Episode Spoiler - 19 June 2021 - Page 11

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Pallavi has fallen in love..there is no two ways about it. She has been expressing her feelings by her actions and words very explicitly.

1. Tum meri priority ho

2. Chun liya tumhe apne parivar ke upar

3. Mein Pallavi Raghav Rao banke khush hu

4. Mein tumhe chhodke, is ghar, is parivar ko chhodke kahin nahi ja rahi

I mean after saying all these things out loud, danke ki chot pe, where is the room for doubt that she is declaring her love for him? Emotionally she is very much aware where she stands..I think now slowly she is gearing up to be physically comfortable around him.. She ASKED him to blow dry her hair. What does one make of that? Maybe...actually I am pretty sure she knows he loves her hair and so she deliberately asks him to blow dry her hair.. and eyes him sensually when he has his eyes closed trying to feel her hair flying across his face..she is taking baby steps but she knows what she's doing and what she wants. I wouldn't be surprised if she moves into his bedroom.. why not? they are a young, extremely handsome couple, legally married, very much attracted to each other..so why not? Physical intimacy is a natural progression from emotional bonding and I am glad she is going with the flow.. enough of FLs hyperventilating at the slightest touch of the MLs and acting all touch-me not.

BUT and this is just my intuition after seeing the latest promo, that maybe they are showing Pallavi so open and expressive because she will be the one to withdraw after Mandhar's death accusation falls on Raghav.

For both of them, they've openly and explicitly declared to the whole damn world what the other means to them. There's no room for doubt left.

Honestly, I hope they do move in together without much fanfare about it. I can imagine that making the shift while in the other house would have required some discussion, because one person would have ended up packing up, and moving everything, but now that they're moving back, they should just casually settle their stuff in the same room and be done with it. They've both whole heartedly accepted the marriage for life, toh kya, lifelong they plan to be this platonic couple who lives in different rooms? There really isn't a reason for them to not share a living space anymore.

The promo feels so..ugh. it's such typical ITV over the top drama. I so, so don't want all this ghisa pita nonsense to take over the story. Based on the date shown, I'm gonna enjoy next week as much as I can before we head into whatever this nonsense is all about. Then let's see how long the show remains watchable.

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire

Ditto...Jean and Misty and Aye-Masakali, Mihika - beautiful writers in this forum. I absolutely love reading your views. And then tons of friends to chat with as well. That's what makes this show unique for me.

This is so sweet 🤗

Honestly, half my enjoyment of the show comes from being able to dissect everything to pieces with all of you here 😆 It's such an engaging space.

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

Ok this is something i have been feeling about raghav lately everytime pallavi went “mera pati” , there was always a reaction to this particular term. am not really sure how to put it but what i meant re. husband vs lover thing is that..Raghav has always craved to belong to someone. Raghav wants to be the “main tumhara hoon” types more than the “tum meri ho” types is what i feel.. The husband tag gives him just that..being a husband is a much more tangible term for an insecure loner like him than being just her lover.
During the abortion fiasco, pallavi takes out his kerchief and wipes the dirt off her hands and puts it back on him.. something about the act probably moved him cuz he actually looks at the kerchief and decides to investigate the issue and clear her name. Although he said that he couldnt bear the disgust in her eyes, i thought it was the kerchief act that made him react that way. In restrospect, it was may be the haq that she exerted over him through the act. In several other instances, raghav has done her bidding when she has demanded from him .. be it to extend the mall payment deadline or sth as inconsequential as holding the saree high up.

Also, i dont mean he doesnt want to be her lover. But he wants to be the husband first.. the way he categorically denies love when his amma or farhad asked tells me he is not in that headspace at all. But he is aware of the pull he feels towards her so ya, he will get there eventually. Going by the latest promo, the angst, the feels are all hoing to amplify.. but
the pull.. It has always been there na since their first highway meeting where he wipes her sweat away or fixing the pallu from falling.. Ah the feels.. got carried away..

@bold- such a perfect way to put it! It's why he was so delighted when Pallavi showed haq on him. He's been living such an ungrounded life for 10 years, emotionally speaking. He just wants to belong to someone.

Originally posted by: Neha054

I agree ! His reasons for being against marriage dont make sense either . He says he was left alone in the hostel because of his parents messy divorce . If that's his issue , he can marry her and remain childless or smthng .

I have nothing against live ins , but it's still looked down upon in India . He knows Keerti and her family have reservations about it . Yet, he forces her into this :/

Yeah, but at the same time, it's getting more and more acceptable gradually. Had this show gone ahead and represented it as a viable, alternative lifestyle that the family eventually gets to accept, I'd have loved it!

I love Sunny's attitude, I found even his rudeness and his slyness to be really enjoyable. Him and Raghav have crackling chemistry on screen, be it in the love angel scene (🤣) or the scene last week. All in all, he's a really compelling character IMO. I'd love to see him and Ved team up (intentionally or unintentionally) and cause havoc. The conflicts these characters have the potential to create are far more interesting to watch than family melodrama.

Sunny's only crossed two lines so far in my mind- one, that prank where Kirti thought he was dying- extremely insensitive. I wouldn't do that to someone I care about in my worst nightmares. And second, and the big one of course, emotionally blackmailing her to elope.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Yeah, but at the same time, it's getting more and more acceptable gradually. Had this show gone ahead and represented it as a viable, alternative lifestyle that the family eventually gets to accept, I'd have loved it!

I love Sunny's attitude, I found even his rudeness and his slyness to be really enjoyable. Him and Raghav have crackling chemistry on screen, be it in the love angel scene (🤣) or the scene last week. All in all, he's a really compelling character IMO. I'd love to see him and Ved team up (intentionally or unintentionally) and cause havoc. The conflicts these characters have the potential to create are far more interesting to watch than family melodrama.

Sunny's only crossed two lines so far in my mind- one, that prank where Kirti thought he was dying- extremely insensitive. I wouldn't do that to someone I care about in my worst nightmares. And second, and the big one of course, emotionally blackmailing her to elope.

Lol, true . I enjoy him onscreen .

Ved and Sunny can create all the havoc and drama they want . D Drama and melodrama though 😪

Other than these two instances , he isn't too problematic, I wouldn't even mind if he is evil or whatever . His and Raghav's scenes together are one of my favourite scenes , next only to Raghav and Pallu and Raghav and Sanki scenes lol

Originally posted by: inlieu

Such a beautiful post! You've perfectly describe her current state.

She has fallen in love with him, and some of it was evident in her outburst after she returned from the Ds, the way she was angry with him, for him, the way she refused to leave him, etc. I mean it seemed funny with the whole jhadoo scene but deep down she was exerting her rights on him already. She's not going anywhere but forward in this marriage and she wants to enjoy every bit of it.

@bold, that's how I read the scene too. She had said forlornly that she never got a chance to love Mandar, so Raghav is her first (and last) and she knows that with time he would indeed be a great life partner for her. She's always been a good judge of character so she feels secure in this regard. It helps a lot knowing his past that he'd never hurt her intentionally and would be very careful with how he treats this marriage going forward. Not many women have that assurance. She's been attracted to him overtly from the beginning and her reaction when he was hit by the car, the way she looked after him, etc. all those suppressed emotions have gradually built up and she's fallen for him. I am glad she's fine with acknowledging it, at least to herself. I have a feeling if there had been no misunderstandings and they had continued to run into each other and spend more time, she would have fallen for him anyway. His loneliness drew her to him, of course, but I also think it's the intensity with which he focused on her, like no one else has ever done.

Regarding his looks and pampering... I always say, there's so much role reversal on this show, it's quite interesting to see the FL fall for the looks and charm of the ML, while he falls for her personality/nature. Nothing wrong with it but yeah, she has always been attracted by his aura and sometimes I feel on some subconscious level wanting to prove that she was good enough for him whenever he taunted her for her lack of talent or business acumen. I expect to see that come out eventually. You know it's also refreshing to see that even with all that money, the things he does for her don't cost him anything (financially), but are rather an investment of his time and effort. He could buy her anything but neither is she interested, nor is he. Let's see if that changes with time.

Exactly my point !! Pallavi was from start always attracted to Raghav!! It all started with her watching him doing bharatnatyam so gracefully but manly way!! Her skipped a beat and not to mention she was already attracted to his no nonsense attitude and business acumen!! After all he is a self made billionaire!! From the start this man on top of being attractive also exudes an alpha wolf aura!! Bit like an Allu Arjun movie dialogue Telugu Simha ( Telugu lion) not our GKK. She was always upfront with her feelings for him and never tried to deny it but rather followed her heart. Remember the dialogue after Pallavi was humilliated by Raghav and when they met in the street she straightaway hold his collar and said dil tutne ka awaz nahi hoti but uski ghao utni hi gehri hoti hai!! This dialogue sealed it that shw was already feeling for him in her heart and that is why the dil dialogue came!! It is always she was approaching him not the other way around!! Raghav starting to fall for her only after marriage but he is still not there but Pallavi is there and someway or other she is guiding him slowly to break the barrier and be physically intimate with him!! It is such a refreshing way to see FL falling for ML first in ITV!! Not many shows story like this except KHKT and NBT!!

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

What's off about Sunny is not the live-in thing, it's the commitment thing. Whether you want to marry someone or just live with them for the rest of your lives, both are big commitments. It's not ki shaadi nahi ki toh relationship mein commitment nahi hogi, and if he wants to keep commitment out of it, why is he making plans for life?

Infact, it's his take on marriage vs live in that's a little insulting to people who choose to live together, with the implication that the responsibility and commitment is less. I have friends who've been living happily with their partners, and I couldn't dream of telling them that their relationships have less of a commitment to each other than it would if they were married.

Absolutely bang on - the commitment. Thats the keyword. If I were to be told this 10 years ago, of live in vs. married, my perspective would have been different being brought up in a super conservative and traditional background . But after knowing many couples at my work and friends who are committed, lots of love and living happily with/without the marriage, few who have adopted kids and with no barriers. kudos to them and it changed me too to be non judgemental.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Exactly my point !! Pallavi was from start always attracted to Raghav!! It all started with her watching him doing bharatnatyam so gracefully but manly way!! Her skipped a beat and not to mention she was already attracted to his no nonsense attitude and business acumen!! After all he is a self made billionaire!! From the start this man on top of being attractive also exudes an alpha wolf aura!! Bit like an Allu Arjun movie dialogue Telugu Simha ( Telugu lion) not our GKK. She was always upfront with her feelings for him and never tried to deny it but rather followed her heart. Remember the dialogue after Pallavi was humilliated by Raghav and when they met in the street she straightaway hold his collar and said dil tutne ka awaz nahi hoti but uski ghao utni hi gehri hoti hai!! This dialogue sealed it that shw was already feeling for him in her heart and that is why the dil dialogue came!! It is always she was approaching him not the other way around!! Raghav starting to fall for her only after marriage but he is still not there but Pallavi is there and someway or other she is guiding him slowly to break the barrier and be physically intimate with him!! It is such a refreshing way to see FL falling for ML first in ITV!! Not many shows story like this except KHKT and NBT!!

Read this thread and it is so good. Has helped me understand their dynamics beautifully.

I will like to add one thing here. I agree pallavi is there, she had always been attracted to him- it was evident many times. Also the fact that she excused him quite fast for humiliating her and forcefully marrying her.

But it’s almost the same for Raghav. He had been harsh to her, on her face- calling her not so beautiful, not his heroine etc. But it’s a fact that he has felt attracted her multiple times. Him bending his rules for no one but her, going out of his way help her, being vocal about how he this girl is different to farhad, the way his eyes were fixated on her waist, getting lost in her fragrance, wanting to help her with the hook and then the safety pin, how mesmerised by her he was in the Ramaswamy ashram scene and then when she came to RR mansion the first time, him talking to the saree she forgot at his home unable to stop thinking about her, getting worried about her when she goes missing, hallucinating, how dazed he looked with her proximity (the injured raghav scene) , passing out in order to reach his phone to reply her texts and then it was the first thing which came to his mind as he woke up, him smiling to her texts, admitting to himself “saree ka dukan aaj acha lg rha hai” and then instantly chiding himself for doing the same, getting mesmerised by her dance, the safety pin scene. I remember farhad mentioning to him that nowadays everything in his life, good or bad, revolves around Pallavi only. Even after the forced marriage he was so soft to her even when keerti mms misunderstanding was not yet clear. The kanghi scene for example. He had accepted her as his wife from day 1 because somewhere his heart wasn’t ready to believe that Pallavi could be wrong. He could never hate her. Just took some impulsive steps going against his own subconscious. And then obviously when he realised his mistake, his only target was her happiness, continued till date.

Raghav very much loves her. But he doesn’t want to admit it to himself, like he himself said multiple times that he runs 1000km in opposite direction from love (for some reason, I am guessing he fears the vulnerability given how his love for his family wasn’t reciprocated for last 10 years. I low-key tend to do the same). Obviously it will take something big for him to realise his love for her (like Pallavi getting kidnapped in goritanku).

Pallavi on the other hand, is more accepting of her feelings. And definitely it’s a welcome change for itv. I think she will realise first, but after today’s episode, I can confidently say that both are very much in love.

Hii inlieu (Your name is jean right?) and MistyDawn. I love these meaningful discussions you usually have. They give me such better insight about Raghvi and the bond they share. ❤️ I loved loved reading this particular thread. Absolutely beautiful.

Can you please tag me whenever and wherever you make such posts? Pleaseee😳😳I would love to read from you both.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Read this thread and it is so good. Has helped me understand their dynamics beautifully.

I will like to add one thing here. I agree pallavi is there, she had always been attracted to him- it was evident many times. Also the fact that she excused him quite fast for humiliating her and forcefully marrying her.

But it’s almost the same for Raghav. He had been harsh to her, on her face- calling her not so beautiful, not his heroine etc. But it’s a fact that he has felt attracted her multiple times. Him bending his rules for no one but her, going out of his way help her, being vocal about how he this girl is different to farhad, the way his eyes were fixated on her waist, getting lost in her fragrance, wanting to help her with the hook and then the safety pin, how mesmerised by her he was in the Ramaswamy ashram scene and then when she came to RR mansion the first time, him talking to the saree she forgot at his home unable to stop thinking about her, getting worried about her when she goes missing, hallucinating, how dazed he looked with her proximity (the injured raghav scene) , passing out in order to reach his phone to reply her texts and then it was the first thing which came to his mind as he woke up, him smiling to her texts, admitting to himself “saree ka dukan aaj acha lg rha hai” and then instantly chiding himself for doing the same, getting mesmerised by her dance, the safety pin scene. I remember farhad mentioning to him that nowadays everything in his life, good or bad, revolves around Pallavi only. Even after the forced marriage he was so soft to her even when keerti mms misunderstanding was not yet clear. The kanghi scene for example. He had accepted her as his wife from day 1 because somewhere his heart wasn’t ready to believe that Pallavi could be wrong. He could never hate her. Just took some impulsive steps going against his own subconscious. And then obviously when he realised his mistake, his only target was her happiness, continued till date.

Raghav very much loves her. But he doesn’t want to admit it to himself, like he himself said multiple times that he runs 1000km in opposite direction from love (for some reason, I am guessing he fears the vulnerability given how his love for his family wasn’t reciprocated for last 10 years. I low-key tend to do the same). Obviously it will take something big for him to realise his love for her (like Pallavi getting kidnapped in goritanku).

Pallavi on the other hand, is more accepting of her feelings. And definitely it’s a welcome change for itv. I think she will realise first, but after today’s episode, I can confidently say that both are very much in love.

True the difference is Raghav was interested in pallavi also but for different reason!! He found her strong, calm and honourable and quite differenr from other gold digger women who surrounded him!! To him Pallavi was an enigma!! Who do not fear him, Straight sunao him and can stand up to him in his face and never back dowm from any challenge!! She intrigued him and not to mention he was lonely and the challenge and intrigue of Pallavi he found it interesting as for first time in a decade someone is showing genuine interest in him as a person rather than his wealth!! He enjoyed Pallavi's attention and craved for it though it was hate but he found a new reason to live and the thought if defeating Pallavi brought him out of his loneliness and kept him occupied. Raghav also felt attracted to Pallavi but never gave any consideration for those feelings but it drastically changed after marriage and from the guilt track the boy is head over heels in love but still unable to recognize it!! Such a beautiful and natural love story!!