Khuda Aur Mohabbat 3 | Discussion Thread #6 - Page 71

Originally posted by: _charu_

Uske liye dekh rahi hoon yaar..when he looks bk at the destruction his obsession caused ..his own family , Mahi, her family, taimoor and his family , he will def retrospect and I am waiting for that..hn also hinted ..if he understood that consent also matters , after mahis rejection if he went bk, Mahi won't be this much guilty.. yes taimoor may still have died as it was his fate and her fate but blaming oneself for a sin and feeling guilty for it just ruins a person mentally and emotionally..Hassan also said that condition she is in, she needs medical help.....Kahan laake choda mohabbat/delusion ne Mahi ko? Aamna also accepted that it was stalking. (Pagli ne stalking par research kar li🤪 ) ..

you may not feel anything for her pain she is going through bev ur assuming that she will magically fall in love with Farhad which will magically inject life in her.. and this time Farhad will move on or die , karma again...Or whatever the end will be. Mahi loves Farhad or not is still an assumption n till the time they clear it , I won't go there.

I know nobody agrees with me but I try to read every pov and try to understand farhads perspective .. except for fangirling posts I take all the posts seriously 😆

@bold: and for this I love you 🤗

@red: Yes, I think since you have a different POV about the situation, it is better to wait till assuming what Mahi feels for him, but from where I see, I felt that she did have feelings for him already but yes the way it has never been cut throat on your face from Mahi's end, we cannot really reinforce that, otherwise we all have our different POV about the story here, which in a way is good, different angles miljata hai sabko to see the story from.

And about stalking and all, yes I will never agree with that and stalking for me was what Taimoor had done low key, not Farhad, Farhad's behavior was immature, delusional, but from what i have seen, and where I have seen it, he did not start it, he reacted to several provocations, and any human on earth would react the same way he did, the first rejection led him to denial and trauma, I think even Feroze mentioned how it was all over the place for him and he could not even gather up that why did Mahi suddenly become rude and arrogant which she was not, well from where I see Farhad comes from, his stance was right. I do not defend his curse but I will always support the fact that he wanted a second chance to have a closure, every human deserves that, even though the closure was ugly but he needed to know what was wrong between his assumptions and Mahi's reaction.

And again, if Farhad can be an object of mockery and 'mazaak', giving Mahi a benefit of doubt that would not lead him to depression or any mental condition, then we can also say that in emotional collapse any human being will react how Farhad did, I repeat he did not start anything and I would say the same if roles were reversed and if Farhad would call Mahi a '4 din ka mazaak/aashiq/majnu' and then Mahi would curse him knowing how her value is compared with money.

Mahi does not deserve the grief, but similarly Farhad did not deserve any of this, and in case of Mahi we can at least say that there are 3 facets of her tragedy (curse, fate and NS enemies) but with Farhad's case the tragedy is only that he fell hopelessly for a woman unknowingly of the deal.

Omigod I wrote so much, do not get bored Charu, and ignore if that sounds illogical to you 🤪

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

@bold: yehi toh hai biggest comedy that people blaming Feedi for the curse is indirectly accepting that the curse worked because Mahi was wrong🤪, otherwise a wrong curse and especially a curse from the wrong person never works, Allah ka faisla ghatiya logo ki baddua se nahi badalta, sirf sache logo ki aah se hi justice served hota hai.

That is why even I will say it is not the curse, more like fate and karma.

Nai. Fantasy hai na kam3? wahan real life logic apply nai hota....the fantasy world where a boy mistook a girl's 2 day friendship for roohani pyar hence justified to stalk her ? Aisi duniya mein curse works, which was confirmed by dilaware and peer... Pehle nobody agreed that Mahi played with Farhad feelings , when she said it from her own mouth I was forced to assume she did.... So why will I not blame Farhad for the curse ? So many ppl r saying bec his heart was broken he cursed and the cursed worked so quickly. I will go by what the characters say and that's what the writer wants me to believe. Jab baat hogi justice ki, Farhad hi galat hoga to curse.

Mahi was wrong to do whatever she did in Lahore but the punishment she got was more than what she deserved. Farhad did more wrong than he was wronged ... Falling in love is not the only requirement , respecting the person they love , respecting their consent and their wish is also Supreme. Ye basic cheez nai hai toh roohani pyar jo Mar jaaye ya maar de , what's the use of it ?

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

thats why ppl say maangne or bolne se pahle soch lena chahiye but emotional state kaun sochta hai thats what make us human . But true prashychit can give u peace even undo things hope we will witness this more than sadness .

Its allready a depressed epi since 11th

Lets see yr mujhe to ending ka soch kar hi lhauf aate hai😒

10th and 11th episode was depressing, the hapless condition of Farhad was

I hated that he had no self respect left till that point but, he was physically and emotionally jarred at that point, and I think Mahi accepting T the same day she rejected him had made him go all in denial of the reality. I liked how he never cared to ask Mahi that why Taimoor, he only asked that what was that in Lahore then, was i that much wrong and delusional? Farhad talked sense in the library scene, because sometimes you do not need direct claims, there is something called human vision or human instinct.

11th episode was one of favorites, the Sajal-Farhad scene , I was re-watching it yesterday and some of the aspects hit me more now than it did when the episode aired, you remember there were questions that how did Farhad suddenly become so deeply saddened in Mahi's love, but in both 10th and 11th episode it was subtly explained, he talks about the fairy tale to Dilawar and then he realizes that he did not even physically see Mahi after coming to Bahawalpur (except the first rejection) and he did not even make genuine efforts to see her again unless Fakeera comes with the message, so in all this scenario if someone is visibly suffocated and emotionally collapsed even without the need of physical presence of that person in his life, then how do you define that? The insertion of Sala's scene was again to emphasize this aspect that Farhad had options, he could have reacted differently to Sajal, but the way he handled her confession and his own mourning of rejection was good enough indication that he molds himself into the situation and no matter what the suffering is he can deal with it unless it was the rare case of library humiliation.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

After the teaser and promo the expectations are so high, and i hope Wajahat realizes it.

Just like T's death, his mourning shall be finished off ASAP 🤣

Haan pls waise i m keeping my expectations low .ye wazahat ka bharosa nahi

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

@bold: and for this I love you 🤗

@red: Yes, I think since you have a different POV about the situation, it is better to wait till assuming what Mahi feels for him, but from where I see, I felt that she did have feelings for him already but yes the way it has never been cut throat on your face from Mahi's end, we cannot really reinforce that, otherwise we all have our different POV about the story here, which in a way is good, different angles miljata hai sabko to see the story from.

And about stalking and all, yes I will never agree with that and stalking for me was what Taimoor had done low key, not Farhad, Farhad's behavior was immature, delusional, but from what i have seen, and where I have seen it, he did not start it, he reacted to several provocations, and any human on earth would react the same way he did, the first rejection led him to denial and trauma, I think even Feroze mentioned how it was all over the place for him and he could not even gather up that why did Mahi suddenly become rude and arrogant which she was not, well from where I see Farhad comes from, his stance was right. I do not defend his curse but I will always support the fact that he wanted a second chance to have a closure, every human deserves that, even though the closure was ugly but he needed to know what was wrong between his assumptions and Mahi's reaction.

And again, if Farhad can be an object of mockery and 'mazaak', giving Mahi a benefit of doubt that would not lead him to depression or any mental condition, then we can also say that in emotional collapse any human being will react how Farhad did, I repeat he did not start anything and I would say the same if roles were reversed and if Farhad would call Mahi a '4 din ka mazaak/aashiq/majnu' and then Mahi would curse him knowing how her value is compared with money.

Mahi does not deserve the grief, but similarly Farhad did not deserve any of this, and in case of Mahi we can at least say that there are 3 facets of her tragedy (curse, fate and NS enemies) but with Farhad's case the tragedy is only that he fell hopelessly for a woman unknowingly of the deal.

Omigod I wrote so much, do not get bored Charu, and ignore if that sounds illogical to you 🤪

Oh yes oh yes the feeling of admiration is mutual 🤗

Oh no 🤣 No it doesn't sound illogical.. its perfectly logical.. he was not the one to start it....

n after listening to feroze , ok I agree....he was in denial ..he was in confusion..he was hurt...at the same time I also give Mahi the benefit of the doubt bec she did nothing intentionally. Even she was an innocent girl who befriended a guy (made friends..not have an affair ) for some silly reason...there was no malice in her heart. Farhad would still be her friend if he didn't start his mohabbat rant.....later when he comes to bawalpur, Mahi could have told the truth and get him out of her way in 1 minute but she didn't. Bec she took the blame for his condition ...she couldn't figure out any other way to save his life than break his heart completely 💔 so she did what she had to. Plus she wanted taimoor as her husband , I completely stand by her choice.

Mujhe sachi nai samajh aata how Farhad doesnt deserve this grief NOW when he was the perpetrator ..he wrote his tragic destiny. Apni bhi Mahi ki bhi. It started with mahis 1 wrong action but followed by a lot of wrongs by Farhad and ended with the curse . Probably if he didn't word out the curse so explicitly , I would be sympathizing with him in the precap.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Nai. Fantasy hai na kam3? wahan real life logic apply nai hota....the fantasy world where a boy mistook a girl's 2 day friendship for roohani pyar hence justified to stalk her ? Aisi duniya mein curse works, which was confirmed by dilaware and peer... Pehle nobody agreed that Mahi played with Farhad feelings , when she said it from her own mouth I was forced to assume she did.... So why will I not blame Farhad for the curse ? So many ppl r saying bec his heart was broken he cursed and the cursed worked so quickly. I will go by what the characters say and that's what the writer wants me to believe. Jab baat hogi justice ki, Farhad hi galat hoga to curse.

No i think they showed that since Dilawar had closely seen Farhad's curious case of suffering, he will obviously side with Farhad, but that was the whole point na, that everyone has a different view point of this tragedy, some like Dilawar will think that God's justice prevailed, some like T's amma will think NS's enemies and it is a collective effect of both karma and fate. Also, in Farhad's defense again, Dilawar does not even know the library scenario and what has happened, so he was again assuming stuff🤔😆. And yes, even if we believe that Farhad's curse killed T, then how do you justify that T's death was written in first episode even before Farhad had fallen for Mahi, the reason we believe that Farhad was led on because we know it was not that he saw Mahi and went kapoots, it started with her prank only, but we knew that Taimoor would die from the day he boarded that train from Multan to Lahore. And blaming for the curse is more like we are also low key accepting that God listened to Farhad, which technically shows him right here because God does not listen to baseless pleadings too.

Mahi was wrong to do whatever she did in Lahore but the punishment she got was more than what she deserved. Farhad did more wrong than he was wronged ... Falling in love is not the only requirement , respecting the person they love , respecting their consent and their wish is also Supreme. Ye basic cheez nai hai toh roohani pyar jo Mar jaaye ya maar de , what's the use of it ?

If you see as a punishment then it is definitely wrong, but I have a different POV, it is more like her fate and as Moni said, her temporary grief has saved her from lifelong suffering, had she fallen for T and then losing him would be more painful, by that time may be she would have forgotten about Farhad but losing a partner would leave a life long emptiness, now she is just miserable, not empty and not heart broken yet. Yes respecting the consent is necessary, but if you lose the respect upon knowing that the consent was never there because you were a supposedly an object of joke of few days, then bhar mein jaye aisa respect, anyone at Farhad's place would have right fully snapped, someone who did not respect your innocence does not deserve it just because the situation is ugly from your end and you need to get rid of the mess. In reality such situations always lead to ugly breakdowns and depressions, sometimes even suicides. And mohabbat karte waqt koi nahi sochta ke what is the use of it if it lands up in misery, Farhad ne bhi kabhi nahi socha hoga ke he will see this day, given it was his first love, but I think that is what the writer is trying to imply, the only end game is how they overcome the tragedy and Feroze said that it is a beautiful story and I want to believe him since he knows the story better than us, rest not necessary that I like it means you or someone else will like it the same way, but for some reason I get the vibes of old Shakespearean tragedies from this story and I love that vibe.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Oh yes oh yes the feeling of admiration is mutual 🤗

Oh no 🤣 No it doesn't sound illogical.. its perfectly logical.. he was not the one to start it....

n after listening to feroze , ok I agree....he was in denial ..he was in confusion..he was hurt...at the same time I also give Mahi the benefit of the doubt bec she did nothing intentionally. Even she was an innocent girl who befriended a guy (made friends..not have an affair ) for some silly reason...there was no malice in her heart. Farhad would still be her friend if he didn't start his mohabbat rant.....later when he comes to bawalpur, Mahi could have told the truth and get him out of her way in 1 minute but she didn't. Bec she took the blame for his condition ...she couldn't figure out any other way to save his life than break his heart completely 💔 so she did what she had to. Plus she wanted taimoor as her husband , I completely stand by her choice.

But how can he still be friend, when from his side it was love, how do you unlove a person and go mutual when you learn that you were played? Mahi is educated and wise and she took the blame because she knew that she was at fault, what you are saying I understand. However, from Farhad's POV, just imagine being friends with the lady who horribly said 'look at you, how can I love you'? even after knowing that she was the one to start it. Yes, had he been more mature, he would just say F OFF with your jagirdari, I have better things to do, but sadly he was not that sane afterall. She could not figure out any other way, then again is it really his fault? and also she said that had her family been different things would be different, does not that only mean for her Farhad could be the one had she not been a feudal? . I stand by her choice too, but no sympathies for Taimoor, she could have married anyone but that would be again an alliance of money and power, who knows how much happy Mahi would have been with Taimoor, look at Sahiba, how happy she is, it again is hypothetical. She made her choice and she was right to choose whomever she wants, but knowing how big of a pushover Farhad is, all he needed was a good talk, not the 'you are a beggar so F OFF'.

Mujhe sachi nai samajh aata how Farhad doesnt deserve this grief NOW when he was the perpetrator ..he wrote his tragic destiny. Apni bhi Mahi ki bhi. It started with mahis 1 wrong action but followed by a lot of wrongs by Farhad and ended with the curse . Probably if he didn't word out the curse so explicitly , I would be sympathizing with him in the precap.

He wrote his life not mahi's again, POV differs. He left the day he cursed her, his existence was removed too, the only reason he will return is Mahi's loss, where he is not responsible at all. In genuine, case Farhad should have been happy right, if we say his curse work, should not he be happy and just move on that justice has been served? But will he, no, why? Because he knows that in a world where Mahi is suffering, Farhad cannot move on, or even hide in peace, saddest part of the story, yes he brought his own tragedy but again it is deep rooted from Mahi's suffering now, his suffering ended into acceptance the day he cursed her and left. I hope the Multan track plays out well, otherwise all these debates and discussions will be useless 😆

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

Haan pls waise i m keeping my expectations low .ye wazahat ka bharosa nahi

I have wrote so much about Feed-Mahi today that I feel like I would not have much to write after the episode 🤪

I need Roma-Feedi now 😎

Waise @stefan iss point se ek point clear hua

That mahi & taimoor was in same train from multan to lahore so it means BP is come btwn the multan & lohore

So feedi is still in BP & boardtrain from their 🤪

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I have wrote so much about Feed-Mahi today that I feel like I would not have much to write after the episode 🤪

I need Roma-Feedi now 😎

Waise i want know one thing yr why mahi played with fathad is her ego was hurt when farhad said time waste kar diya mujhse baat karne aur chance maarne me. I mean as educated girl like mahi she could handle this better w/o hurting his feeling .

I want this ans as i know mahi is also a kind & innocent one but was her ego hurt