Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #14 - Page 102

Originally posted by: Miss.M

I've been trying to catch up with the posts on here and on the forum have noticed that everyone has mentioned Dhara's partiality, for which I thought I'd put my two cents in 😊.

I'm assuming that the age difference between all three, dev, shiva and krish is a couple of years... Assuming that shiva is 22-23 that puts dev at 24-25 which means he is the closest in age to Dhara who'd 29-31, so naturally they'd have a more friends like bond. With Shiva I see them as kindred spirits, even though the have the most polar opposite personalities.

Dev cannot and will not ever create waves in any relationship. He tries to be diplomatic but in incapable of putting his point across in a succinct manner, causing more chaos. Because of this, Dhara does the thinking for him, case in point the disaster of a marriage, Rishita being pissed off etc.

Contrast with Shiva who does and will tell everyone what's going on in his mind when it comes to the family and even though he might stay quiet when it comes to himself, they have shown his character as being more mature for his age than normal and capable of solving anything bothering him himself. This may more so because he is sensitive to the pain that everyone goes through (i could go on but that would have to be an entire post 😂😂).

Coming to the main point of feeding Dev and not Shiva, we don't know if something similar has happened to Shiva especially since he's not said anything (rather they've not shown anything) but I have a feeling that it won't have happened, not because Dhara didn't make the food (she made his fav sabzi after all 🤣) but maybe because Shiva himself said he would respect her wishes till she deemed the punishment enough and forgives him(on a side note can I just say all the more respect to Shiva for accepting his mistake and punishment without any bells and whistles of how he's doing it). Isn't that why when he went to find the clothes he asked about the food when Dhara mentioned the handi.

Another thing, I also feel it looks as though Dhara seems to care less for Shiva only because she knows Raavi is more than capable of taking care of him despite the hate factor there is between them, whereas she knows Rishita wouldn't think to do that, because she (Rishita) doesn't think that way.

Dhara is like a typical old fashioned parent that puts more pressure on the better performing child because she feels like if she pushes them enough they'll be happier, whereas the weaker child gets coddled so they don't feel left behind.

Lovely post! Agree with all your points about Shiva, dev and dhara. You touched upon the subtleties of their relationships and character traits well ❤️

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Strangely, she deleted the caption🤣

KD ki sangat ka asar .. she started editing her posts too now🤣

Originally posted by: HanaKB

I feel like something has happened! No one posts pictures with Kanwar/Alice anymore!

Shiny is obviously friends with Pallavi, Simran, she is also close to Kinshuk, Mohit! And they all seem to always post about each other!

Alice-Kanwar feel like they are being sidelined! 🤔

I think Simran gets on with everyone 😆

I have always felt that Alikan are a little aloof from the cast but tgey do share a good bond with everyone

What I dread is Alikan keeping distance between themselves, the other day simran also said in an interview that these two are inseparable.. I just hope those rumours and all don't force them to maintain distance and hopefully that is not the reason to not post together 😲

I feel weird and grumpy to not see any of the AU Shivi for 3 days straight.. I don't know how to feel.. in my very stressful life, they act as stress busters.. and we are not getting to see them on screen as well properly

Please tell them to post na🤓

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

KD ki sangat ka asar .. she started editing her posts too now🤣

KD edits his posts too? Which one did he do?

Originally posted by: mpks1

Sharing Mohit’s post. My heart went out to them😭. Both were wrong but did not deserve the punishment Dhara gave them, was too harsh😭 Why didn’t she treat Dev the same way😕 when Raavi was attempting suicide 😭because he is emotionally dependent on her and her food😕

This is the real mother and son relationship, not the one Dhara has with the boys,

She let Dev eat her food but let Shiva burn his hand😭

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPujYmEBM1N/?utm_medium=copy_link

@bold: this one line throws all her bias and partiality to the forefront.. she is truly unworthy of being called a mother! 🤢

This collage is so beautiful!

Originally posted by: Sakmen

I have always felt that Alikan are a little aloof from the cast but tgey do share a good bond with everyone

What I dread is Alikan keeping distance between themselves, the other day simran also said in an interview that these two are inseparable.. I just hope those rumours and all don't force them to maintain distance and hopefully that is not the reason to not post together 😲

I feel weird and grumpy to not see any of the AU Shivi for 3 days straight.. I don't know how to feel.. in my very stressful life, they act as stress busters.. and we are not getting to see them on screen as well properly

Please tell them to post na🤓

Agreed yaar.. I hate these articles.. Nai chahiye humay aise article😒

And i had DMed him about posting pics and reels.. Actually mjse aj ka maa beta scene dekh k raha nai gaya tha toh mai insta pe praise karne chali gayi thi.. Hoping ki dekhle dekh le shayd😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

Why was Dev crying so much more than Krish and Shiva? 😆
He did not get beaten by Dhara😕

He did not even apologize to Raavi for putting her through hell😭,got a free pass there

His wife insults everyone of his family members😕

He gets Bhabi’s special food even after batwara😕

He is the least affected and non remorseful party in all this😕

then why was he crying😆

May be the fear losing Bhabhi’s khanna?😆 And be stuck with burnt toast and store bought Pizza 😆

To gain sympathy from the audience 🤣

Bechara doesn't know he will only get more eggs and tomatoes thrown at him, until he grows a spine and a character, no matter how much he cries 🤣

Originally posted by: Miss_SR

Dhara won't be going anywhere. I still think that Suman will support her. There was an insta article that said this and Shiny liked it too. That's why I'm not holding on to any hope. BUT if Suman warns her about hurting her children again, I'll be somewhat happy! I don't care about Dhara getting kicked out etc, I just need the channel to stop glorifying the abuse by making her right. I really hate that this track has turned into if GauRa are going to separate or not. Gaumbi can literally put an end to that by refusing to.

@bold: this really pisses me off! The issue to be solved here is dhara's physical abuse, control freak behavior and rishita's selfishness and bitchiness.. instead the focus is shifting to GauRa and their separation 🤢

Sadly, I just don't care for that couple any more

Yeh kya hai?

So that gossip article was in the newspaper too? No wonder there's silence on IG.

I wish they'd stop. We had something similar when TC wrote an article and theb took weeks to get AU ShiVi content. And now, we're back at it again.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPuwqHJhf1t/?chaining=true

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

so true. ...upar se uss khud be khud ka khaana kaana pada.. 🤣

Uss dhara ka khaana kaane nahi mila

Tabhi toh jab dekho partiality aur bhedbhav ka jaap karti rehti hai.. badi naa insaafi huyi uske saath 🤣