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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai mistakes are brushed off by forum members really? She bashed for every small thing to big thing. She doesn't even spared from bashing for not talking anything for karishma who is supporting pakhi accusations of her having affair with mohit. And people say her mistakes are brushed off. Irony it is being said by the same people who daily creates new topics just to bash sai👏.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shaome

I am too occupied with enjoying Neil's dance. 😆His foot movement were so perfect along with Ayesha's constant blush.

Chane khao maze lo😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Sai mistakes are brushed off by forum members really? She bashed for every small thing to big thing. She doesn't even spared from bashing for not talking anything for karishma who is supporting pakhi accusations of her having affair with mohit. And people say her mistakes are brushed off. Irony it is being said by the same people who daily creates new topics just to bash sai👏.

Exactly Kumuda. Sai is bashed like anything for even unrelated topics by the same people. Then they claim she isn’t bashed. The irony. Anyone going through the forum can see how much Sai is bashed. She will be bashed for existing soon.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Sai mistakes are brushed off by forum members really? She bashed for every small thing to big thing. She doesn't even spared from bashing for not talking anything for karishma who is supporting pakhi accusations of her having affair with mohit. And people say her mistakes are brushed off. Irony it is being said by the same people who daily creates new topics just to bash sai👏.

Arey haan she was bashed for not supporting Karishma who has done nothing but gas lighted the whole Virat Pakhi angle or Sai's mistakes..😆 Karishma who was participating in character assassination was to be extended a support from Sai..🤪

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The way I see it sai's mistakes are blown out of proportion just to justify the virat stanning by some people. That's what pisses me off, some people are hell bent on equalising their faults and put them on the same level. They cannot be compared.

See, people watch the show for different reasons, if you feel glossing over virat faults just to be able to continue on standing him, that absolutely fine.

But if you will nitpick sai's little mistakes, just to justify your shipping, that's not ok.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Arey haan she was bashed for not supporting Karishma who has done nothing but gas lighted the whole Virat Pakhi angle or Sai's mistakes..😆 Karishma who was participating in character assassination was to be extended a support from Sai..🤪

There is a big list where sai was bashed for absolutely doing nothing. If she speaks then she enjoys fights if she doesn't speak then she is selfish who don't care about others. I have never seen karishma sympathisers appreciating sai for being the only person in CN who gave karishma respect as human by speaking to her nicely without any grudge & asking her to sit & eat by stopping her doing serving job. When sai convinced virat for devkit lunch many posts were created to say how she is so dominative, manipulative & she is giving signs of toxic partner but when virat convinced sai for harini birthday party against her will no such posts were created to bash virat. I have not seen people creating posts about virat's regressive dialogue about bahu adjusting in her sasural or him telling sai issues as taunt, behaving dominative with her for talking to Ajinkya & many more. But there r numerous posts to bash sai why she gave kaku pendant, why she doesn't understand his hurt, why she doesn't apologise him despite being called as insensitive, commented upon her studies & her personal phone calls. Bashing sai when she does something wrong is absolutely fine. But saying her mistakes r always brushed off, she never gets bashing only virat gets bashing even for breathing is ridiculous.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Magnifique

The way I see it sai's mistakes are blown out of proportion just to justify the virat stanning by some people. That's what pisses me off, some people are hell bent on equalising their faults and put them on the same level. They cannot be compared.

See, people watch the show for different reasons, if you feel glossing over virat faults just to be able to continue on standing him, that absolutely fine.

But if you will nitpick sai's little mistakes, just to justify your shipping, that's not ok.


Thank you for pointing this out! Recently, I stopped reading most of the posts for this reason. It’s not about respecting or disrespecting opinions anymore. I don’t even read them so I’m indifferent.


Trivialising domestic violence and abuse, both siding victim and abuser, pushing “equally flawed” narrative, when one is not ready to accept these calling them “blind stans” are somethings way too triggering. I just cannot read something like that and go on with my day. Maybe I’m too sensitive but there are real people out there who are suffering and it affects me deeply.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Magnifique

The way I see it sai's mistakes are blown out of proportion just to justify the virat stanning by some people. That's what pisses me off, some people are hell bent on equalising their faults and put them on the same level. They cannot be compared.

See, people watch the show for different reasons, if you feel glossing over virat faults just to be able to continue on standing him, that absolutely fine.

But if you will nitpick sai's little mistakes, just to justify your shipping, that's not ok.

I think its mostly to do with since Virat has been called out and rightly so for something that was domestic violence and also some sort of mental abuse here and there , we might want to demonize Sai in order to elevate him or make him the better person. Since the toxicity in Virat was questioned when he indirectly supported the abuse being meted at her, since he actually went on to directly become a domestic abuser, lets start establishing with whatever data we have w.r.t. Sai and her mistakes, that Sai is toxic. Sai is a dictator. Sai is kaKu in the making...

One can find similarities in any two characters/people in general, if they really want to. That way even Virat can be called a NInad, but he is not Ninad.

Yes Sai and Virat are both flawed characters..the problem here is, Virats actions or reactions to her mistakes are heinous...He is also forgiven as quickly as quick he is to make mistakes.. I have seen it mentioned by some in this forum how Virat throwing Sai and Maushi out of the house was an outcome of their mistakes.. Any man would do it.. Where do all these theory go that the house is as much of the woman's as it of the man's after marriage.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I said the same last day. The compulsory placement of ckts on same pedestal for justifying shipping is horrible. Worse one can’t even point it out without being personally attacked

Edited by Niranjan256 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Both of them have their faults .. none of us are perfect here .. and don’t get perfect partners .. people chose to stay with wrong partners as they have adjusted to them .

That is what Sai n virat are .. both of them have kind of adjusted to each other .

Do you all know why are they attracted to each other .. not because both are super looking .. though they are reasonably attractive.. both have similar set of values of honesty ..

Both of them are high achievers .. people of high IQ .. being a state topper in grade 12 is a huge achievement and UPSC topper is an incredible high .. They both value each other’s career choices .. which nobody else in Chavan family gets this ..


Virat wants Sai to be a superb doctor regardless of being a super wife ..and Sai is extremely proud of her IPS husband.. she never fails to brag about him to others .. they both get it .. it’s not easy for others to match up to their capabilities.. so unless both of them start doing something to repel each other .. they won’t accept other partners for themselves..

Sai will not find her college mates attractive as they will never match to her IPS Hubby ka stature ..

and virat will not find any other girl fiery n attractive as she’s a multi tasked can manage many things with aplomb ..

pakhi is tame n boring .. she’s so easily available.. there is no thrill of chase ..


So inspite of their miscommunication..they are there ..

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