Marriage is the remedy for character assassination

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Wow!!! How can they say that. Suppose if aditya and Imlie is not married .malini aditya divorce is due to some other reason and adi genuinely care imlie due to her struggles and he wants to support her as she had bright future ( not romantically) .

If Mrs C insult imlie, so they will marry her off??? 

How marriage solve a character assassination. Why she needs to suffer because some toxic twisted person's talk?

This message is horrible. Tayiji 's point should not be invalid because she is already married. But she doesn't have to

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Posted: 4 years ago
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In PD also they took marriage as the solution for suspected love affair and in Delhi too Tayiji is having same soch.

It’s really not the solution in either of the two situations.

Edited by S_n_t - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yehi toh message hai ki ( Soch soch ka farak hota hai) chahe gaon ka ho ya seher ka ho.


Aaj ke aur ek scene jahan principal sir ne Anu ko kaha- Aap bohut educated dikhti hai(sirf dikhti hai par harkat waisi nahi hain in the real sense) par aapko apki ghar ki batein aise nahi pesh karna chahiye.


Dusri taraf meethi,bina padhi likhi gaon ki aurat bohut hi suljhi hui aur samajhdaar aurat hai .Har baat ka tamasha nahi banati.


Edit- Adding one more point, Apart from Radha all T members were displeased with Radha's decision.logon ka muh bandh karne k liye uski life k saath khilwad qyun? Woh bhi victim hai uske shoulder aur sar par responsibility nahi dena chahiye walki ek shoulder chahiye jahan woh sukoon mehsus kare ki she is safe in her family chahe bahar wale kuch bhi kahe.


But ek baat sahi hai Jo aksar log advice dete hai...... Bacha paida karna aur shadi universal solution hai har problems ki. Problems ki root cause ka solutions toh de nahi sakte par sar par aur ek responsibility ka thikra jarur podhte hai.


@S_n_t- What you said above is so so true.

Edited by Happysoul17 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanurocks

Wow!!! How can they say that. Suppose if aditya and Imlie is not married .malini aditya divorce is due to some other reason and adi genuinely care imlie due to her struggles and he wants to support her as she had bright future ( not romantically) .

If Mrs C insult imlie, so they will marry her off??? 

How marriage solve a character assassination. Why she needs to suffer because some toxic twisted person's talk?

This message is horrible. Tayiji 's point should not be invalid because she is already married. But she doesn't have to

Exactly my point. I was amazed that people still think that a girls’s marriage preserves her character and family’s pride.

This message has to change, marriage should not be dependent on any other reasons or convenience.

Suppose if Imlie’s status is known to be married and not single, Adi just helps her in humanitarian grounds, then both committing to EMA? Then what is the remedy?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Yehi toh message hai ki ( Soch soch ka farak hota hai) chahe gaon ka ho ya seher ka ho.


Aaj ke aur ek scene jahan principal sir ne Anu ko kaha- Aap bohut educated dikhti hai(sirf dikhti hai par harkat waisi nahi hain in the real sense) par aapko apki ghar ki batein aise nahi pesh karna chahiye.


Dusri taraf meethi,bina padhi likhi gaon ki aurat bohut hi suljhi hui aur samajhdaar aurat hai .Har baat ka tamasha nahi banati.


Edit- Adding one more point, Apart from Radha all T members were displeased with Radha's decision.logon ka muh bandh karne k liye uski life k saath khilwad qyun? Woh bhi victim hai uske shoulder aur sar par responsibility nahi dena chahiye walki ek shoulder chahiye jahan woh sukoon mehsus kare ki she is safe in her family chahe bahar wale kuch bhi kahe.


But ek baat sahi hai Jo aksar log advice dete hai...... Bacha paida karna aur shadi universal solution hai har problems ki. Problems ki root cause ka solutions toh de nahi sakte par sar par aur ek responsibility ka thikra jarur podhte hai.


@S_n_t- What you said above is so so true.

That line from principal was so on the point, education and wealthy standards of living do not guarantee common sense and sensitivity too in AC case.

Bold 2: yeah, only those who just want to get rid of the problem give such advice, they are not bothered if issue resolves or not it should just stop bothering them. Tayiji clearly said it today.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Happysoul17

Yehi toh message hai ki ( Soch soch ka farak hota hai) chahe gaon ka ho ya seher ka ho.


Aaj ke aur ek scene jahan principal sir ne Anu ko kaha- Aap bohut educated dikhti hai(sirf dikhti hai par harkat waisi nahi hain in the real sense) par aapko apki ghar ki batein aise nahi pesh karna chahiye.


Dusri taraf meethi,bina padhi likhi gaon ki aurat bohut hi suljhi hui aur samajhdaar aurat hai .Har baat ka tamasha nahi banati.


Edit- Adding one more point, Apart from Radha all T members were displeased with Radha's decision.logon ka muh bandh karne k liye uski life k saath khilwad qyun? Woh bhi victim hai uske shoulder aur sar par responsibility nahi dena chahiye walki ek shoulder chahiye jahan woh sukoon mehsus kare ki she is safe in her family chahe bahar wale kuch bhi kahe.


But ek baat sahi hai Jo aksar log advice dete hai...... Bacha paida karna aur shadi universal solution hai har problems ki. Problems ki root cause ka solutions toh de nahi sakte par sar par aur ek responsibility ka thikra jarur podhte hai.


@S_n_t- What you said above is so so true.


1.Educated alone does not make a better person. True that

2.Kuch bhi ho victim blaming chalu hai.


Btw itna tamasha karne wali aurat apni husband ka past kyu nahi batai.. She is such a hypocrite.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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In my opinion I never liked Radha ji's point of view. But women in her position is always like this. Orthodox. The truth is women like her have carried patriarchy from past to present. If women like her had protested in her time our society would have been a better place today.

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