Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#26 Aa Dekhe Zara Kisme Kitna Hai Dum - Page 82

Originally posted by: sumaishu

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Dono ka birthday ek hi din me celebrate kar diya🤭

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

You need to sort out your feelings first by distancing from both guys.

Reflect on your relationship with your bf- do you even want him.. will you miss him?

You are emotionally cheating for a reason..

I hope I know your Ahaan IRL, not just an online thing.

No no 😆

We were good friends, we were batchmates n classmates during college.

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Not an expert in advising. Still I would like to say what I think.

First of all try to sort your mind and ask whom you actually like and why? Do you actually like any of the two?

Many times we think we like someone but when we actually start to know each other well or come closer then we realize that's not the case.

After sorting your mind you can try to develop your friendship with the one you said to be Ahaan and try to know him better but in a way that you are careful that you don't give him false expectations.

Then if you get sure , you can tell him what's in your mind.

I am saying this by only my understanding of your situation, baaki to you should decide carefully about your life.😁

Absolutely.

I do not want to be in a romantic relationship with him anytime soon.

We were both classmates and I suddenly stopped talking to him because of the guy I was dating.

So, now that I'm single. It won't be too bad to probably catch up with a "Hey, how's your work n fam etc"

I'm totally okay if he's dating someone else. I'd be happy for him infact.

But the abrupt distance that we had always bothered me, so I guess it's not too bad to ask his "haal-chaal" and talk like friends?

Originally posted by: _RS_

Need an advice.

Asked this on Twitter, gonna ask it here as well.

There was this guy I liked a lot, he liked me too. But we never really got together because I said no.

My situation was sort of like Ahaan, I was dating another guy. The difference was, Ahaan was dating Rhea for 2 years and I had just started to date a guy it had not even been an entire month.

But I always considered myself as the most loyal and faithful gf ever, so develop feelings for another guy even if the relationship was not even 1 month old. For me, it wasn't right.

And when this guy, let's call him Ahaan.

So when Ahaan proposed to me, I said no. I told him, that I can't be with you cuz I have someone else in my life. He told me, if you're doubting your feelings for him even for a second then maybe that's just not what you want.

But I did not have the guts to go up to the guy I was dating and tell him that I infact have very strong feelings for someone else. I was a coward.

So, whatever had to happen happened. Me and Ahaan, we distanced ourself with time.

And as of now, we have not talked to each other from the last 2 years. Initially, I thought it is just a matter of time that I'd stop thinking about him.

But I think about him even today. I have dreams about him once in a while, and no matter how close are we to kiss each other. We never kiss. There is always something that stops us. Always.

This morning, I had a dream where I wanted to msg him.

So...the crux is..I messaged him a "Hi Ahaan"

Did I do something too wrong? 😭

Since u are not married, I believe u have right to choose. You can always date guys, date to know who can be best suited. Dating does not necessarily means u have to promise that person that you will marry. Love is a feeling. Marriage is a life long promise. Be with the guy with whom u can spend ur life.

Thts my suggestion.

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

Since u are not married, I believe u have right to choose. You can always date guys, date to know who can be best suited. Dating does not necessarily means u have to promise that person that you will marry. Love is a feeling. Marriage is a life long promise. Be with the guy with whom u can spend ur life.

Thts my suggestion.

Ishq Par Zor Nahi 🤣🤣

You guys, you people are love ❤️

I'm actually a very secretive person irl. And only one of my friends knew about my feelings.

But you people have been such sweethearts to throw some light.

Can i ask for some advice too esp from married members here,im a little down today coz of my buaji,she called and brought a rishta for me but i clearly told earlier i do not wish to get married till financialy im good...i feel like crying because this has been constant going on for the past few years my parents are supportive but i feel miserable that they hv to hear from my aunt.she makes it feel im a burden to my parents pls help anyone

Originally posted by: jacinta_91

Can i ask for some advice too esp from married members here,im a little down today coz of my buaji,she called and brought a rishta for me but i clearly told earlier i do not wish to get married till financialy im good...i feel like crying because this has been constant going on for the past few years my parents are supportive but i feel miserable that they hv to hear from my aunt.she makes it feel im a burden to my parents pls help anyone

I married when I was not working. I started working after my marriage. In case u r getting married, say aloud to ur wud be in-laws u wish to work in future.

For ur buaji- the message u shld give is - U can only earn respect when u give the same. If u r not respecting me, dont expect respect from me.

On this note, Shehnahi s pretty good series...althgh I watched till ep 20 only😆

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

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jumping jumpang wale steps Nikal do to dance utna bura nahi lagta.

🤪🤣

really nice vm 👍🏼

Originally posted by: anjani-pagli

I married when I was not working. I started working after my marriage. In case u r getting married, say aloud to ur wud be in-laws u wish to work in future.

For ur buaji- the message u shld give is - U can only earn respect when u give the same. If u r not respecting me, dont expect respect from me.

On this note, Shehnahi s pretty good series...althgh I watched till ep 20 only😆

I see but what if im not ready yet, marriage is a big commitment and i feel till mentally i am not ready i shouldnt take any hasty decision.the problem is my buaji calls up my elder uncle and talks about me and says all kind of things....but the irony thing is when their kids were getting married neither my dad or mom or us interfered because we felt its their wish but it doesnt seem the same with us.i was just sick and tired and emotionally drained so i ask for advice

Originally posted by: jacinta_91

Can i ask for some advice too esp from married members here,im a little down today coz of my buaji,she called and brought a rishta for me but i clearly told earlier i do not wish to get married till financialy im good...i feel like crying because this has been constant going on for the past few years my parents are supportive but i feel miserable that they hv to hear from my aunt.she makes it feel im a burden to my parents pls help anyone

I am not married but am at an age where my family is too looking forward to getting me married, also in my family I have cousin sisters elder and of same age as me who are not married yet. So this I speak from a lot of experience.

Your parents need to be strong and supportive of you and they can tackle your aunts and uncles in their own way, you don’t need to say anything. When you, being the younger person starts to give answers, that is when people start with the taunts and stuff.