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Posted: 4 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput


ME TOO! Thank God I found someone. I’ve started to feel so bad for her. I know she’s an abuser but keeping that aside, she’s being played by the very man she sacrificed her self respect, ego, integrity and everything for. I felt bad for her and I’m not going to shy away from admitting.

honestly I am not feeling bad for her, I am feeling bad foe the that helplessness and it’s coz u gave that control to someone else, that’s what I am hating and the repercussion had to be faced by someone else

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Posted: 4 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

In their quest to accommodate the third lead, they have butchered everyone..Even Sairat.. as a whole..


This love triangle will continue

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Posted: 4 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

In their quest to accommodate the third lead, they have butchered everyone..Even Sairat.. as a whole..

Yes, perhaps it was a confused attempt to keep the third wheel angle relevant for as long as possible in SaiRat relationship?

They are not invested in this story. I can't come up with any other explanation for their pathetic effort. It so evident in their wash, rinse, repeat zillat arena. Hell, even SNS might have more sensible family drama than the ones we see in Ghum. All the Chavans are caricatures. I believe Virat's early characterization was just a ploy to get us hooked. It has only gone downhill. And the last 2 to 3 episodes where they have the leads going soft on a serious crime is plain insincere and immoral.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9


Wife do have a very good knowledge of their husbands. Sai notice virat lot.


I have a doubt so called self respecting sai is having feeling for manipulator & selfish man virat. He definitely a criminal coz as he had abused her & she know virat having feelings 4 pakhi.


I never thought , I would share this but..Its shameful but its true.. I understand what you are saying because a woman appears strong , people think she cannot be manipulated..I was once in the same situation as Sai and I have lived that hell hole for complete two whole years and it took extra 4 years to take the courage to try and rebuild myself again.

It was after total 6 years when I was able to leave and not look back, in those 4 years yet I knew , I should not have expected anything from that person, at even every normal gesture my hope would rekindle only to be dashed next moment.

I am telling you this so you understand..


I will not give you details because even today after 6 years of moving ahead , I cannot share it but I will try to make you understand the POV.

When Sai aaba died he gave her responsibility to Virat and that alone gave expectation to Sai that this man was chosen by her father ; and after marriage whqtever she says about Aai or anyone the only relation she has is with Virat every other relation comes from him or with him..and


Having a single person in this whole entire world, even strong people need that anchor or more likely they start thinking of that person as an anchor after being repetetively hurt , they go back to that person because that person gives her the sense of belonging.

And yes intelligent woman like Sai, me and others do pretty stupid things to get their validation , to just make them tell , yes they are as important to them as Virat is to her..

That is the reason Sai craves Virat's acknowledgement , her mind says Virat can never be hers but that heart looks for hope in every cranny, to look for the relation which is sometimes not even there.

Its a constant battle heart and mind..


This is not even the worst part unknowingly, you give these people a pedastal in your life which they do not deserve and they knowingly and unknowingly use it for worse..


They do not even realise but the number they put you through well its suffice to say


Death looks a lot better prospect at manier times.


And its like a never ending cycle where you are keep getting sucked at the centre.


The things takes a turn for worse when the person who is your only living kin gives the authority to someone else to hurt you by not protecting or giving in the other persons manipulation.


And I know because I speak from experience, nothing hurts like the one person who is supposed to be your saviour keeps mum when someone hurts you infront of them and sometimes joins them to hurt you.


I don't know if that is a age thing because I renember being 18 when it happened to me and it struck me to move out ..but the courage took another 4 years.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#75

Virat's character progression lasted for two weeks phir back to what he was before DevKit wedding.


All of them have some kind of amnesia. Or Virat just believes in one sided friendship like one sided love. Mein toh tumhe dost manoonga chahe tum kuch bhi kehlo or kar do. Then when everyone will believe that he actually did kand with Pakhi he will cry. If you can't keep a distance from her then you shouldn't cry if you are accused of something so disgusting in the future.


Sai toh I don't even want to discuss about. My only hope was her. But her character was butchered more than Virat's. 🤢


The only thing left about this show is the cuteness and chemistry of SaiRat, the funny scenes with the supporting characters and the beizzati that happens. Liking the characters Individually is impossible. 😕

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Posted: 4 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Sairat


I never thought , I would share this but..Its shameful but its true.. I understand what you are saying because a woman appears strong , people think she cannot be manipulated..I was once in the same situation as Sai and I have lived that hell hole for complete two whole years and it took extra 4 years to take the courage to try and rebuild myself again.

It was after total 6 years when I was able to leave and not look back, in those 4 years yet I knew , I should not have expected anything from that person, at even every normal gesture my hope would rekindle only to be dashed next moment.

I am telling you this so you understand..


I will not give you details because even today after 6 years of moving ahead , I cannot share it but I will try to make you understand the POV.

When Sai aaba died he gave her responsibility to Virat and that alone gave expectation to Sai that this man was chosen by her father ; and after marriage whqtever she says about Aai or anyone the only relation she has is with Virat every other relation comes from him or with him..and


Having a single person in this whole entire world, even strong people need that anchor or more likely they start thinking of that person as an anchor after being repetetively hurt , they go back to that person because that person gives her the sense of belonging.

And yes intelligent woman like Sai, me and others do pretty stupid things to get their validation , to just make them tell , yes they are as important to them as Virat is to her..

That is the reason Sai craves Virat's acknowledgement , her mind says Virat can never be hers but that heart looks for hope in every cranny, to look for the relation which is sometimes not even there.

Its a constant battle heart and mind..


This is not even the worst part unknowingly, you give these people a pedastal in your life which they do not deserve and they knowingly and unknowingly use it for worse..


They do not even realise but the number they put you through well its suffice to say


Death looks a lot better prospect at manier times.


And its like a never ending cycle where you are keep getting sucked at the centre.


The things takes a turn for worse when the person who is your only living kin gives the authority to someone else to hurt you by not protecting or giving in the other persons manipulation.


And I know because I speak from experience, nothing hurts like the one person who is supposed to be your saviour keeps mum when someone hurts you infront of them and sometimes joins them to hurt you.


I don't know if that is a age thing because I renember being 18 when it happened to me and it struck me to move out ..but the courage took another 4 years.

Please be strong for yourself. I know it takes a lot of courage for women to move out, even if they are pioneers of self respect , courage, individuality and independence 🤗

Salute your courage ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Virat's character progression lasted for two weeks phir back to what he was before DevKit wedding.


All of them have some kind of amnesia. Or Virat just believes in one sided friendship like one sided love. Mein toh tumhe dost manoonga chahe tum kuch bhi kehlo or kar do. Then when everyone will believe that he actually did kand with Pakhi he will cry. If you can't keep a distance from her then you shouldn't cry if you are accused of something so disgusting in the future.


Sai toh I don't even want to discuss about. My only hope was her. But her character was butchered more than Virat's. 🤢


The only thing left about this show is the cuteness and chemistry of SaiRat, the funny scenes with the supporting characters and the beizzati that happens. Liking the characters Individually is impossible. 😕

@red ROFL

@green Didi ko screen space dene mei , Sai and Virat dono ki butchering hogi and even that will go eventually

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Posted: 4 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Yes, perhaps it was a confused attempt to keep the third wheel angle relevant for as long as possible in SaiRat relationship?

They are not invested in this story. I can't come up with any other explanation for their pathetic effort. It so evident in their wash, rinse, repeat zillat arena. Hell, even SNS might have more sensible family drama than the ones we see in Ghum. All the Chavans are caricatures. I believe Virat's early characterization was just a ploy to get us hooked. It has only gone downhill. And the last 2 to 3 episodes where they have the leads going soft on a serious crime is plain insincere and immoral.

I believe TRP from next week should show them , where they went wrong.. One PL should not be given so much importance that it destroys the story, the characters and the show that was made out of dedication of so many others..

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Posted: 4 years ago
#79

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@red ROFL

@green Didi ko screen space dene mei , Sai and Virat dono ki butchering hogi and even that will go eventually


No one wants that third wheel to be given so much importance and even people do beizzati of the third wheel yet writers are so much in love with her. 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion


No one wants that third wheel to be given so much importance and even people do beizzati of the third wheel yet writers are so much in love with her. 😆

Andha pyaar writers ka..They have stopped copying KD there...Warna har baat par unka copy of KD rehta hai..

Isiliye didi interview mei boli thi she is positive..She was not wrong probably.. since she was shooting these episodes, kya pata didi ko whitewash karne wale hai ab.. Aur in sab mei villan/MAMU banega hamara Viru🤣

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