•Shivangi Khedkar• {Pallavi}•AT#4| Kabhi Pikachu, Kabhi Atom bomb| - Page 68

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

If you come to think about it, Ayi and Pallavi never really had a heart to heart talk about everything that happened and how it affected or changed their inter-personal dynamics.. Ayi was angry at Pallavi for a quite some time, then she gradually started seeing things from her POV, not that she dint know about it earlier but once the storm settled, she got calmer and heard her inner voice, Milind's take on the matter also made her see things more clearly.. Vijay's continuous unjust behaviour made it easier for her to choose sides too and eventually she forgave Pallavi.. chose to support her, be her Ayi like she was before everything happened .. But Pallavi and Ayi have been dealing with their issues on their own, independently away from each other.. So it'l be nice to see them talk it out..get it out of their system.. Amma may have been able to help Pallavi in that moment when she was feeling guilty about forgetting Mandhar's birthday, but somewhere I feel Ayi is in a better position,being Mandhar's mother, to free Pallavi of any guilt or any burden she feels on her conscience with respect to Mandhar..not now but forever.

I absolutely agree and it will give her a more clarity to think things through when she finds out about Mandar and Raghav. She needs that confirmation from Aayi that she can move on with her life and can be committed to Raghav even though she was married before. If she gets that closure from especially Aayi, we know she wouldn’t have to feel guilty to follow her heart once she sees things through.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I've mostly been only on this thread today, just catching up on conversations in other threads right now, and I get you. As you know, I am a little more neutral to Sharda, not as fond as I know you are, but still...yikes. The kinda stuff I'm seeing said about both her today is quite presumptuous. If she does end up selfishly blackmailing Pallavi in the future, I'll be the first to criticize her, but aaj aisi toh koi lines cross nahi hui. Yeah okay, her phrasing maybe could have been different with Pallavi, but she's not responsible for Pallavi's guilt, that's on Pallavi. She didn't even say anything like "tu kaise bhool sakti hai". And moms don't monitor or watch their words so much while talking to their children, especially on a day when she's already in a horrible state of mind.

I am fond but I am not biased... Somehow bias doesnt come naturally to me.. no matter who it is...I criticise Pallavi and Raghav too if I find their actions wrong or inexplicable.. Like yesterday, I didnt understand why Pallavi had to choose a white saree to wear to Mandhar's birthday rememberance occasion/puja wateva. My point was why white.. not even arguing from her being Raghav's wife now POV.. just that why would you want to dress up like that, devoid of life/color for someone you used to admire at some point in your life.. I mean you dont have to deck up, but maybe wear something understated and less obviously grieving.. But I understood your and Jean's point...and that would be the most logical explanation to an illogical situation..

I said this earlier, if Ayi does something morally wrong, I will be the first one to criticize her..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I am fond but I am not biased... Somehow bias doesnt come naturally to me.. no matter who it is...I criticise Pallavi and Raghav too if I find their actions wrong or inexplicable.. Like yesterday, I didnt understand why Pallavi had to choose a white saree to wear to Mandhar's birthday rememberance occasion/puja wateva. My point was why white.. not even arguing from her being Raghav's wife now POV.. just that why would you want to dress up like that, devoid of life/color for someone you used to admire at some point in your life.. I mean not you dont have to deck up, but maybe wear something understated and less obviously grieving.. But I understood your and Jean's point...and that would be the most logical explanation to an illogical situation..

I said this earlier, if Ayi does something morally wrong, I will be the first one to criticize her..

No no, not saying you're biased at all- we've spoken enough that you needn't tell me that 😆. My point was that despite personally having a little less fondness for her, I am still really annoyed at the kind of things being said today, so I 100% get whats frustrating you- it's frustrating me too.

Us din bhi most of said the same thing in context of Pallavi, but it applies to Ayi as well- jab galti hogi, won't be holding back from criticising her. But jab kuch kiya hi nahi abhi tak, hypotheticals utha ke katghare mein kyun khada karein? 😡

But apna mood mat spoil karo, not worth it.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

No no, not saying you're biased at all- we've spoken enough that you needn't tell me that 😆. My point was that despite personally having a little less fondness for her, I am still really annoyed at the kind of things being said today, so I 100% get whats frustrating you- it's frustrating me too.

Us din bhi most of said the same thing in context of Pallavi, but it applies to Ayi as well- jab galti hogi, won't be holding back from criticising her. But jab kuch kiya hi nahi abhi tak, hypotheticals utha ke katghare mein kyun khada karein? 😡

But apna mood mat spoil karo, not worth it.

Haha no Im fine.. mood changha hai😆 I don't even read all the posts to know what most people have to say about Ayi. But I dont like comparisons with Amma.. Amma ab jaake itne saalo baad akal payi hai apni.. She is in a much better place compared to Ayi, mentally and emotionally.. She has reached a stage in her life, where she can put her feet up, relax and enjoy a drink. The same Amma had done a literal tandav when Keerthi was about to elope.. now she is in a much better place after reconciling with Raghav..She has everything going for her right now.. Obviously now she can think straight, be more objective.. that's why she is able to think more clearly in Keerthi matter too.. Compare that to Ayi... She is miserable in her personal and married life, still manages to support Pallavi,support Milind, smile and remain positive for herself and for people around her.. But trust me, even after all this, if she does something unjustifiably wrong, I will not defend her.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I've mostly been only on this thread today, just catching up on conversations in other threads right now, and I get you. As you know, I am a little more neutral to Sharda, not as fond as I know you are, but still...yikes. The kinda stuff I'm seeing said about both her today is quite presumptuous. If she does end up selfishly blackmailing Pallavi in the future, I'll be the first to criticize her, but aaj aisi toh koi lines cross nahi hui. Yeah okay, her phrasing maybe could have been different with Pallavi, but she's not responsible for Pallavi's guilt, that's on Pallavi. She didn't even say anything like "tu kaise bhool sakti hai". And moms don't monitor or watch their words so much while talking to their children, especially on a day when she's already in a horrible state of mind.

I think that phone conversation can be taken in any way because it was stopped so abruptly. It could be taken that Sharda wasn’t happy that Pallavi forgot about it and sadly told her it’s Mandar’s birthday or that Sharda was unhappy today because it’s her son’s birthday and she was just saying the fact to Pallavi. I sometimes feel the writers leave an open thread to use it in anyway later. Right now even I feel she was just being sad that it’s Mandar’s birthday and wasn’t thinking about Pallavi’s reaction at all.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

I think that phone conversation can be taken in any way because it was stopped so abruptly. It could be taken that Sharda wasn’t happy that Pallavi forgot about it and sadly told her it’s Mandar’s birthday or that Sharda was unhappy today because it’s her son’s birthday and she was just saying the fact to Pallavi. I sometimes feel the writers leave an open thread to use it in anyway later. Right now even I feel she was just being sad that it’s Mandar’s birthday and wasn’t thinking about Pallavi’s reaction at all.

Exactly, when it's open ended, why assume the worst? Anyway, I think it's a bit unfair to expect a lot of finesse from a woman on the birthday of her son who died so tragically.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Haha no Im fine.. mood changha hai😆 I don't even read all the posts to know what most people have to say about Ayi. But I dont like comparisons with Amma.. Amma ab jaake itne saalo baad akal payi hai apni.. She is in a much better place compared to Ayi, mentally and emotionally.. She has reached a stage in her life, where she can put her feet up, relax and enjoy a drink. The same Amma had done a literal tandav when Keerthi was about to elope.. now she is in a much better place after reconciling with Raghav..She has everything going for her right now.. Obviously now she can think straight, be more objective.. that's why she is able to think more clearly in Keerthi matter too.. Compare that to Ayi... She is miserable in her personal and married life, still manages to support Pallavi,support Milind, smile and remain positive for herself and for people around her.. But trust me, even after all this, if she does something unjustifiably wrong, I will not defend her.

Jaya has made her own fair share of mistakes in the past, and I will just maintain that I'm rooting for both women to have their own unique, special bond with Pallavi. They both provide different kinds of support, and based on the situation, either can and will be needed.

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

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Hehehe...saare Devaron ki halat kharab hai, kabhi zaadu wali pithai, kabhi spiked pasta aur ab dher saari bezaati!

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Exactly, when it's open ended, why assume the worst? Anyway, I think it's a bit unfair to expect a lot of finesse from a woman on the birthday of her son who died so tragically.

Ayi is no different than Pallavi... shuru se agneepariksha deti aa rahi hai.. Pallavi being the FL and being the one to be in love with the ML and being his love interest, will get sympathy by and large.. But Ayi? she gets crucified for being 1.) a trashmukh 2.) being Mandhar's mom.. wo Mandhar jo hamare leads ke beech ane wala hai, alive or dead...

Its her dead son's birthday... what do we expect her do? Be all cheery and chirpy ? Obviously she will be in a reflective and sombre mood.. ye wo Ayi hai..jo Pallavi ko vat savitri ke din dulhan ke roop me saja huwa dekhke, ek baar bhi ye nahi sochi ki ye aise mere Mandhar ke liye sajti, vrat rakhti to kitna achha hota... she was all about '' ye meri Pallu hai'' she blessed Raghav and Pallavi dil se.. was genuinely happy that Raghav decorated the thaal for her.. Ek baar ye nahi socha ki Raghav ki jagah aaj unka mandhar ho sakta tha..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Haha no Im fine.. mood changha hai😆 I don't even read all the posts to know what most people have to say about Ayi. But I dont like comparisons with Amma.. Amma ab jaake itne saalo baad akal payi hai apni.. She is in a much better place compared to Ayi, mentally and emotionally.. She has reached a stage in her life, where she can put her feet up, relax and enjoy a drink. The same Amma had done a literal tandav when Keerthi was about to elope.. now she is in a much better place after reconciling with Raghav..She has everything going for her right now.. Obviously now she can think straight, be more objective.. that's why she is able to think more clearly in Keerthi matter too.. Compare that to Ayi... She is miserable in her personal and married life, still manages to support Pallavi,support Milind, smile and remain positive for herself and for people around her.. But trust me, even after all this, if she does something unjustifiably wrong, I will not defend her.

I always used to think before all this Mandar’s track was planned that Raghav will become that son Aayi had lost. They started showing those small scenes between them where Aayi was feeling happy that she had Raghav come into her life. It felt as it that vacant space in her heart might be filled up finally. But now we have to see how they are planning on their equation. Aayi has to accept the person who took away her son and this isn’t easy for any mother.