Originally posted by: _RS_
Need an advice.
Asked this on Twitter, gonna ask it here as well.
There was this guy I liked a lot, he liked me too. But we never really got together because I said no.
My situation was sort of like Ahaan, I was dating another guy. The difference was, Ahaan was dating Rhea for 2 years and I had just started to date a guy it had not even been an entire month.
But I always considered myself as the most loyal and faithful gf ever, so develop feelings for another guy even if the relationship was not even 1 month old. For me, it wasn't right.
And when this guy, let's call him Ahaan.
So when Ahaan proposed to me, I said no. I told him, that I can't be with you cuz I have someone else in my life. He told me, if you're doubting your feelings for him even for a second then maybe that's just not what you want.
But I did not have the guts to go up to the guy I was dating and tell him that I infact have very strong feelings for someone else. I was a coward.
So, whatever had to happen happened. Me and Ahaan, we distanced ourself with time.
And as of now, we have not talked to each other from the last 2 years. Initially, I thought it is just a matter of time that I'd stop thinking about him.
But I think about him even today. I have dreams about him once in a while, and no matter how close are we to kiss each other. We never kiss. There is always something that stops us. Always.
This morning, I had a dream where I wanted to msg him.
So...the crux is..I messaged him a "Hi Ahaan"
Did I do something too wrong? 😭
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