Ability to love

" Main muhabbat ke mamle main baanjh hoon , aisa nahi he ke main muhabbat karna nahe chahta , laikin main muhabbat kar nahi sakta" .. Remembering these lines of Sadat hassan minto, a really good writer of Urdu literature.

What do you think about above lines?

Do you think it is true , that some people despite wanting to be loved or to love , they can't ?

If yes, is it because they lack some qualities like comittment or something else?

or do you think, above lines are nothing but a very good lines to get rid of one's GF or BF 😊

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

" Main muhabbat ke mamle main baanjh hoon , aisa nahi he ke main muhabbat karna nahe chahta , laikin main muhabbat kar nahi sakta" .. Remembering these lines of Sadat hassan minto, a really good writer of Urdu literature.

What do you think about above lines?

Do you think it is true , that some people despite wanting to be loved or to love , they can't ? --Mohobat Dil main hota hey...kabi kabi dil ki baat suban tak nahe aati tho wo log kya karee😳

If yes, is it because they lack some qualities like comittment or something else? --I think these situation we cant measure the qualities.....😃its different

or do you think, above lines are nothing but a very good lines to get rid of one's GF or BF 😊-- its a complicated situation....its depend on each persons mentality😊magar zinda rahane ke liye mohabbat zaroori hey😊

Arz hey....

Jane se pehle kusur to batya hota..........😳
itna hi pyar Tha to hum Par haq Jataya hota,😳
Hum to fir palat k rukJate....😳
Tumne hath faila kar wapis bulaya toh hota...........😳

Yaar, leave alone ability to love or not love. Some people can't even accept love graciously. Unhey pyar doh, izzat doh unn sey woh bhi naheen sambhala jata. People are weird. Why they use certain words/expressions at times is hard to understand.

Will come back to your questions later.

its true some people are unable to love.. because their upbringing might not have been factored with enough sensitivity...on the flip side you also should realize that people who think they understand love are mostly having misconceptions or wishful beliefs about reality.. 😆

Most humans are unable to perform fictional feats. Unless you learn to fly, you cannot fall in love. You need to know to fly or else you will fall and be flattened against the pavement. So unless we learn to fly, love is out of the question.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Most humans are unable to perform fictional feats. Unless you learn to fly, you cannot fall in love. You need to know to fly or else you will fall and be flattened against the pavement. So unless we learn to fly, love is out of the question.

👍🏼 wonderfully put captain haddes.

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Yaar, leave alone ability to love or not love. Some people can't even accept love graciously. Unhey pyar doh, izzat doh unn sey woh bhi naheen sambhala jata. People are weird. Why they use certain words/expressions at times is hard to understand.

Will come back to your questions later.

I concur with you there G. 😊

Love, success and freedom are most wanted in life by everyone but very few know how to handle it period. Most of the times people blow up the best they ever got. 😊

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

" Main muhabbat ke mamle main baanjh hoon , aisa nahi he ke main muhabbat karna nahe chahta , laikin main muhabbat kar nahi sakta" .. Remembering these lines of Sadat hassan minto, a really good writer of Urdu literature.

What do you think about above lines?

Do you think it is true , that some people despite wanting to be loved or to love , they can't ?

If yes, is it because they lack some qualities like comittment or something else?

or do you think, above lines are nothing but a very good lines to get rid of one's GF or BF 😊

😆 Depends. If you get stuck with someone who is hell bent on teaching you how to love, it would still be difficult in getting rid of them. 😆

I think happiness and love is mostly hereditary. 😊

btw, wouldn't that make all men "mohabbat key maamley mein bhaanj"? We all know they don't have a womb 😕 He should have said, "Main mohabbat key maamley mein na-mard hoon" 😛 😆 .....or the dude may consider trying one of these 😉

" I discovered I have a mild form of epilepsy and you bring on attacks because you make me too excited to be around you. "


" You mean more to me than life itself - but I'm suicidal. "


" You're too young for me. I mean, too *old*. We're the same age? Well, that doesn't work for me, either."

" My dog is having puppies and I need to take a year off in order to train them to attack your picture."

" This just isn't for me. Nothing personal. I want to be able to tell people I'm single."

We all have the ability to love

We just all dont have the capability to express it.

In my opinion, knowing you are loved isnt enough - it should also be expressed and demonstrated to feel fulfilled.

In a husband and wife situation, being loved without expressing it or demonstarting it is like saying

"What do you mean "do I love you" ?????? I *****ed you (for you) didnt I????"

where the ****ed can be most any verb you like.....

😡 M 😡