Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh
Because no one took that job of Anu's seriously back then. She herself recently explained the difference between her job & a career. Likewise, Toshu has a different attitude towards Anu's dance academy than he did towards her job. That's because the academy is an actual career & he has grown since his parents' separation. He was at a stage in life where your girlfriend & love life feel like the most intense thing in the world.. The most important! But he has had character progression since then.
If you can't handle watching imperfect characters & want everyone to be mahaanta personified, that's a different issue. I'd suggest watch you a Sooraj Barjatya movie, but even they have imperfect characters who grow & deserve forgiveness by the end.
this is the problem... they took Anupama for granted.... just because she was home maker not earner... through she played a very important role in everyone earning... I have no issue with imperfect character but I like to call them imperfect ... not to justify their actions.... Toshu has shared everything with his father... and giving his mother place to kavya... for godsake he is 25 and has a girlfriend too... if he is that stupid than he doesn't deserved to get married.... problem is ... imperfect characters are still a delusion world that ... every bad thing is happening because of Anupama... they has no regrets for what they did to Anupama... even after cancer surgeries... she is working at both end...
Anupama has stopped taking herself seriously long back due to Vanraj... vanraj mother, toshu and Pakhi... she wasn't even considered as family member by them... other side they are everything for Anupama and still she feels same...
about kavya ... yes she is a home breaker from the day 1 ... she is cheating with Anupama's husband under her nose....
and Vanraj ... never seen such a leech man... no regrets, no shame... his attitude is getting same again n again same with Anupama... nowadays he is tone down... because he is unemployed right now....
yes Vanraj n kavya both are responsible for Anupama miseries in this age ... situation will be different if she comes to know about their relation 9 yr back...
I am so happy when Vanya are getting back their karma... now toshu should also get his karma back...
I found Kinjal is most sensible between all kids at least she has guts to say bad as bad... she opposed Vanraj... even Anupama failed in that...
people like Vanraj, kavya and baa needs someone like Rakhi to shown mirror...