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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _RS_

I am not dating the guy anymore.

It's been a few months that we broke up and he actually always indirectly/directly knew that I had feelings for that guy. 🤢

He infact knew that I would have been with that guy if he wouldn't have been there in my life.

Like how, Rhea since the beginning knew that Ahaan liked Ishqi.


Deleted because idont know if im giving the right advice,sorry dear

Edited by jacinta_91 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Haha. Lol. I thought that you indeed wrote Ahaan. 😆

Also, my apologies but I don't think I would be of any help but I would sincerely hope you find yourself doing the best for yourself and the other folks. ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _RS_

Need an advice.

Asked this on Twitter, gonna ask it here as well.

There was this guy I liked a lot, he liked me too. But we never really got together because I said no.

My situation was sort of like Ahaan, I was dating another guy. The difference was, Ahaan was dating Rhea for 2 years and I had just started to date a guy it had not even been an entire month.

But I always considered myself as the most loyal and faithful gf ever, so develop feelings for another guy even if the relationship was not even 1 month old. For me, it wasn't right.

And when this guy, let's call him Ahaan.

So when Ahaan proposed to me, I said no. I told him, that I can't be with you cuz I have someone else in my life. He told me, if you're doubting your feelings for him even for a second then maybe that's just not what you want.

But I did not have the guts to go up to the guy I was dating and tell him that I infact have very strong feelings for someone else. I was a coward.

So, whatever had to happen happened. Me and Ahaan, we distanced ourself with time.

And as of now, we have not talked to each other from the last 2 years. Initially, I thought it is just a matter of time that I'd stop thinking about him.

But I think about him even today. I have dreams about him once in a while, and no matter how close are we to kiss each other. We never kiss. There is always something that stops us. Always.

This morning, I had a dream where I wanted to msg him.

So...the crux is..I messaged him a "Hi Ahaan"

Did I do something too wrong? 😭


You need to sort out your feelings first by distancing from both guys.


Reflect on your relationship with your bf- do you even want him.. will you miss him?


You are emotionally cheating for a reason..

I hope I know your Ahaan IRL, not just an online thing.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _RS_

I am not dating the guy anymore.

It's been a few months that we broke up and he actually always indirectly/directly knew that I had feelings for that guy. 🤢

He infact knew that I would have been with that guy if he wouldn't have been there in my life.

Like how, Rhea since the beginning knew that Ahaan liked Ishqi.


Oh my bad😆


In that case. Try to talk to Ahaan

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Posted: 4 years ago

Item hi hai hum sab 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Item hi hai hum sab 🤣


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Posted: 4 years ago

Happy Birthday Nandini. 🥳Many many happy returns of the day. 🎂🍰

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

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Yuhuu. Due to some reason, I was Thora sa down. This refreshed my mood. Thanks for entairtaining us with your great work always ❤️.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: _RS_

Need an advice.

Asked this on Twitter, gonna ask it here as well.

There was this guy I liked a lot, he liked me too. But we never really got together because I said no.

My situation was sort of like Ahaan, I was dating another guy. The difference was, Ahaan was dating Rhea for 2 years and I had just started to date a guy it had not even been an entire month.

But I always considered myself as the most loyal and faithful gf ever, so develop feelings for another guy even if the relationship was not even 1 month old. For me, it wasn't right.

And when this guy, let's call him Ahaan.

So when Ahaan proposed to me, I said no. I told him, that I can't be with you cuz I have someone else in my life. He told me, if you're doubting your feelings for him even for a second then maybe that's just not what you want.

But I did not have the guts to go up to the guy I was dating and tell him that I infact have very strong feelings for someone else. I was a coward.

So, whatever had to happen happened. Me and Ahaan, we distanced ourself with time.

And as of now, we have not talked to each other from the last 2 years. Initially, I thought it is just a matter of time that I'd stop thinking about him.

But I think about him even today. I have dreams about him once in a while, and no matter how close are we to kiss each other. We never kiss. There is always something that stops us. Always.

This morning, I had a dream where I wanted to msg him.

So...the crux is..I messaged him a "Hi Ahaan"

Did I do something too wrong? 😭

Not an expert in advising. Still I would like to say what I think.

First of all try to sort your mind and ask whom you actually like and why? Do you actually like any of the two?


Many times we think we like someone but when we actually start to know each other well or come closer then we realize that's not the case.


After sorting your mind you can try to develop your friendship with the one you said to be Ahaan and try to know him better but in a way that you are careful that you don't give him false expectations.


Then if you get sure , you can tell him what's in your mind.


I am saying this by only my understanding of your situation, baaki to you should decide carefully about your life.😁

Edited by Physics_girl - 4 years ago

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