Originally posted by: Mugkale
Koi marana mat but I think Sumati is most realistic character.. she represents a young widow truly... How old she can be max to max 30 not more than that...Bon is 12 years agar Sumati ko bachha late matalab 18 years me hua aise pakada to bhi she is 30... N at the age of 30 she is widow, with no security in the life...Uski bhi bhavnae, ichhae hogi..Par she has to kill them..
She is young n beautiful too... Without husband kitana sambhalke rehana hai usko.. n she has a beautiful daughter too..
Ani ke aane se Sumati ki kitani chinatae mit gai thi..Not only bon but even she got support system in him...She was sure about her daughter's future at least..She supported ani thoroughly even in second marriage..But see now what he has done.. he couldn't see immediate implications of his actions..And she is helpless widow.. she has to follow a person who is giving them shelter, food and social security... She has no luxury to choose.. she is beautiful young widow n her beautiful teen daughter is abandoned (society view) by her husband.. main to kahungi she is brave ke she is not attempting suicide..
Kitana potential hai Sumati ke character me.. ani aurton ke liye ladhana chahta hai to kabhi use apane sasu maa se baat karate dikhao ke how n what she faced after bon's baba death... Now that bon is growing up she can connect with her mother more emotionally as a friend... Many girls can agree with me.. we start developing different emotional connection with our mother in this phase, when we get our menstruation, when we start to explore new emotions like crush, love, physical desires..
Even shadi ke baad bhi jaise hum.apani maa ko naye se janate hai.. jab hume wo ghar ki responsibilities uthani.padati hai... I know almost all of you are too young to experience that phase... You can believe me here..
In our bon's case she handled those responsibilities too..
They can have elaborate track instead of just fillers with Sumati... If they find it awkward to touch the topic/ conversation between ani n bon regarding awaking of sexual desires in growing up stage they can use Sumati.. ani bon donohi usase khul ke baat kar sakate hai..afterall it is necessary to learn to control our emotions even in today's world..
They can bring widow remarriage with her..
But nai unko to leap lani hai..
Omg bahot bada hogaya.. sorry..