Stupid Ishqi - Page 2

From some of the comments I can see that I have badly offended some of the respected members here and for that I apologize with my whole heart.

However I just wanna say one thing- from the comments I can see that many of the members here are very young here and I really appreciate your innocence and your zeal about life and the fighting spirit you show when it comes to women. All I want to say that though times are changed we are still in the world where things are not as juicy as they look....

And that is the reason I am not okay with the makers or the characters' reactions because what they are showing is only encouraging the young brigade to follow the same but unfortunately in reality it is difficult to get the outcome what we are watching on ITV.

it's fine to show FLs confident n independent but there is a very fine line between confidence n arrogance and unfortunately these FLs sometimes really go OTT in their reactions..

I know I might get bashing for this as well and I am genuinely sorry for that but what I am jotting down here is not to affront any female as I am a female as well but to put up the reality...

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

What do you even mean by no man will tolerate his wife disappearing on their wedding night? That statement is pretty awful to even think about.

It's not that she is out there, partying leaving her husband alone.

Quite honestly, had I been in her place - I would prioritize listening to Savitri's story than enjoying the wedding night after seeing Savitri's circumstances. She is the woman who has lost everything in her life. I mean, I am sure people exist who would have chosen to put Savitri's story on hold to listen to some other time because apparently it's their night but some people choose not to and I am glad Ishqi chose what she did.

There are things beyond your own pleasurable desires. The things that matter and I am quite glad to have a character like Ishqi who can think about them keeping herself aside.

I dont hv anything against your dislike for the any "man" comment. Does come off as offensive.

But I just want to point out that its not just abt wordly pleasures . Its abt a certain kind of responsibility that comes wid marriage. Its never wise to just run off widout informing anyone on the first day of your marriage. Is just Ahaan's mom and her problms important ? What abt the people who will be worried sick for you ? Or the ones who will hv to answer on your behalf ? What abt your responsibilities for the ones who will have to hear taunts bcz of your silliness ?

Its abt being responsible and not impulsive. Nothing to do wid pleasure

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

What do you even mean by no man will tolerate his wife disappearing on their wedding night? That statement is pretty awful to even think about.

It's not that she is out there, partying leaving her husband alone.

Quite honestly, had I been in her place - I would prioritize listening to Savitri's story than enjoying the wedding night after seeing Savitri's circumstances. She is the woman who has lost everything in her life. I mean, I am sure people exist who would have chosen to put Savitri's story on hold to listen to some other time because apparently it's their night but some people choose not to and I am glad Ishqi chose what she did.

There are things beyond your own pleasurable desires. The things that matter and I am quite glad to have a character like Ishqi who can think about them keeping herself aside.

From my perspective, it wasn’t even about pleasure.

Most people dont do much other than maybe converse a bit and then go to sleep. Weddings, especially Hindu ones are ssooooo tiring.

But it’s just weird to disappear like that without telling anyone. Yeh zabardasti ka scene tha

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

From my perspective, it wasn’t even about pleasure.

Most people dont do much other than maybe converse a bit and then go to sleep. Weddings, especially Hindu ones are ssooooo tiring.

But it’s just weird to disappear like that without telling anyone. Yeh zabardasti ka scene tha

@ bold : True story .

Pleasurable desires - being with your adored one! Physics intimacy isn't the only desire that gives one pleasure.

All that I referred to by that statement was - there exists things apart from the ones that bring you your happiness and some people choose them over themselves at times when demanded.

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Is just Ahaan's mom and her problems are important? - At the moment, they seem definitely more important than the rest of the things in Ishqi's life.

PS: The woman could have and should have informed him. You read what I said about that in the other thread, didn't you, Alakh? However, even if she didn't, I don't see myself bummed out at the same.

This is typical ITV bahu 😕 they just don't use brain after getting married😕 before marriage they were theost intelligent but marriage is the turning point where they loose logic.