IMMJ Episodes Discussion Thread #CXLIX - Page 59

Originally posted by: Eternalallure

No I don't agree. I am not talking about their business or what Riddhima has done or what Vansh has done. Noone supported Riddhima when that 6 hrs raaz came out. Everyone felt that she had been stupid. I am talking about how everyone including him literally treated her like trash. Vansh behaving like this towards her gives free pass to his family too, to treat her like an outsider. She deserves his anger for all her mistakes, but Vansh has made mistakes too. But all I see is him not even acknowledging those while Riddhima is constantly being accused.

Exactly...This is wat i felt..

Originally posted by: Priya12000

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@B - Sure, Gaali pade bohot din hogaye haii..😆..

Welcome 😊

Abhi karti hu....

I cannot agree with you more, Tu meri man k bat aise kaise likh deti hai yar! I love you for this.

Vansh ga gussa might be jsutified..but I wish they haven’t shown ridhima manaoying him this time..gussa karne ka haq uska bhi hai...does he even realise what mental trauma he made ridhima go through? I wish he had seen what her state was when she thought Angre is backstabbing Vansh..this is not done..she is pregnant for heaven sake...

He know what he means to her lekin phir bhi...I actually liked the fact that ridhima destroyed the diamond. Khelo ab catch catch eik dusre ke saath...

That family seen was cringe to me today..the sight of RS clan just ruines the epi for me..up until Vansh confronting ridhima for the diamond I was like ok..but the fact that he was all happy and hum saatg saath hain with his family just ruined it all for me...

Ridhima jo Vansh ki safety ka soch soch ke pagal ho rahi thi...jo bhag rahi thi yahan vahan..uske pyaar uski feeling ki value nahi..koi chinta bahi...lekin uski chinta hai jo apne hi bhai ke khilaaf ja rahi hai..aur uski jo itni assani se keh gayi ke shayed Vansh bhai ab nahi rahe...👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻he just made it look like as if Vansh doesn’t consider ridhima as a part of his family...like she is an outsider who has to be judged and treated on a different scale...

Originally posted by: Blueberry94

this 👍🏼very well said both need 2 understand a lot of things vansh 1. In anger try not loose control 2 try to find and see fam face and punish 3. Make ridz calmly understand about his business and assure her that he will tc of himself she should of herself and child for ridz 1. Stop being impulsive 2 not hide enemies (sara)and trust and deal with them 3. Serious confort with vansh not stood one like u want baby only for business u re Kiaras katil and tell all damn thing about fam. For both communicate like damn the way vansh shared his feara during preggo track with sia and ridz with angre in fake real drama i wish they both did with each other

Exactly

The problem is some of the viewers always compare Riddhima and Vansh's mistakes

To see whose actions are more worse

Some of the fans feel that by undermining the other character, their Favorite's actions would be legitimized which is completely untrue.

The fact that they can't defend their own fav's actions without bringing up the other character's mistake says it all.

I agree with ur words totally. U have explained beautifully. Riddhima 's anomaly will never go away unless she herself stand for herself.

Originally posted by: bahi.

I understand your feelings. And I agree the makers are being patriarchal. Riddhima is always the one, who gets cold shoulders by him and his family. Even in today's food scene - for a second I felt nobody cared about Riddhima. She was kind of ignored. But Vansh is not completely wrong here either. Riddhima keeps interfering and spoiling Vansh's missions. First Ragini, Black Box, the sword and now the diamond. The only mission of Riddhima's I found fair, was the mystery of her parents. It had nothing to do with him. Even Ragini we can understand, cause she came there to trap him.

But Vansh needs to understand that he married a woman, who needs to be under the loop, if not she will do her own thing. She does not want her husband to be in danger, and if she feels he is not safe - then she will start to be impulsive.

See that is what I am saying. That family reunion scene just boiled my blood. This man is getting on my nerves now. His hypocrisy is just another level. Unless he has planned something for them after knowing what all they have done, all that talk about him loving Riddhima are going to be just empty talks.

Originally posted by: Drna7

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Abhi karti hu....

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Originally posted by: pyaar2012

I cannot agree with you more, Tu meri man k bat aise kaise likh deti hai yar! I love you for this.

Chodo na ☺️

Originally posted by: Priya12000

I don't know about Indian men and the patriarchy and mard and stuff and all.But somewhere its the truth

How much ever we try, we can't change it. Its inbuilt in her core systems and there is long long way to go before we get rid of it..and i really don't think we can.

Coming to the show, People might find Vansh forgiving Sia bit hard to digest, but I feel its a smart move

I have always said Sia is not negative. She is a hormonal teenager, A new student in a fancy school who is tempted into the world of bitchyness by the Queen bitch of the school. She had then viewed Vansh as the person who is restricting her to the ground, not letting her get her dreams so she rebelled. If it was someone from real life, that person should be handled very carefully and with love. So Vansh's actions towards Sia is psychologically a good thing

It is always riddhima's actions vs Vansh's actions. But Sadly Vansh's actions get overlooked by none other than riddhima herself.

While both claim to have done everything for the other, they fail to understand what the other person actually wants and there lies the problem

Riddhima in her desperation for Vansh, takes impulsive decisions,

Vansh in his anger and ego, goes blind with rage and cannot see that he is being a hypocrite.

Riddhima gives in when it comes to him

Vansh never forgets when it comes to her

Communication is the key, and that is in negative for Riansh

That over consuming love is what is keeping them alive.

Riddhima DOES NOT trust Vansh,

and Vansh doesn't think of Riddhima as his equal

I am waiting for the day, Dadi's whatever truth that is, is out in front of Vansh. Because i seriously would like to see what he does. Dadi is not Sia.

And the makers's inconsistency when it comes to Dadi's character is super annoying.

True that.

Communication b/w both toh ab ek sapna hai and after today's episode I will kinda stop expecting that they will sit down and talk ever

I guess even when Dadi's secret would be out ghanta farak padega Vansh ko.

And the most annoying thing is Ridhhima simply keeping quiet and not voicing it out.