There he goes again, his romeo avatar won't help him ever - Page 7

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold audience see him as these but not Sai. As a person who is his wife, who has feelings for him, she can ignore many things that he do and come back to him as long as he is not a criminal or he doesn’t have an affair with someone else. That is how many many women are. Even strong women surrender to their emotions. She wants him as much as he wants her and would even look for excuses to stay with him even if she is upset with him. At the end of the day, even if her brain/logic tells anything, her heart wants him.

Sai only thinks that he probably has feelings for Pakhi, his behavior and action makes her think that he doesn’t love Pakhi but his silence when Pakhi openly expresses her emotions in many ways or when she crosses a line is making her think otherwise. Most important thing is that he hasn’t opened his mouth.

Just replying to this, won’t be around.

Will give u 2 examples

The day she stayed at UM’s room. He asked her to stay in their room and she asked him if it was because he is worried about others. She readily stayed back when he said he wanted her to stay.

The same happened during Ladakh, she agreed immediately after he said that he wants her to join.

She has feelings for him and all that she wants is to know if he is doing things for her because he wants or because that’s expected from him. She asked him to clarify to his family if he did ehsaan on her or he took her responsibility. It matters a lot. She wants to be loved by him and not out of compulsion, not do things for her as a dutiful husband or because of a promise given to her Dad.

Wife do have a very good knowledge of their husbands. Sai notice virat lot.

I have a doubt so called self respecting sai is having feeling for manipulator & selfish man virat. He definitely a criminal coz as he had abused her & she know virat having feelings 4 pakhi.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Do share babe I would love to read it,

But today that manipulation triggered lot of feelings, I could see how this girl will give up saying yes, coz she goes helpless, coz Virat has such strong control on her, after today’s episode I have no doubt that if Virat and Pakhi would have been married she would be a mere puppet, who would do everything to keep her marriage alive, she would have been insecure while her life feeing Virat might leave her,

There so much I have to say, but I know I will open a pandara box for myself, where to relive is difficult, though it doesn’t hurt tht much but it does,

That silence, lack of affection, that dreams that future of building together a family, that difference of behavior, that lack of support and acknowledgment, tht restlessness of not being able to reach, to talk, that desperation to touch, to ask why why why.... why,

the silence it kills you, ones a person who became ur life is no more In life, it kills you slowly to see him but not able to reach u,

that’s why it is aptly out of side out of mind, yes it takes time but it eventually when u bring tht control back to urself, but what will a person do if the other person whom u ones made ur life stays in front of u with some other woman

I have said earlier also, Pakhi hated Sai coz for Sai, Virat went against his family, when Pakhi pleaded him to reveal his family about them, and that was just a start, she could see the difference that gets hard to accept coz u are helpless,

I will repeat I am not justifying Pakhi’s behavior towards sai but I know that helplessness

Manipulation and then when Samrat comes, he will manager her.. RIght now lets play dost , dost.. Are we back to the very pious dosth jaap ?

In order to get sympathy for one character..CVs have destroyed Virat.

Originally posted by: maahi11

Do share babe I would love to read it,

But today that manipulation triggered lot of feelings, I could see how this girl will give up saying yes, coz she goes helpless, coz Virat has such strong control on her, after today’s episode I have no doubt that if Virat and Pakhi would have been married she would be a mere puppet, who would do everything to keep her marriage alive, she would have been insecure while her life feeing Virat might leave her,

There so much I have to say, but I know I will open a pandara box for myself, where to relive is difficult, though it doesn’t hurt tht much but it does,

That silence, lack of affection, that dreams that future of building together a family, that difference of behavior, that lack of support and acknowledgment, tht restlessness of not being able to reach, to talk, that desperation to touch, to ask why why why.... why,

the silence it kills you, ones a person who became ur life is no more In life, it kills you slowly to see him but not able to reach u,

that’s why it is aptly out of side out of mind, yes it takes time but it eventually when u bring tht control back to urself, but what will a person do if the other person whom u ones made ur life stays in front of u with some other woman

I have said earlier also, Pakhi hated Sai coz for Sai, Virat went against his family, when Pakhi pleaded him to reveal his family about them, and that was just a start, she could see the difference that gets hard to accept coz u are helpless,

I will repeat I am not justifying Pakhi’s behavior towards sai but I know that helplessness

@ maahii

Why dint pakhi herself went tell samrat & family d truth when her father was ready to backout & it's before virat's condition. Why was she begging virat , when it was her decision.

Samrat was ready to backout & even take d blame .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Wife do have a very good knowledge of their husbands. Sai notice virat lot.

I have a doubt so called self respecting sai is having feeling for manipulator & selfish man virat. He definitely a criminal coz as he had abused her & she know virat having feelings 4 pakhi.

Was Sai present in the room today during V-P conversation? Was she present in the room when she confessed her love for him? Was she privy to those details? Do we not expect a dutiful husband to be honest with his wife and inform her about it when a woman who is living in the same house is openly making a pass at him? If Sai had known about these would she have sent Virat to Pakhi to convince her for the skit? Would Sai stay with him seeing how Virat was silent today during Pakhi’s shameless confessions?

She has repeatedly said she has only come back to take care of Virat and wants to leave after.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

@bold orange

I was upset about sai more yesterday but your post here made sense that virat should have been even more assertive that he didn’t want to go. He is the only one who knows her intentions completely.

I agree with all your points and I can only say wait for few more episodes. I think CVs have made his character too soft 😢 now they are not able to balance his indifference towards pakhi and his whatever ‘compromising’ attitude. There are inconsistencies how his character is behaving these days. I used to like the sternness in his voice when he thinks something is going wrong... even with sai. He used be in control of the situation. Now to fit him in ‘sai ke pati sai jaise hota jaa raha hai’ template they are experimenting with his character too much. Hence the inconsistencies!

So I would wait till the showdown! Because the last virat pakhi confrontation was really good. Let’s wait...

That will happen but I do not want anyone to blame Sai when she accuses Virat for having feelings because Yes I agree, Virat doesn't have feelings left for Bhabhi but when she openly confesses to Virat again and again he is not denying her..

In Bhagwat Gita Krishna says,

"Not only the perperator but also the person who sees the perperator doing wrong and says nothing is equally responsible."

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

@ maahii

Why dint pakhi herself went tell samrat & family d truth when her father was ready to backout & it's before virat's condition. Why was she begging virat , when it was her decision.

Samrat was ready to backout & even take d blame .

Fruity I have always said that I am not supporting Pakhi and never will, I have mentioned in many of my post, that if Virat dint sided her she should have taken an initiative, she never fought for the person she claimed to love,

If u don’t ask a person the answer is always no, I have never justified her behavior and never will, she should have spoken to Samrat, she could have told, worst would be family would have rejected, she already knew Virat ka ans, I agree to everything

but today virat manipulated her and I know tht emotion well, all I am saying he asked her coz sai forced, he could have simply said no, Infact I know after today it wil tiggers more, and that’s is why I hated Pakhi more when she openly claimed that she is doing foe Virat, that is why I am hating Virat,

All I am saying I hated Virat asking favors when he knew what she feels, and this will affect the three, that moment I know, and right from start i have said it is only Pakhi who can stop her self

see when a person ho through this, either the person herself controls, or the best is stop reacting to that person, which is not happening with her, I am not sympathizing her, all I am saying Virat shouldn’t have asked favour

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Manipulation and then when Samrat comes, he will manager her.. RIght now lets play dost , dost.. Are we back to the very pious dosth jaap ?

In order to get sympathy for one character..CVs have destroyed Virat.

Asmi kash Samrat jata hi nhi 😟😔😔

Okay, I am not available for murdering, so kindly, spare this nanhi jaan.

This is actually a very beautiful post❤️

Loved reading through it👍🏼

Well, his moun vrat is not at all getting him any sort of blessings from uparwaale of any sort as of now, unless he considers those puppy eyes as well🤣

I don't know what to say today, I have suddenly gone beeeeppppppppppppp🔒

Well, I was studying so in that zone as well a bit.

I have a point, And my brain is playing TT currently whether to say or not say🤣

Okay, I have a point here.

That is Virat , don't get me wrong, himself also gets manipulated ,as in let's himself gets commited and convinced easily, and gets on that sent/manipulated track with pretty ease and firmness, maybe pretty unsure of his ways he uses to travel in that track. And this is in general, I am not saying Sai was manipulative, cuz if that's manipulation than I like this style. But let me say he is sidelined from his motto pretty easily.

Cuz, he would have been pretty much aware of the actual fact, but he behaves as if he us unaware of that point. And currently, this trait is ,ermmm, not helping him.

As in , let's even say the ousting one, he saw the scene, he thought it was wrong, he was said it was wrong. So, he went ahead. He didn't realise that what on earth he was doing in general as a human being.

He goes blank as in , all of his thinking zones go in lag phase, and when he does think, it is all at the same time, making it unbearable and over powering for himself, making him weak in all aspects. And as I had once said, Virat ,once an idea of situation with a particular pov, treats it strictly the same way.

He lacks being himself, and even if he does, he is not firm ,although he is right initially, which automatically makes him inconsistent.

As in, yesterday, he held a logical brain, his initial reply was, "no", cuz he might have thought in all aspects, that what might Pakhi think, and I would have gone "shahbhaash" if that was continued. Cuz, his no had weight, I don't know what was into Sai to not love daado sutto, don't want it here, but he got convinced for the right intention, but by the wrong route, pretty easily.

And then, all Virat could see was only the right intention, not the wrong and bumpy route he had opted for. Which a few moments ago he himself had declared an accident zone. And lo, depth mein gaye raja babu kaam nikalvaane, to an extent that ,as I said, all lagged away zone. His issue he had was, 'convince Pakhi for this skit', but Virat i guess himself adds ,'no matter what' to all the tasks given. Toh ,galat signals chalu. Galtiyaan chalu.😆

Hope I have made sense here, cuz I was pretty much into solid state chapter 🤣

And some other points,

well, I don't think he was manipulative in all, he was let's say,pretty convincing and silent( which I don't like)(kindly correct me if I am wrong), cuz a manipulated person can also go to many extent, and I am saying this with, ermmm,let's say personal experience. No no, I didn't get into convincing someone for a skit, 🤣but I know what extent when a person gets manipulated at the right way and point. And I had fell to this trap😆

And two, I didn't give much thought on Sai doesn't like Pakhi, just felt he is okay and getting normal and stating facts🤣

Well, I am vile girl, who speaks much and gets into conclusion sometimes pretty easily, and sometimes ,I know, always speaking can be pretty hazardous, and sometimes ,(okay this is where killing part comes) , I do like when someone is calm, composed and toned down a bit like Virat, cuz I am like if someone goes 'A', I go double 'A' and it gets A to Z, and I get hurt 😆 But, calm and composed every time makes you easily available for traps as well, and seeing the seriousness of situation, many things play out, but moun always has multiple meanings in same situations. Words are always judgement, but silence is doubt sometimes.❤️

I feel you laksh. I have been so irritates seeing this idotic joke of a show.

As we all know, if this was real life, Sai would have been forced to leave CN long ago, thanks to someone's pendulum nature. In fact anyone who wasn't Sai might have become an emotional wreck. Since it is fiction, we keep rooting for SaiRat with the hope that we will be rewarded with a satisfactory progress in their relationship as well as their own flaws.

TBH, understanding Virat has been a rollercoaster ride. Like I have said before, everytime they lowered Virat's standards, I have been disappointed, then come to the forum to read different perspectives and then accepted his flaws. This compromise has now reached to such an extent that I have accepted him as a very passive and weak character. Everytime he fails in protecting Sai from the insults of his family and Pakhi, I learnt to be patient. I believed that Sai's ousting will be a catalyst to change - he will finally realise the (lack of) integrity of his family members and also be shaken from his apathy by the possibility of losing Sai. I cheered when I saw the his angry avatar against his family for the first time and also breaking his vada with Pakhi. I was hoping this will graph will only climb. Alas, he was cold towards them (family and Pakhi) for two days and after that the old level of pleasantries. I was so disappointed. After someone pointed out, I began accepting that Virat will never be vocal or decisive in any issue, but he was learning to trust Sai's judgement & capabilities over his own as far as handling his family members were concerned. I even wrote a post on how we were wishing that Sai & Virat will learn from each other's strong points but what the writers had in mind was a familiarly passive Virat learning to trust Sai and lettinh her handle his family in her own terms. As much as it is not much fun in watching a weak character on screen I accepted. I began looking at him with that benchmark. Even in 200 episode when Pakhi insults Sai, I looked at it positively noting that he did not stop Sai from giving as good as she got and also started setting some boundaries with her atleast (bank account). One might say that it is a very low standard for an ML but there was nothing else to do but to take what the writers were dishing out to us. I was ready to cheer every baby step Virat took in opposing his family or Pakhi as his realtionship with Sai strengthened. What I was expecting was for him to retain his honesty and basic intelligence, that's all.

And the last couple of days, they have butchered him even in this basic aspect. They made him compromise with his family's crimes making him a hypocrite. Today the way he convinced Pakhi by invoking their 'friendship' was nothing but manipulation. And he acts dumb all the time about Pakhi's interest in him and expects Sai to believe this. He was always insensitive to both Pakhi and especially with Sai regarding his yoga-wala past.

Virat is one half of SaiRat. With one half butchered what is there to cheer?

Even Sai is being slowly but surely butchered. I didn't like her convincing Virat to speak to Pakhi - because it is uncharacteristically stupid. Sai has always been annoyed with Virat's friendship with Pakhi. How will such a woman who respects herself make puppy faces to get Virat to talk to Pakhi? I'm not buying the "she is so caring towards Devyani" argument anymore because it is just a typical ITV FL trope. If she didn't like Virat convincing Pakhi and suggested Karishma to play the role instead, would that make her less caring towards Devyani?

Sorry for my rant.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I feel you laksh. I have been so irritates seeing this idotic joke of a show.

As we all know, if this was real life, Sai would have been forced to leave CN long ago, thanks to someone's pendulum nature. In fact anyone who wasn't Sai might have become an emotional wreck. Since it is fiction, we keep rooting for SaiRat with the hope that we will be rewarded with a satisfactory progress in their relationship as well as their own flaws.

TBH, understanding Virat has been a rollercoaster ride. Like I have said before, everytime they lowered Virat's standards, I have been disappointed, then come to the forum to read different perspectives and then accepted his flaws. This compromise has now reached to such an extent that I have accepted him as a very passive and weak character. Everytime he fails in protecting Sai from the insults of his family and Pakhi, I learnt to be patient. I believed that Sai's ousting will be a catalyst to change - he will finally realise the (lack of) integrity of his family members and also be shaken from his apathy by the possibility of losing Sai. I cheered when I saw the his angry avatar against his family for the first time and also breaking his vada with Pakhi. I was hoping this will graph will only climb. Alas, he was cold towards them (family and Pakhi) for two days and after that the old level of pleasantries. I was so disappointed. After someone pointed out, I began accepting that Virat will never be vocal or decisive in any issue, but he was learning to trust Sai's judgement & capabilities over his own as far as handling his family members were concerned. I even wrote a post on how we were wishing that Sai & Virat will learn from each other's strong points but what the writers had in mind was a familiarly passive Virat learning to trust Sai and lettinh her handle his family in her own terms. As much as it is not much fun in watching a weak character on screen I accepted. I began looking at him with that benchmark. Even in 200 episode when Pakhi insults Sai, I looked at it positively noting that he did not stop Sai from giving as good as she got and also started setting some boundaries with her atleast (bank account). One might say that it is a very low standard for an ML but there was nothing else to do but to take what the writers were dishing out to us. I was ready to cheer every baby step Virat took in opposing his family or Pakhi as his realtionship with Sai strengthened. What I was expecting was for him to retain his honesty and basic intelligence, that's all.

And the last couple of days, they have butchered him even in this basic aspect. They made him compromise with his family's crimes making him a hypocrite. Today the way he convinced Pakhi by invoking their 'friendship' was nothing but manipulation. And he acts dumb all the time about Pakhi's interest in him and expects Sai to believe this. He was always insensitive to both Pakhi and especially with Sai regarding his yoga-wala past.

Virat is one half of SaiRat. With one half butchered what is there to cheer?

Even Sai is being slowly but surely butchered. I didn't like her convincing Virat to speak to Pakhi - because it is uncharacteristically stupid. Sai has always been annoyed with Virat's friendship with Pakhi. How will such a woman who respects herself make puppy faces to get Virat to talk to Pakhi? I'm not buying the "she is so caring towards Devyani" argument anymore because it is just a typical ITV FL trope. If she didn't like Virat convincing Pakhi and suggested Karishma to play the role instead, would that make her less caring towards Devyani?

Sorry for my rant.

In their quest to accommodate the third lead, they have butchered everyone..Even Sairat.. as a whole..