal drama begins about who's wife she is.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, loved this line! Perfect description.

It is in his power to close all doors on her but he didn't that speaks a lot. He s a very complex character n has many layers to his personality.

Tough he was a don he never punished an innocent. N was never morally wrong. He used loopholes in buisness but never troubled good people. He was goonda to people who crossed his path n pushed his wrong buttons. Even during his bet with pallavi he was a fair buisnessman. Only time he did unforgivable mistake was when he defamed pallavi.

He even left BWA for doing all those things to his amma n kirti coz she was her family. Says a lot of things.

He took pallavi out in that barood ki gaadi scandal coz he know she was innocent.

Lot more to explore. Now i m also a full speed pankha of RR like sai. Even sai s like my favourite IN show s RR.

He knows he s grey n he doesn't hide it he accepts it. If he were guilty about it he would have choose hides those traits.