Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace
Shiva knows exactly how to compartmentalize. He did it before and he does it again and again. Thats the reason u do not see him getting affected by Raavi when he is involve din Kaands. Because he compartmentalize her and concentrate on something else. He is a deep thinker and a responsible man. Unlike Dev who is kind of non confrontational and unsure and Krish who is still a kid, Shiva dons the garment of Surety with utmost confidence.
In the wedding fiasco, when he accepted her, he didn’t just do it for namesake, he accepted her truly. Since then she has been his responsibility. He is rude and he shouldn’t be but he didn’t understand how else to behave. He has been supporting her since their wedding, in every way he can. And since the Kangan kaand is done with, he has this space where there used to dislike before which is filling with like for Raavi. He understands his feelings. He understands that she is family and that she isn’t like the woman who brought her up. He is accepting this relationship much more happily now. She on the other hand seems unsure and rightly so. I wouldn’t expect her to just think of him in that way so soon. 🤷🏻♀️
He is a clean slate and along with his depth and clear headed compartmentalization he is more affected. She has to scratch Dev’s name and keep aside her regular airheadedness to see him clearly. It will take time.