Originally posted by: BlueJayFire
Absolutely bang on - the commitment. Thats the keyword. If I were to be told this 10 years ago, of live in vs. married, my perspective would have been different being brought up in a super conservative and traditional background . But after knowing many couples at my work and friends who are committed, lots of love and living happily with/without the marriage, few who have adopted kids and with no barriers. kudos to them and it changed me too to be non judgemental.
Live in relationships are not taboo this days!! My own colleague is in a live in relationship with her boyfriend and she is a divorcee and has a cute 3 year old daughter and her partner is super comfortable with it!! And this is Kolkata I am talking about!! So yes perspective is changing and in a decade it will also become accepted!! The problem with Sunny and Keerthi is that this nibba is still immature and is no way in position to be in any kind of commited relationship!! Nibbi also is immature as she thinks obsessive infatuation is love!! Love is not about kissing or physical intimacy but is something small on daily life like understanding each other, Adjusting for your partner, sharing thoughts and feelings, supporting each other in good and bad times. That is love according to me.