Why is raavi asking this ?

Today, raavi asked Shiva why is his anger directed to her when it's masi who did wrong to the family. Is it so tough to understand?

Mami has always tried to break their family and gain access to their money. Raavi knew everything yet she was so desperate to marry dev. What I said about rishita holds true for raavi also..raavi knew clashes r inevitable if she marries dev ...plus Shiva is so much against her and mami... Yet she chose to marry in pandya family...then why is she acting so confused today ? She didn't see it coming ? She shouldn't be complaining that she is stuck between rock and hard place. She chose it. Of all people , mami was against her alliance with dev. 😆 Coz pandya family won't accept her bec of their past.

For Shiva, his family matters the most and whenever mami tries to create problems , it riles him.up. plus , he is insecure about mami and raavi as he knows raavi can be gullible or will be at some point ..she won't break ties with mami completely ,mami won't stop interfering today or in future , mami will be successful in her plans ..when he saw mami gossiping with raavi about land and money, he lost it. Through raavi mami got a chance to get close and she won't leave a chance to create problems that's why Shiva was so much against raavi and dev rishita..now when he is married to raavi, problem remains the same.

What raavi needs to do is to make sure mami doesn't interfere in her family matters. She cant expect Shiva to respect mami after she saw mami spewing venom like that..

Charu, in this show sab hawa mein baat karte hain 😆

Agree with everything you said. Raavi should take some time to reflect on everything that is happening, and should strongly tell Maami to stay away from all affairs related to Shiva and the Pandyas. She can keep a relation with Maami because she raised her, but should not force Shiva to do so or to respect Maami, because quite frankly, she doesn't deserve an iota of it

Raavi knows why he hates her but she feels doesn’t deserve the hate. Only part I liked today was Raavi asking him, how long you are going to hold on to that anger and hatred towards me which can destroy you. She is right about that, he cannot be hating on her forever.

I also want to make another point, related to this. Like how Dhara is forcing them to be together, she is forcing him to accept Mami, inspite of knowing her wrong doings to this family,

If I were in Shiva’s place, would not even go anywhere near Mami. She doesn’t deserve my respect. Raavi can continue her relation with Mami as she raised her but definitely not force Shiva.

A person who has cheated the family of their money, was the cause of their father’s death, how can Raavi even think he would accept her? Even if he gets the kangans back, am not sure if he will call it a truce with Mami, as she has hurt the family so much. But unfortunately none of the brothers are affected by it except Shiva, which is very strange Raavi also thinks that Mami genuinely is concerned of her, but she doesn’t know Mami is just plain evil to the extreme.😕

This was kind of what I was afraid of: I had created a post way back when where I was worried that they would have Shiva forgive Maami because he likes Raavi.

I sincerely hope it does not happen. Raavi should definitely reflect on what Maami is doing wrong. I wish she would’nt leave it at “I know she is doing wrong, but I can’t do anything, she raised me.”

I know Maami does not listen to her, but I wish she finds a way to get Maami to realize her mistakes and repent for it. But I don’t believe the writers will go down that path. In that case, as mentioned above, Shiva and Pandya family should be allowed to keep their distance. Shiva can probably promise to never physically harm Maami.

Actually now that you have posed the question… both Raavi and Rishitha are such young naive girls… they probably just around 20-22 years and never thought about what could go wrong in life. They just had filmy notions of romance and could never think beyond dreams of husband and their idea of what the family would be like. (Rishitha imagined a sort of family like she grew up in and Raavi imagined a bed of roses with no repercussions of Maami’s actions). They just had cold water splashed on them after marriage. 😕

Also makes me wonder what would have happened if Dev had married Raavi, and Maasi would have done these manipulations… would she in her happiness, got carried away? Maybe not, but I just don’t see how Dev would have handled Maami. 🤔

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Actually now that you have posed the question… both Raavi and Rishitha are such young naive girls… they probably just around 20-22 years and never thought about what could go wrong in life. They just had filmy notions of romance and could never think beyond dreams of husband and their idea of what the family would be like. (Rishitha imagined a sort of family like she grew up in and Raavi imagined a bed of roses with no repercussions of Maami’s actions). They just had cold water splashed on them after marriage. 😕

Also makes me wonder what would have happened if Dev had married Raavi, and Maasi would have done these manipulations… would she in her happiness, got carried away? Maybe not, but I just don’t see how Dev would have handled Maami. 🤔

I loved what dhara said to anitha few episodes back, women are complete in themselves and they don't need a man to complete them. Both Rishitha and Raavi seems to have dreamt ever only about marriage which makes the characters so restricted but they have so much scope to grow.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi knows why he hates her but she feels doesn’t deserve the hate. Only part I liked today was Raavi asking him, how long you are going to hold on to that anger and hatred towards me which can destroy you. She is right about that, he cannot be hating on her forever.

He doesn't hate raavi but he is insecure about raavi and mami. As long as raavi supports mami , he has no reason to think otherwise. .. The brewing anger is justified as mami doesn't leave a stone unturned to hurt them..dunno what respect she expected from Shiva when that woman called him.anpad gawar jungle pinjre mein bandh rakho etc etc Shiva mami ke Charan pakad le itni achi baatein sunke ?😆

I am getting..kinda .disconnected to the serial.now bec.likr all other shows its reduced to "bura dekho par chup raho, bura suno par chup raho, bura bolo par chup raho" because elders must be respected 🤢 Shiva was one character who always raised his voice against injustice, if they tame him ,only bec he loves raavi, I won't like it..i didn't like his blind worship to dhara also but therr , at least , he knew dhara can never be so bad n she is pretending..

Ye gombi dhara ki convo was along the same lines . If Shiva keeps hating mami then raavi will not like him🤢 Ye nai bolte how to stop mami from interfering .

I have one question does Raavi know of all the things mamis done ? Meaning about the mortgage , father dying ? I mean do the the kids at that time shiva , dev , Krish know mami did this ? I can't really remember the episodes .They disclosed the kangan story via Suman but leaving Gombi on altar aside does she know her maasimas evil deeds . If so I do feel for raavi she keeps telling of mami about anita doing wrong by listening to you but the rest of the things does she know ? Even shiva mentioned only her separating her brother from Suman .As much as I remember only dhara Suman Gombi had gone to mamis place for confrontation aside . .

Originally posted by: luvshivika

I have one question does Raavi know of all the things mamis done ? Meaning about the mortgage , father dying ? I mean do the the kids at that time shiva , dev , Krish know mami did this ? I can't really remember the episodes .They disclosed the kangan story via Suman but leaving Gombi on altar aside does she know her maasimas evil deeds . If so I do feel for raavi she keeps telling of mami about anita doing wrong by listening to you but the rest of the things does she know ? Even shiva mentioned only her separating her brother from Suman .As much as I remember only dhara Suman Gombi had gone to mamis place for confrontation aside . .

She may not know everything, but she knows Anita's story ..she was there in the wedding when Anita humiliated gombi and broke the marriage ...she now knows about Kangan and the whole mortgage thing also probably she knows bec mausa was repeating it quite often....the main thing is , since childhood she has heard mami spit out poison for the pandyas.... I was surprised howcome raavi didn't get affected by it and kept day dreaming about dev. Ajab gajab personality hai raavi ki😆 she knows mami will never change.. n this is the first time she played the mother card ..otherwise raavi never supported mami. She ignores her mostly