Abandonment, Recovery and Love - Page 3

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

So beautifully put! I really hope the writers deal with Raavi’s issues in the right way

Thank you. 🤗Somehow I had missed this comment. Unfortunately, writers didn’t deal with Ravi’s issues in a systematic manner. I believe mental health is a very taboo issue in India, it is not that well discussed amongst family. That could be one of the reasons why prime-time TV Refrains from showing mental health issues.

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

i was trying to find your post.....i told u i will read but when i have plenty of time....

the way you see the things, relationships and bring out the small details is 👏i just love reading it.....

First of all let me tell you how enamoured I am with the time you’ve taken out to invest in reading, understanding and commenting on a thread which is almost 2 months old. Thank you for all the love showered.

her fear of abandonment i clearly understood but rest of the things you explained were different and i got to know a new perspective.....

I get it that it could be a little complicated to understand at one go. But, the symptoms which Ravi exhibited post her wedding, all pointed out towards her depressive tendencies. An ideal scenario would have been to take her to her mental health expert and help her deal with her issues. Sometimes, toxic positivity can drain a human effort to recuperation, recovery and mental peace. That’s why we see Ravi often getting irritated by Dhara is constant pushing her to move on.

ITV is never gonna address these real issues.....i wish someone from their team reads your posts and try to implement it.....we have 2 very complex characters, which can be explored and handled very nicely.......

Let's not even discuss the possibilities of ITV! 😆The moment you think ITV has some hope, you would be fed with lies, drama and deception. The only way to avoid a heartbreak is true minimalistic hopes and detachment.

i have a question, does she find him inferior or less den her or dev or not on her level? coz like her, he too has his insecurities and her anger might make things worse for him.........want to know your thoughts.....

Well, The answer to Your question is a little complicated. Let me try and make it simpler for you. Maybe, at this point of time, she never thought that she would be forced to marry a man like Shiva who was”, an educated as per the standards of the society and completely different from the man of your dreams. She has her own insecurities about abandonment but Shiva is not being compared to Dev by her. She only results her feat of getting married to someone who is not even remotely her prince charming. Coming to her comparison between her being the most beautiful girl of Somnath to be Junglee Shiva-She definitely sees herself a little different from her initially.

Originally posted by: Transference

Thank you. 🤗Somehow I had missed this comment. Unfortunately, writers didn’t deal with Ravi’s issues in a systematic manner. I believe mental health is a very taboo issue in India, it is not that well discussed amongst family. That could be one of the reasons why prime-time TV Refrains from showing mental health issues.

Piuuu 🤗

That is so true, I see this happen in day to day life too. Even though India has progressed in a lot of ways, there are certain areas in which we are lacking.

Originally posted by: Transference

Well, The answer to Your question is a little complicated. Let me try and make it simpler for you. Maybe, at this point of time, she never thought that she would be forced to marry a man like Shiva who was”, an educated as per the standards of the society and completely different from the man of your dreams. She has her own insecurities about abandonment but Shiva is not being compared to Dev by her. She only results her feat of getting married to someone who is not even remotely her prince charming. Coming to her comparison between her being the most beautiful girl of Somnath to be Junglee Shiva-She definitely sees herself a little different from her initially.

your posts needs to read thoroughly.....and I just can't read it anywhere....I need to be alone in my space to understand and enjoy it....

coming to your reply, even if she feels that way, we can't blame her....everyone has a dream and if its shattered and replaced with something totally different den it might hurt more....

for raavi appearance and all mattered.....and it's her choice how to feel about it...

while typing this one more question came to mind....sorry for asking so many things but did she like dev just coz he ticked all the boxes in her list? was it really love?

I appreciate your patience and reply to my queries

Wow so beautifully analysed

This love story has soooooo much potential , the characters raavi and shiva are complex and layered characters, well written characters actually

But I doubt that this love story would be handled maturely by the writers , the writers have full potential but intelligent and layered writing gets drowned in the race of trps

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

your posts needs to read thoroughly.....and I just can't read it anywhere....I need to be alone in my space to understand and enjoy it....

Itna bhi deep nahi hai 😆

coming to your reply, even if she feels that way, we can't blame her....everyone has a dream and if its shattered and replaced with something totally different den it might hurt more....

Very true! Sometimes, you think that you have planned life in a certain way, but life throws unexpected curve balls

for raavi appearance and all mattered.....and it's her choice how to feel about it...

while typing this one more question came to mind....sorry for asking so many things but did she like dev just coz he ticked all the boxes in her list? was it really love?

I appreciate your patience and reply to my queries

Dev belongs to a genre of people who naturally attract women as bankable and great options. Dev, if you see, is a beautiful human being in terms of compassion. It's natural for a girl like Raavi to gravitate towards a man like Dev.

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Wow so beautifully analysed

This love story has soooooo much potential , the characters raavi and shiva are complex and layered characters, well written characters actually

But I doubt that this love story would be handled maturely by the writers , the writers have full potential but intelligent and layered writing gets drowned in the race of trps

Thank you so much🤗

You are correct that producers will not be taking this route and may be bogged down by the race to TRP’s.