Episode Spoiler - 2 July 2021 - Page 26

Off note - Seeing pallu pulling a cute drunkard act today , i would like to see a more intense sloshed version of hers. Maybe when mandaar enters and they both get seperated pallu goes into this devdas mode for once ( Since our FL behaves like ML of other shows lol )And she is walking on a deserted road and end up meeting some goons and as fate would have it raghav comes and saves her. And then she just pour down her feelings her hurt her longing in that inebraited state to him. Would make for an intense scene for sure😍🥵

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Oops, I meant 'enigma' not 'engine' in my post. Ugh, autocorrect 🤦

Of course the story won't move forward without insight into him, but I don't really see the point of speculating when we have such little information, there's a world of possibilities, so I'm happy to let it play out, and enjoy what's served rather than guess and theorize.

I've never wanted a 'negative' Mandaar personally. I think Pallavi's choice holds a lot more weight if Mandaar is actually a viable partner rather than a straight-up villain, but either way, jo dikhayeinge ya nahi dikhayeinge is there headache, not ours na.

+1 for not having negative Mandaar, at least not negative as a husband. It would have made Pallavi's dilemma far more interesting. Baaki sab I don't care, since Raghav is a don in the first place.

Originally posted by: Medha0609

Also why is everyone teasing poor pallu on showing physical desires. 😕

She isn’t doing it on purpose in fact I don’t think she even realises she is doing it, the change in her gait and all when she saw Raghav looking at her, it wasn’t intentional.

Koi uske POV se socho she was a very young naive girl when she got married with no knowledge of her physical needs and before she could have a chance to understand them she got widowed and then everyone literally told her she can’t have a life now and though she ignored it but subconsciously she did kill all of her wants especially the physical ones which we saw when Raghav asked her what she wants for herself and she was unable to answer him.

Now suddenly this girl has been put next to a guy who is really hot and her husband to top it off so she is bound to have physical desires without realising because she has never known what they are.

Even the morning bathroom scene proved that she is unaware of physical desires for Raghav and is only beginning to scratch the surface which is evident by the way she blushing and behaving the way a teenage school girl does when she has a crush.

Just saw this post and I am like who are these people?

We were literally waiting for Pallavi to give a glimpse of her physical desire and attraction. It is natural. She is entitled to those feelings.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Very nicely put Ashi. I would like to add something to that if you guys dont mind me butting in lol One of the reasons Raghav has not had a proper closure of all that has transpired between him and Pallavi because of the MU..is because in his mind he has not been able to do redeem himself in her eyes the way he had planned..in other words he fell short of his target and wasn't allowed to repay for his sinful actions the way he wanted.. He wanted to give back Pallavi everything he took away from her..and eventhough she says she doesnt wanna go back to her family..he probably thinks that the way things stand now between her and her family, is indirectly his doing and that fact is not gonna change..ever. Pallavi let him off the hook judging him purely based on his intentions and efforts.. That may have been more than enough for her but not him which is why she has been able to move on and not him.. and now on top of that he got to know that he is the one who is responsible for Mandhar's death.. which adds to his existing guilt and brings into perspective his dialogue from yesterday " mein tumhare zindagi mein sirf dukh dene aya hu"..

100% agreed. Also, lol, what is this new 'butting in', yahaan kaunsi private conversations hoti hain 🤣

Yes, it was so telling to see him refer to how he confidently promised to return what she'd lost at the train station, and say that he didn't even know back then what he'd taken from her. Even if that wasn't the case though, he still failed at his promise. Clearly, that unfinished promise stings him- after all, Raghav Rao apne waade ka pakka hai.

While she's said she's happy with the way things are, the three times he's seen her oppose her family, it's been just for his sake all three times. He knew from day one that she was mistreated by them, but he also knows that that's not how she saw the situation. Since then, the way the Deshmukhs treated her has never come up. It's when he sees that she's happy being away from them for her own sake, and not for his, that his guilt about that will be elevated, which he has no hint towards yet, because Pallavi might wear her heart on her sleeve, but is so very private about her thoughts.

Plus, for the kind of person he is, a failure to deliver but an "A+ for effort" probably feels worse than a failure.

Originally posted by: Shri_12

Just saw this post and I am like who are these people?

We were literally waiting for Pallavi to give a glimpse of her physical desire and attraction. It is natural. She is entitled to those feelings.

Same. Who teased her? I figure the general sentiment has been quite celebratory wrt an FL owning her desire.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I completely agree with this.

He is goal-oriented and as far as he's concerned he failed to achieve that. He will always doubt that Pallavi let him off the hook for the goodness of her heart, kyunki woh aisi hi hai, which makes him feel even more unworthy. And now, as you said, he's realized that the 'debt' he owes her is far greater than he'd known back then.

He also felt like he was being weighed down by his past actions every time he wanted to move forward and just find some simple happiness with her/for her.

Exactly. He is not only a goal oriented person, he is also the biggest critique of himself as we have seen so far..He doesnt see himself like Pallavi sees him.. I remember when they came back from D house after the big tamasha, he was like "why did you have to interfere? Mein aisa karta to aisa ho jata..tumhe tumhara family mil jata" that's how he functions.. he clearly had a blueprint in mind of how he is gonna go about completing the "one month challenge" and he was ready to do whatever it takes..But he was let off the hook rather easily in his eyes..not because he did anything out of the ordinary but because she is an extra ordinary human being who forgives easy even when he doesn't deserve it.. I guess that's why he hasn't had that closure yet..

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Oops, I meant 'enigma' not 'engine' in my post. Ugh, autocorrect 🤦

Of course the story won't move forward without insight into him, but I don't really see the point of speculating when we have such little information, there's a world of possibilities, so I'm happy to let it play out, and enjoy what's served rather than guess and theorize.

I've never wanted a 'negative' Mandaar personally. I think Pallavi's choice holds a lot more weight if Mandaar is actually a viable partner rather than a straight-up villain, but either way, jo dikhayeinge ya nahi dikhayeinge is their headache, not ours na.

@bold: They are delaying this a bit too much. As far we know, Raghav is feeling guilty and Ved is using it as his advantage but nobody is speaking up about what exactly happened that night from their own viewpoints.

@boldred: I don't want that either. But ITV ka classic formula hai to make the other guy or other woman negative. MHRW usually takes the classic trope and twists it in an unconventional way. Dekhte hai if they do the same this time as well.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I am getting more and more invested in learning what Ajit was like. The fact that Amma is letting out some information from time to time is so lovely. I wanted her side of the story too - she lost her love, her life partner. She wasn't being a heartless mother to Raghav. Yes, she made mistakes, but her emotions must have been a nightmare to deal with and she still has some of that trauma.

She must have been so lonely all these years, struggling with her grief and having to raise Keerti alone, I doubt she had anyone to talk to. The parallels with Sanki and Sharda are explicitly done, where Sharda's husband is alive but she is also quite lonely, especially with Pallavi now gone.

@bold It's as much about Maa vs. Mumm ji as it is about bahu vs. beti or even saheli. I see them as saheliyaan more than anything else. Pallavi needs it as does Amma.

Again, we got a glimpse of Raghav the husband who takes after his father. I've always felt Raghav picked up these great husband man traits from his father and that's what we're seeing now too. Also, the more we learn about Naanna, the more it hurts to think how he was mistreated by people and then died tragically. When Amma talked about drinking with Raghav's father and then Raghav's overall chilled attitude about them drinking and having a good time... The parallels were so beautiful. I felt a pang thinking that Raghav's dad would have loved to be here, seeing his family like this. He would have adored Pallavi and treated her like a princess, unlike that Sanki.

CVs, please please please show us more of his father in flashbacks. I'm dying of curiosity.

I feel as if Amma and Naanna relationship would be couple goals for Pallavi and Raghav. That kind of bond is not common.

How well have these characters been sketched out that we are able to imagine perfectly the relationship between Ajit and Pallavi, two characters who never even crossed paths? But I completely agree, he'd have been an excellent FIL for Pallavi.

Pallavi and Jaya are definitely more of saheliyaan than anything else, and it works for me. Pallavi has a mom, she doesn't need another. Jaya has a daughter. The thing missing in both their lives is a friend. Someone they can confide in, laugh with, seek advice from, use as a sounding board, be silly with, get drunk and dance with. Them finding that in each other is so much more beautiful than seeing them form a maa/beti or a saas/bahu dynamic. It's fast shaping into one of my favorite dynamics on the show.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Same. Who teased her? I figure the general sentiment has been quite celebratory wrt an FL owning her desire.

Jean, remember once I said we are desperate to see desperate Pallavi.

It is indeed celebratory. Most of the time we see jab husband ka mood hota Hai then only couple get intimate. It's so one sided. In a relationship both partners have equal rights to initiate things. No one becomes small or big by initiating

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

100% agreed. Also, lol, what is this new 'butting in', yahaan kaunsi private conversations hoti hain 🤣

Yes, it was so telling to see him refer to how he confidently promised to return what she'd lost at the train station, and say that he didn't even know back then what he'd taken from her. Even if that wasn't the case though, he still failed at his promise. Clearly, that unfinished promise stings him- after all, Raghav Rao apne waade ka pakka hai.

While she's said she's happy with the way things are, the three times he's seen her oppose her family, it's been just for his sake all three times. He knew from day one that she was mistreated by them, but he also knows that that's not how she saw the situation. Since then, the way the Deshmukhs treated her has never come up. It's when he sees that she's happy being away from them for her own sake, and not for his, that his guilt about that will be elevated, which he has no hint towards yet, because Pallavi might wear her heart on her sleeve, but is so very private about her thoughts.

Plus, for the kind of person he is, a failure to deliver but an "A+ for effort" probably feels worse than a failure.

@bold - that's the summary.. that's exactly what I wanted to convey