Today’s precap: They do have feelings for each other. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Medha0609

Yeah but accepting his feelings in front of Pallavi is bahut dur ki baat he isn’t even accepting it to himself or thinking about it actively. I think he has mellowed down and started taking her for granted now that she told him she is not leaving as can be seen from today’s episode because he really should have been more enthusiastic in buying Pallavi gifts but Amma literally had to force him.

He does love Pallavi deep down but won’t acknowledge it even to himself saying I don’t want pyaar wala natak and all despite being a responsible husband he is not thinking on the lines of being her lover at all.

He is just enjoying getting attention and care from her and even in the precap I felt as if he is being a kid like I don’t want this cake but no one else should have it either I say this because he won’t even entertain the possibility of love even to himself but he wants Pallavi to have feelings for him and love him.

And I absolutely agree with your opinion of a man owning up to his feelings is very attractive and intimidating even but that is the point which everyone who thinks he isn’t in love trying to make that he is doing the exact opposite of this I.e dismissing his feelings and this what is irritating us about Raghav that a man like him not even owning up to himself. Theek hai ki Pallavi ke saamne nhi because he might be scared but why not even to himself.

About the bold, makes you wonder if this is the same guy who did the whole flowers and tab gift thing for her.

Raghav is so confusing ya.. He is always like - dho kadam aage to chaar kadam piche🤔.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Agree with you! ❤️🤗

Who is saying it's too early ! 🤣

Ab nahi toh kab hoga bhai 🤣

I think it's the perfect opportunity to talk about their feelings. I'm sure Pallu will avoid the question or not answer it straight forward. But Vat Savitri is the perfect time to bring this up.

Personally I do not believe in all these festivals praying for husband's long life. And I see so many ladies keeping this festival and then continuously bad mouthing their husband's or wives who keep for their toxic husband's.

And obviously if just by keeping this festival all men would have a long life then Indian men would have the longest lives forever🤣

But If a woman is keeping it out of love for her husband I support it.

I don't like where women keep it merely because it's a tradition or forced to keep by their in laws.

I'm with Amma's view keep it only if you want to keep it for your husband. If you love him.

So it's the perfect opportunity to bring it up. If Pallavi genuinely feels for Raghav only then she should keep it and not that she is a suhagan now so she has to keep it.

That's why I'm looking forward to this sequence !.❤️

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Who is saying it's too early ! 🤣

Ab nahi toh kab hoga bhai 🤣

I think it's the perfect opportunity to talk about their feelings. I'm sure Pallu will avoid the question or not answer it straight forward. But Vat Savitri is the perfect time to bring this up.

Personally I do not believe in all these festivals praying for husband's long life. And I see so many ladies keeping this festival and then continuously bad mouthing their husband's or wives who keep for their toxic husband's.

And obviously if just by keeping this festival all men would have a long life then Indian men would have the longest lives forever🤣

But If a woman is keeping it out of love for her husband I support it.

I don't like where women keep it merely because it's a tradition or forced to keep by their in laws.

I'm with Amma's view keep it only if you want to keep it for your husband. If you love him.

So it's the perfect opportunity to bring it up. If Pallavi genuinely feels for Raghav only then she should keep it and not that she is a suhagan now so she has to keep it.

That's why I'm looking forward to this sequence !.❤️

This is another such good point you have made !! Just because it is tradition and you are married do not mean that you have to follow it and if you do want to follow it then make sure the one who you are keeping vrat for is the one you love!! Kyu kisi ke liye agar dil se pyar ho na to woh duniya kisi bhi vrat ya puja se zyada kam ati hai!!

Originally posted by: meghumonu

This is another such good point you have made !! Just because it is tradition and you are married do not mean that you have to follow it and if you do want to follow it then make sure the one who you are keeping vrat for is the one you love!! Kyu kisi ke liye agar dil se pyar ho na to woh duniya kisi bhi vrat ya puja se zyada kam ati hai!!

@bold... Exactly so many women are forced to keep it cause society kya kahegi pati ki lambi umar ke liye puja nahi ki.

I have personally never believed in karwa chauth or Teej. But if you genuinely love your spouse then I totally support it. So many husbands also keep it now days.

I would love it if they show even Raghav going hungry till Pallu hasn't eaten

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

@bold... Exactly so many women are forced to keep it cause society kya kahegi pati ki lambi umar ke liye puja nahi ki.

I have personally never believed in karwa chauth or Teej. But if you genuinely love your spouse then I totally support it. So many husbands also keep it now days.

I would love it if they show even Raghav going hungry till Pallu hasn't eaten

i wishhhhhhh....😳

pallu might faint out of shock than hypoglycemia if he does 😉

Originally posted by: drnidsur

i wishhhhhhh....😳

pallu might faint out of shock than hypoglycemia if he does 😉

Even I really really want this sequence

I LOVED THE PRECAP! Finally they're addressing the elephant in the room - THEIR FEELINGS!

Bold - I totally agree with this. He has all range of feelings for her and is just waiting for her to also be on the same page and that is why he's not accepting his feelings. There is an unsaid conflict in his heart where one part of his knows that he really needs and wants her and loves her then there is the other part which denies all this by saying that he's just fulfilling a husband's duty because he fears rejection.

Pallavi is slowly developing feelings and as I guessed, it has started from being physically aware of him. Well, it does start like this for most people in this world, when something inside us just shifts and all of a sudden there is this great physical awareness of the person you're attracted to. Hormones, damn you 😆As for emotional depth, they've both already developed that a while back.

I am so happy they're actually communicating about feelings because not speaking about it, feeling shy and uncomfortable is what children do. Not grown ups. I loved how he just put it out there " Do you feel for me". Nothing more attractive than this!!! 🥳

Originally posted by: Inese_20

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So I read some discussions going round over the precap, where Raghav asks Pallavi if she has feelings for him. Many people have pointed out that they feel it’s too early. And I understand where this is coming from- many of us are accustomed to the handling of such tracks in conventional itv shows. Period.

But I beg to differ on this. I felt today’s precap was phenomenal. It was exactly what I felt has been missing in the show. Before this, I was so confused and miffed that why won’t these two at least address whatever it’s between them. Like for sure they both can feel it and both of them know that it’s mutual. (Throwback to the latest hair dryer scene). It’s only upto some extent they can ignore it and be casual about it!

So it isn’t early at all! Being coy about your feelings is such a teenage thing I guess! (A nibba-nibbi thing, in Raghav’s words🤣). Adults don’t do that! They address their feelings, take responsibility for them, be upfront about it and agree on trying to figure it out together. (To me personally, there’s nothing more attractive than a man who owns up to his feelings for you unashamedly- it oozes confidence, even intimidates you and need I say that’s 🔥. I would do the same whenever I am sure about mine!) And RaghVi give me those vibes, I expect nothing less from them. I don’t think being coy is their forte. So I hope you get me when I say that I can’t stop drooling over Raghav straight away confronting Pallavi for her feelings for him. Way to go my boy!🥳🥳

Now about their feelings for each other - that’s another thing we often talk about and kudos to sickand for giving their story so many layers that it’s so difficult for us to figure out. All of us have a version of our own on where they stand right now wrt their feelings each other. Mostly what I see is, people are sure that Pallavi has feelings for Raghav and not the other way around. Another thing I differ on. I feel they are into this together, they both are attracted to each other, they do love each other but they can’t accept it right now. It’s where their ego defense mechanisms come into a play (neither of them want to be the first one to fall, or accept that they have- because they don’t want to be hurt). The day your love for other person conquers all these insecurities - that day you own upto it and take a step ahead. Obviously one out of the two has to take a lead. And I am more than happy that Raghav is starting to That girl deserves it ya!

And don’t even get me started if Raghav has feelings for her or not! (Since everyone seems to be sure about Pallavi’s)- He definitely has! Feelings which range all the way from sexual attraction to a gradually deepening emotional connect. It would be a whole another topic with all the examples! 😆 Moreover sai in his interviews has already confirmed, more than once, that Raghav is already falling for her but he doesn’t know it himself.❤️

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Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Who is saying it's too early ! 🤣

Ab nahi toh kab hoga bhai 🤣

Saw many comments in various discussion threads and i was as surprised as you here 🤣 that’s why felt the need to say it. I was eagerly waiting for them to talk about it!❤️

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

@bold... Exactly so many women are forced to keep it cause society kya kahegi pati ki lambi umar ke liye puja nahi ki.

I have personally never believed in karwa chauth or Teej. But if you genuinely love your spouse then I totally support it. So many husbands also keep it now days.

I would love it if they show even Raghav going hungry till Pallu hasn't eaten

@bold - if only!