What is wrong with what Kavya said?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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What is wrong with what Kavya said?


What is wrong with keeping a maid 24x7 ?


It is a woman's choice if she wants to do the household chores or not.

It is a woman's choice if she wants to work outside the home but not inside the home.


Why should Kavya make chai for Vanraj ? Why can't that man go make his own chai ?


How DARE Vanraj feels entitled to ask Kavya to make chai for him ?


It is NOT a woman's responsibility to do household chores, cook at home, cook for husband and family.


This show needs to END!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shiv8879

What is wrong with what Kavya said?


What is wrong with keeping a maid 24x7 ?


It is a woman's choice if she wants to do the household chores or not.

It is a woman's choice if she wants to work outside the home but not inside the home.


Why should Kavya make chai for Vanraj ? Why can't that man go make his own chai ?


How DARE Vanraj feels entitled to ask Kavya to make chai for him ?


It is NOT a woman's responsibility to do household chores, cook at home, cook for husband and family.


This show needs to END!


I agree…. Why makers are trying to portray that keeping a maid is not a right choice by women even when all their cast/members are having lot of maids at their houses…..

They are making a big issue…. Rakhi rightly said Anupama se better maid toh ho hi nahi sakte because everyone treats Anupama like a maid and she even does that work…. And now why is Anupama interfering in Kavyas matters…. Khud kaam karna hai karo why stop her…. Baa ka right banata hai bolne ka but not of Anupama… And why is she now motivating Vanraj…. She needs to leave Vanraj and his parvah and his thoughts…. Why can’t Anupama stop interfering in everyone’s matter….

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Honestly, I can't stand it now either. Anupama is an amazing woman, as the daughter of a home-maker I have nothing but respect for the way she handles her home, and I'm so happy they're encouraging women who were made home-makers against their will to step out and fulfill their own dreams.

But how DARE they, in the SAME BREATH, dictate that women need to be at their husband's beck and call as though that is the priority. The audacity is shocking. You can't tell a woman to "reclaim her independence" whilst also telling her that not being a slave to your husband and his family means she is less than.

As someone who will be a working woman myself, if my husband demanded Chai from me despite being home BEFORE me, I'd tell him exactly where to go shove the tea leaves. Vanraj needs to be taught a lesson and brought to his knees, and I really hope anupama and Kavya can join forces for that, because that's exactly what he deserves, the two women he basically played around with making him their b***h.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Thoda bahut ghar ka kaam i prefer kyonki isse hum physically fit rehte hai

For good heart functioning for good blood circualation at least subko 1 hr kaam karna chahiye

But i Dont prefer doing work for big family all alone . Aisi big family mein khuch kaam hum khud karein aur khuch kaam maid se karwayein


Agar physical work bilkul nahi karenge toh bhi bimar padenge aur bahut jyaadati physical work to bhi bimar padenge

Excess of anythimg is deny every where

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Just today Somewhere I agree with kavya 👍🏼 as I was working women and understandable that she was tired and she wanted few minutes and I am against the way vee order her 😡🤢 it's her choice to go house work after tiring job or not and maid idea is not bad decision also but the way she and rakhi insulting Anupama as a maid I totally against that if kavya have choice then Anupama have full rights also...for me all happen because vee 😡

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipali13

Just today Somewhere I agree with kavya 👍🏼 as I was working women and understandable that she was tired and she wanted few minutes and I am against the way vee order her 😡🤢 it's her choice to go house work after tiring job or not and maid idea is not bad decision also but the way she and rakhi insulting Anupama as a maid I totally against that if kavya have choice then Anupama have full rights also...for me all happen because vee 😡

I was so irritated when vanraj was ordering her mere liye chai banao when she was damm tired from the day's work....he only went for an interview not working .usne sahi kaha wait for sometime or make it urself....bhaisaab se baat hazam nahi hui toh kar diya compare Anupama se,even Anupama s expression was like mujhe kyun beech mein laa rahe ho


Thank god baa didn't interfere with mere bete ko chai nahi de sakti warna mera khoon aur khaulta

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sushups

I was so irritated when vanraj was ordering her mere liye chai banao when she was damm tired from the day's work....he only went for an interview not working .usne sahi kaha wait for sometime or make it urself....bhaisaab se baat hazam nahi hui toh kar diya compare Anupama se,even Anupama s expression was like mujhe kyun beech mein laa rahe ho


Thank god baa didn't interfere with mere bete ko chai nahi de sakti warna mera khoon aur khaulta


Kavya have a good reply to Vanraj today that khud bana lo agar itna hi hai toh… kavya full day kaam karke aaye the and Vanraj sirf ek interview… so he could have handled that very well…. And why to compare both of them…. She rightly said ki isse liye toh usne Anupama ko choda tha and usse pyaar kiya tha because he didn’t wanted Kavya to behave like Anupama… and Kavya has every right to deny his request… itna thak haar ke he is expecting her to now not even rest for 2 min and cook for him as if he is some king of place…🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️


But Anupama too need to stop poking Kavya and Kavya need to stop poking Anupama… faltu ka ek doosre ke matters main lage rehte hai… sab apna apna manage karo jaise karna hai… Bapuji ko dikhna chaiye ki unke decision ne kya kar rakha hai ghar main 😤😤

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12


Kavya have a good reply to Vanraj today that khud bana lo agar itna hi hai toh… kavya full day kaam karke aaye the and Vanraj sirf ek interview… so he could have handled that very well…. And why to compare both of them…. She rightly said ki isse liye toh usne Anupama ko choda tha and usse pyaar kiya tha because he didn’t wanted Kavya to behave like Anupama… and Kavya has every right to deny his request… itna thak haar ke he is expecting her to now not even rest for 2 min and cook for him as if he is some king of place…🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️


But Anupama too need to stop poking Kavya and Kavya need to stop poking Anupama… faltu ka ek doosre ke matters main lage rehte hai… sab apna apna manage karo jaise karna hai… Bapuji ko dikhna chaiye ki unke decision ne kya kar rakha hai ghar main 😤😤

Kavya is not wrong but why you continually telling ke Anupama ko poke nahi karna chahiye ❓ kavya and vee ne fight mai Anupama ke naam ko ghasita tha na ki Anupama ne bich mai tang adai thi 🤔

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Jub subah 9 baje se 9 raat 9 baje tuk office mein hi rehna hai aur jub ko peeche ghar mein khaana banane wala na ho tub to full time maid rakhni hi padegi


9 baje ka office ka matlab subah 8.30 pe nikal jaana. Subah 5 baje uthne kur aur 8.30 baje kitna kaam kar legi jub husband koi help nahin kar raha

Jub koi 10 hrs office mein kaam kar raha hai to uske paas ghar ka karne time bahut thoda bachta hai


Logically kavya is right use 10 hrs office mein bitana peeche se uske liye koi khabar banaya nahin vanraj bhi king ki tarah baith rahenge

10 hrs kaam karne ke baad kavya apne liye khana banaya aur vanraj ke liye bhi banaye to yeh sub possible nahin hota aur bhi ghar me kaam utna jyaad possible nahin hai when woman working for 10 hrs in office aur peeche koi ghar ka kaam nahin karne wala especisally by husband . To aise mein maid hi rakhna samajhdari hoti hai

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rohil.ban12


Kavya have a good reply to Vanraj today that khud bana lo agar itna hi hai toh… kavya full day kaam karke aaye the and Vanraj sirf ek interview… so he could have handled that very well…. And why to compare both of them…. She rightly said ki isse liye toh usne Anupama ko choda tha and usse pyaar kiya tha because he didn’t wanted Kavya to behave like Anupama… and Kavya has every right to deny his request… itna thak haar ke he is expecting her to now not even rest for 2 min and cook for him as if he is some king of place…🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️


But Anupama too need to stop poking Kavya and Kavya need to stop poking Anupama… faltu ka ek doosre ke matters main lage rehte hai… sab apna apna manage karo jaise karna hai… Bapuji ko dikhna chaiye ki unke decision ne kya kar rakha hai ghar main 😤😤

Kavya s reply was perfect n that's true that he loved her because she was not Anupama ab Anupama jaise kyun bane .vanraj was too much ...i really want to smack his face when he started ordering kavya

But today Anupama poking her nose I can understand as dono sarvajanik sthan mein jhagad rahe the,it's irritating to hear such banter when u want peace .I have extended family members sometimes speak in high volume on dinning table n i always say please let me eat /drink peacefully n if u want to argue quarrel or raise ur voice plz go inside a room and do so.

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