Today’s precap: They do have feelings for each other.

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So I read some discussions going round over the precap, where Raghav asks Pallavi if she has feelings for him. Many people have pointed out that they feel it’s too early. And I understand where this is coming from- many of us are accustomed to the handling of such tracks in conventional itv shows. Period.

But I beg to differ on this. I felt today’s precap was phenomenal. It was exactly what I felt has been missing in the show. Before this, I was so confused and miffed that why won’t these two at least address whatever it’s between them. Like for sure they both can feel it and both of them know that it’s mutual. (Throwback to the latest hair dryer scene). It’s only upto some extent they can ignore it and be casual about it!

So it isn’t early at all! Being coy about your feelings is such a teenage thing I guess! (A nibba-nibbi thing, in Raghav’s words🤣). Adults don’t do that! They address their feelings, take responsibility for them, be upfront about it and agree on trying to figure it out together. (To me personally, there’s nothing more attractive than a man who owns up to his feelings for you unashamedly- it oozes confidence, even intimidates you and need I say that’s 🔥. I would do the same whenever I am sure about mine!) And RaghVi give me those vibes, I expect nothing less from them. I don’t think being coy is their forte. So I hope you get me when I say that I can’t stop drooling over Raghav straight away confronting Pallavi for her feelings for him. Way to go my boy!🥳🥳

Now about their feelings for each other - that’s another thing we often talk about and kudos to sickand for giving their story so many layers that it’s so difficult for us to figure out. All of us have a version of our own on where they stand right now wrt their feelings each other. Mostly what I see is, people are sure that Pallavi has feelings for Raghav and not the other way around. Another thing I differ on. I feel they are into this together, they both are attracted to each other, they do love each other but they can’t accept it right now. It’s where their ego defense mechanisms come into a play (neither of them want to be the first one to fall, or accept that they have- because they don’t want to be hurt). The day your love for other person conquers all these insecurities - that day you own upto it and take a step ahead. Obviously one out of the two has to take a lead. And I am more than happy that Raghav is starting to That girl deserves it ya!

And don’t even get me started if Raghav has feelings for her or not! (Since everyone seems to be sure about Pallavi’s)- He definitely has! Feelings which range all the way from sexual attraction to a gradually deepening emotional connect. It would be a whole another topic with all the examples! 😆 Moreover sai in his interviews has already confirmed, more than once, that Raghav is already falling for her but he doesn’t know it himself.❤️

Originally posted by: Inese_20

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So I read some discussions going round over the precap, where Raghav asks Pallavi if she has feelings for him. Many people have pointed out that they feel it’s too early. And I understand where this is coming from- many of us are accustomed to the handling of such tracks in conventional itv shows. Period.

But I beg to differ on this. I felt today’s precap was phenomenal. It was exactly what I felt has been missing in the show. Before this, I was so confused and miffed that why won’t these two at least address whatever it’s between them. Like for sure they both can feel it and both of them know that it’s mutual. (Throwback to the latest hair dryer scene). It’s only upto some extent they can ignore it and be casual about it!

So it isn’t early at all! Being coy about your feelings is such a teenage thing I guess! (A nibba-nibbi thing, in Raghav’s words🤣). Adults don’t do that! They address their feelings, take responsibility for them, be upfront about it and agree on trying to figure it out together. (To me personally, there’s nothing more attractive than a man who owns up to his feelings for you unashamedly- it oozes confidence, even intimidates you and need I say that’s 🔥. I would do the same whenever I am sure about mine!) And RaghVi give me those vibes, I expect nothing less from them. I don’t think being coy is their forte. So I hope you get me when I say that I can’t stop drooling over Raghav straight away confronting Pallavi for her feelings for him. Way to go my boy!🥳🥳

Now about their feelings for each other - that’s another thing we often talk about and kudos to sickand for giving their story so many layers that it’s so difficult for us to figure out. All of us have a version of our own on where they stand right now wrt their feelings each other. Mostly what I see is, people are sure that Pallavi has feelings for Raghav and not the other way around. Another thing I differ on. I feel they are into this together, they both are attracted to each other, they do love each other but they can’t accept it right now. It’s where their ego defense mechanisms come into a play (neither of them want to be the first one to fall, or accept that they have- because they don’t want to be hurt). The day your love for other person conquers all these insecurities - that day you own upto it and take a step ahead. Obviously one out of the two has to take a lead. And I am more than happy that Raghav is starting to That girl deserves it ya!

And don’t even get me started if Raghav has feelings for her or not! (Since everyone seems to be sure about Pallavi’s)- He definitely has! Feelings which range all the way from sexual attraction to a gradually deepening emotional connect. It would be a whole another topic with all the examples! 😆 Moreover sai in his interviews has already confirmed, more than once, that Raghav is already falling for her but he doesn’t know it himself.❤️

Yeah but accepting his feelings in front of Pallavi is bahut dur ki baat he isn’t even accepting it to himself or thinking about it actively. I think he has mellowed down and started taking her for granted now that she told him she is not leaving as can be seen from today’s episode because he really should have been more enthusiastic in buying Pallavi gifts but Amma literally had to force him.

He does love Pallavi deep down but won’t acknowledge it even to himself saying I don’t want pyaar wala natak and all despite being a responsible husband he is not thinking on the lines of being her lover at all.

He is just enjoying getting attention and care from her and even in the precap I felt as if he is being a kid like I don’t want this cake but no one else should have it either I say this because he won’t even entertain the possibility of love even to himself but he wants Pallavi to have feelings for him and love him.

And I absolutely agree with your opinion of a man owning up to his feelings is very attractive and intimidating even but that is the point which everyone who thinks he isn’t in love trying to make that he is doing the exact opposite of this I.e dismissing his feelings and this what is irritating us about Raghav that a man like him not even owning up to himself. Theek hai ki Pallavi ke saamne nhi because he might be scared but why not even to himself.

So true

I agree

I wouldn't want them to hide or try to be awkward about it .

Sneaking looks and stares are a part but I want them to understand and address where they both stand .

They maynot be as vocal so fast just to safeguard their own hearts , but addressing the elephant in the room is necessary . They both should know atleast that they are important to each other and this will be the basis on which they both can fight for each other against ved and d fam drama.

Already u see how pallavi reprimanded Raghav for not discussing with him , how this guy goes to her to fix his problems , how she trusts him to sort out her baba in jail .

Could they ever even dream that one day they both would have someone who fights for their self respect and gets worried on a small cut .

They come from a lot of darkness and were their own guiding light , no one ever to even shoulder that responsibility for a little time .

They knowing that they will be there for each other no matter what , well that's what you call love right 😳

Originally posted by: Medha0609

Yeah but accepting his feelings in front of Pallavi is bahut dur ki baat he isn’t even accepting it to himself or thinking about it actively. I think he has mellowed down and started taking her for granted now that she told him she is not leaving as can be seen from today’s episode because he really should have been more enthusiastic in buying Pallavi gifts but Amma literally had to force him.

He does love Pallavi deep down but won’t acknowledge it even to himself saying I don’t want pyaar wala natak and all despite being a responsible husband he is not thinking on the lines of being her lover at all.

He is just enjoying getting attention and care from her and even in the precap I felt as if he is being a kid like I don’t want this cake but no one else should have it either I say this because he won’t even entertain the possibility of love even to himself but he wants Pallavi to have feelings for him and love him.

And I absolutely agree with your opinion of a man owning up to his feelings is very attractive and intimidating even but that is the point which everyone who thinks he isn’t in love trying to make that he is doing the exact opposite of this I.e dismissing his feelings and this what is irritating us about Raghav that a man like him not even owning up to himself. Theek hai ki Pallavi ke saamne nhi because he might be scared but why not even to himself.

I agree with you. This behaviour from Raghav is off-putting. Him taking her for granted. He’s a flawed human being and if he continues doing this it will be hurtful for Pallavi to be in love with him but she won’t be able to not be in love. Like that’s how it goes irl. He will eventually learn what it means to be in love and sensitivity it requires. It also comes from the fact that he’s accustomed to behave this way, all these years he has maintained the don aura even in front of Farhad. It’s hard for him to admit that he will do such things, but one day he will and that would be a treat to watch!

Also this taking granted thing has started only for 2episodes, I am thinking it’s being done to bring in the mandhar track and justify its significance. I would love the rude shock Raghav’s going to get if that’s the case!

Let’s not forget that Raghav cried his eyes out when he believed Pallavi was leaving, him telling her “mai tumhare saamne apna sabh kuch haar chuka hoon” or him admitting to amma - “that he feels there’s something between them”. There’s has been at least some acceptance by Raghav, we can’t deny that. He just hasn’t named it love yet, and so hasn’t Pallavi.

But yes Raghav taking her for granted is not the ideal case scenario. We don’t want a ‘he’s just like that’ Raghav. We want a Raghav who’s willing to give in to love for Pallavi. ❤️

Originally posted by: Medha0609

Yeah but accepting his feelings in front of Pallavi is bahut dur ki baat he isn’t even accepting it to himself or thinking about it actively. I think he has mellowed down and started taking her for granted now that she told him she is not leaving as can be seen from today’s episode because he really should have been more enthusiastic in buying Pallavi gifts but Amma literally had to force him.

He does love Pallavi deep down but won’t acknowledge it even to himself saying I don’t want pyaar wala natak and all despite being a responsible husband he is not thinking on the lines of being her lover at all.

He is just enjoying getting attention and care from her and even in the precap I felt as if he is being a kid like I don’t want this cake but no one else should have it either I say this because he won’t even entertain the possibility of love even to himself but he wants Pallavi to have feelings for him and love him.

And I absolutely agree with your opinion of a man owning up to his feelings is very attractive and intimidating even but that is the point which everyone who thinks he isn’t in love trying to make that he is doing the exact opposite of this I.e dismissing his feelings and this what is irritating us about Raghav that a man like him not even owning up to himself. Theek hai ki Pallavi ke saamne nhi because he might be scared but why not even to himself.

All I was trying to say was Raghav does have feelings for her. His love and the way he loves is not perfect, but he will gradually accept and get there. It’s just that, Most people are happy to believe that Raghav doesn’t fall for girls just like that and he doesn’t love her (it’s all guilt and concern from his side) while she does. I find it very disrespectful to pallavi for some reason. That’s mostly why I wrote about it. That girl is absolutely lovable and it’s not hard for the don to fall for her, which he has.

Originally posted by: drnidsur

So true

I agree

I wouldn't want them to hide or try to be awkward about it .

Sneaking looks and stares are a part but I want them to understand and address where they both stand .

They maynot be as vocal so fast just to safeguard their own hearts , but addressing the elephant in the room is necessary . They both should know atleast that they are important to each other and this will be the basis on which they both can fight for each other against ved and d fam drama.

Already u see how pallavi reprimanded Raghav for not discussing with him , how this guy goes to her to fix his problems , how she trusts him to sort out her baba in jail .

Could they ever even dream that one day they both would have someone who fights for their self respect and gets worried on a small cut .

They come from a lot of darkness and were their own guiding light , no one ever to even shoulder that responsibility for a little time .

They knowing that they will be there for each other no matter what , well that's what you call love right 😳

Righty said! I agree that they need a basis to fight for each other in near future. They both need to know that it’s mutual. They need to talk about it. I am hoping that Raghav does give her a hint tomorrow that he’s on the same boat as hers ❤️

Originally posted by: Inese_20

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So I read some discussions going round over the precap, where Raghav asks Pallavi if she has feelings for him. Many people have pointed out that they feel it’s too early. And I understand where this is coming from- many of us are accustomed to the handling of such tracks in conventional itv shows. Period.

But I beg to differ on this. I felt today’s precap was phenomenal. It was exactly what I felt has been missing in the show. Before this, I was so confused and miffed that why won’t these two at least address whatever it’s between them. Like for sure they both can feel it and both of them know that it’s mutual. (Throwback to the latest hair dryer scene). It’s only upto some extent they can ignore it and be casual about it!

So it isn’t early at all! Being coy about your feelings is such a teenage thing I guess! (A nibba-nibbi thing, in Raghav’s words🤣). Adults don’t do that! They address their feelings, take responsibility for them, be upfront about it and agree on trying to figure it out together. (To me personally, there’s nothing more attractive than a man who owns up to his feelings for you unashamedly- it oozes confidence, even intimidates you and need I say that’s 🔥. I would do the same whenever I am sure about mine!) And RaghVi give me those vibes, I expect nothing less from them. I don’t think being coy is their forte. So I hope you get me when I say that I can’t stop drooling over Raghav straight away confronting Pallavi for her feelings for him. Way to go my boy!🥳🥳

Now about their feelings for each other - that’s another thing we often talk about and kudos to sickand for giving their story so many layers that it’s so difficult for us to figure out. All of us have a version of our own on where they stand right now wrt their feelings each other. Mostly what I see is, people are sure that Pallavi has feelings for Raghav and not the other way around. Another thing I differ on. I feel they are into this together, they both are attracted to each other, they do love each other but they can’t accept it right now. It’s where their ego defense mechanisms come into a play (neither of them want to be the first one to fall, or accept that they have- because they don’t want to be hurt). The day your love for other person conquers all these insecurities - that day you own upto it and take a step ahead. Obviously one out of the two has to take a lead. And I am more than happy that Raghav is starting to That girl deserves it ya!

And don’t even get me started if Raghav has feelings for her or not! (Since everyone seems to be sure about Pallavi’s)- He definitely has! Feelings which range all the way from sexual attraction to a gradually deepening emotional connect. It would be a whole another topic with all the examples! 😆 Moreover sai in his interviews has already confirmed, more than once, that Raghav is already falling for her but he doesn’t know it himself.❤️

One slight correction Pallavi has already indirectly ecpressed her love for Raghav multiple times!! And she is sure about it!! Raghav on the other hand is confused but he also has feelings for her too!! The thing is Pallavi does everything by heart and so it was easy for her to accept her love for Raghav and her confession about making him priority in her life or her song lyrics in the karaoke session mentioning how grateful dhe is that he came into her life and the way she was heartbroken and angry when Raghav handed her the ticket to kolhapur or making him dry her hair haq se and not even getting awkard when she saw him sniffing her hair and instead she was giving lovey dovey looks!! Whereas Raghav inspite of accepting couple of times how she matters to him is still confused as his mind is not letting him accept this feelings as we have to remembet he spent a decade as a lone wolf without trusting anyone or anybody which hardened him to the point where feelings like love is an alien feelings for him. He will take his time. but he will also accept.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

One slight correction Pallavi has already indirectly ecpressed her love for Raghav multiple times!! And she is sure about it!! Raghav on the other hand is confused but he also has feelings for her too!!

Can you sight some examples?

And Raghav also has indirectly confessed many a times! - “kon jaane dega” “mai tumhare saamne sabh kuch haar gya hai Pallavi” being few of them! And in the latter one toh it was so obvious to pallavi as well.

both are confused. Even Pallavi doesn’t know. Like in precap she says, she doesn’t know if she’s going to keep that fast for him or not.

Can you sight some examples?

And Raghav also has indirectly confessed many a times! - “kon jaane dega” “mai tumhare saamne sabh kuch haar gya hai Pallavi” being few of them! And in the latter one toh it was so obvious to pallavi as well.

both are confused. Even Pallavi doesn’t know. Like in precap she says, she doesn’t know if she’s going to keep that fast for him or

The thing is Pallavi does everything by heart and so it was easy for her to accept her love for Raghav and her confession about making him priority in her life or her song lyrics in the karaoke session mentioning how grateful dhe is that he came into her life and the way she was heartbroken and angry when Raghav handed her the ticket to kolhapur or making him dry her hair haq se and not even getting awkard when she saw him sniffing her hair and instead she was giving lovey dovey looks!! Whereas Raghav inspite of accepting couple of times how she matters to him is still confused as his mind is not letting him accept this feelings as we have to remembet he spent a decade as a lone wolf without trusting anyone or anybody which hardened him to the point where feelings like love is an alien feelings for him. He will take his time. but he will also accept.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

The thing is Pallavi does everything by heart and so it was easy for her to accept her love for Raghav and her confession about making him priority in her life or her song lyrics in the karaoke session mentioning how grateful dhe is that he came into her life and the way she was heartbroken and angry when Raghav handed her the ticket to kolhapur or making him dry her hair haq se and not even getting awkard when she saw him sniffing her hair and instead she was giving lovey dovey looks!! Whereas Raghav inspite of accepting couple of times how she matters to him is still confused as his mind is not letting him accept this feelings as we have to remembet he spent a decade as a lone wolf without trusting anyone or anybody which hardened him to the point where feelings like love is an alien feelings for him. He will take his time. but he will also accept.

Agree with you! ❤️🤗