Why didn't Sai apologise to Virat- Page 2

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

My brother is the same as Sai. He cannot apologise to me. Maybe big brother syndrome😆

Anyways, I have stopped expecting any better from real life people. At least TV ke characters to sudhar hi sakte hain🤣 so may be we can expect Sai to apologise to Virat some day for he mistakes😆

@bold: mine too!

Yes, hope so too, one day!

Originally posted by: AparnaRenu

Don't you know by now we think similar on mist things?!!!

Ditto!

I couldn't even consider it nok jhok until the Ajinkya reference talk started. I felt truly bad for Vieat, and exasperated for Sai, but your take clear up a lot of things, how she is just tired.

But that doesn't excuse demeaning a gift of love.

And also, we need to remember, which Virat does remember always, Sai is a confided, motherless 19 year old, caught in extraordinary circumstances that require her responding with maturity way beyond her years.

She would have learned such relationship dynamics by trial and error in the normal case, but here, her husband, who gets hurt, ends up being the only person who she can talk to, and who can clarify things to her.

She will come around... she has her Aai and Virat sir to guide her...

At times, I feel like even Virat doesn't remember she is a 19 year old. I don't know. It feels like the way she has been behaving with her walls up, nobody remembers that she is just a 19 year old. People take us the way, we behave around them. I cannot share my feelings when I am hurt especially in those moments when I am hurt. I fall silent. People don't take it as hurt. They take it as silence and cold behaviour on my side. This is how it is. People often look at the surface and make conclusions. They don't scratch the surface to see beyond it. Virat cannot see beyond the surface mostly. The way she has been behaving for long, it is easy to forget that she is just a 19 year old.

I hope she does com around. but I feel like it was not the only incident, in which she disregarded his feelings. There are going to be more I hope I am wrong.

There are many instances where both should apologize to each other but due to our ghajini makers everything is brushed off. Now I do not have any hopes they will show self realization of the mistakes they have done.

My cousin and me..we always hurt each other with words.. never apologise and get back to being best buddies.. I believe she should have apologised... but yeah she has been apologizing too much the whole day and day before.. 😆

Both were insensitive to each other, infact Virat was more when he asked her to adjust. I am like after all this, abhi bhi adjust. She actually thought Virat wont mind gifting the gift as he loves his Kaku. She did not see it as gift from husband to wife, but a gift from a member of the family to another. She was also taunted for getting the gift. Uske baad she is being asked to adjust.. Abey ghanta sorry aayega dimag mei😆

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Both actually brushes off their good sides when angry at each other. Like he will forget that she has a 24 karat gold heart and she will forget that he did a lot for her. 😕 She has a very bad habit to give his gifts to someone else. No matter how small it is. I am sure she won't be happy if Virat does the same. That's why I really want a scene where he does the same to make her understand the value of someone's gift. 😕 And I also didn't like the fact that she said she wo'nt waste an invitation card on him when she wasted 6 on the Chavans. He definitely felt bad but didn't make an issue. She makes such small hurt burning things while he makes the bigger kands. So we don't pay attention to her mistakes and bash Virat for his. 😆

Virat gets a lot of bashing for big kaands. To kabhi kabhi Sai ko bhi thoda bahut sun lena chahiye for her small heart burning acts🤣

Invitation card issue. Raat ko episode dekhungi to decide karungi ki kya karna hai is aham mudde ka😆

I too wasn't impressed with Sai for not apologising Virat. I felt bad for him. Not only that but she didn't even give him the actual reason for regifting the pendant. It was gifted by her husband not a random person. From the beginning Virat never stops himself from apologising as soon as he realises his mistake,but Sai never does it. It's high time she stops taking him for granted and I hope things get better between them.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

Bold: so true

Virat gets a lot of bashing for big kaands. To kabhi kabhi Sai ko bhi thoda bahut sun lena chahiye for her small heart burning acts🤣

Invitation card issue. Raat ko episode dekhungi to decide karungi ki kya karna hai is aham mudde ka😆

Hum toh dono ko bajayenge par sabko pasand nahin hai. 😛

Haha yeah watch it and then decide. 😆

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Hum toh dono ko bajayenge par sabko pasand nahin hai. 😛

Haha yeah watch it and then decide. 😆

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I too wasn't impressed with Sai for not apologising Virat. I felt bad for him. Not only that but she didn't even give him the actual reason for regifting the pendant. It was gifted by her husband not a random person. From the beginning Virat never stops himself from apologising as soon as he realises his mistake,but Sai never does it. It's high time she stops taking him for granted and I hope things get better between them.

Originally posted by: cheekukabeej

You are absolutely right. She should too. Let's see where it goes. Will ever a day come when she does.

I would be on cloud nine if it ever happened😆