What's more to accept the marriage? And what does 'acceptance' serve? - Page 4

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Your warning nailed it...

If my opinion on not being able to enjoy the romance makes me less of ShaKhi fan! I am cool with it...

They should have waited for this whole marriage drama once Anokhi was ready to fully leave Shaurya and call this forced while actually believing it... For me this is forced romance in the show🤣 of pati patni with a sword of mangetar...

Bhai agar tu romance karne nai gaya tha... And you had two serious topics to cover... Pehle woh focus karta na... Why get into wanting your wife physically utna jaldi... Jab ki conditions are not even close to fulfillment... He knew she wouldn't let him romance her after understanding what Astha said.... And hence he started off before revealing Astha's response...

Funny how they casually use serious words... First in a very serious tone like - Contacts and Zabardasti and then move on to using it as casually to mock their own terms... And Zabardasti was supposed to be romantic and funny... How stupid!

In love Shaurya 2 weeks back was much more understanding and sensible.... Ab they are just showing him pure moron and he might get worse with this new role of husband.. Pata nai yeh... 'Naughty' Shaurya and realistic Anokhi kitna drag karenge...

@italics: I saw ppl were happy, and I understand, I would have been happy too if not for that off putting dialogue…

I enjoy shakhi scenes a little still but only bcs devir actually have an amazing chemistry, but I used to enjoy shakhi scenes a lot more back when they didn’t have forced romance; there character chemistry was such that an eye lock was all that was needed. But, now everything looks so forced and there is such a lack of depth ki that magic isn’t there.

There chemistry is amazing (only bcs of devir) but not magical like it used to be. Solely my opinion lol isi liye maine warning daali so that ppl don’t get offended, I really didn’t want to spoil anyone's mood warna I was disappointed with yesterday’s episode too; bas aaj listening to that dialogue, and then using words like zabardasti so casually threw me off.

I was internally screaming and cringing, as if tolerating forced marriage wasn’t enough. How to detach thoughwatch me rant here today and still watch tomorrow’s episode bcs I am so attached to the show🤪

If this makes me less of a shakhi fan, then I don’t really care… no show can run purely on romance and agar story ya scenes ajeeb hai so it’s natural for ppl to call it out.

When anokhi was his nothing, he was more sensitive towards her than now when she is apparently his everything lol;

@bold: ikr! Baad mein he was like jo bolna tha woh toh bola hi nahi lol; romance karne lage toh koi kya kare🤪 jab baad mein anokhi ko pata chalega kahi aur se tab royega baithke 🤣

I am seriously mad at writers today. Itne serious words ko itne casually jokingly kaise dikha sakte hain? This is so wrong, idt they are going to give him even 1% of redemption compared to the actions that he is doing.

Plus repeatedly getting in to girls hostel, ek baar ignore kiya, but if thought about it, this is downright creepy…

You are right with calling it forced romance, it definitely looks forced and just for the sake of it.

I feel that we're jumping the gun here. I don't think Anokhi has forgiven him and accepted the the sindoor wedding completely, she has accepted his love hence yielding to his romantic gestures not whole heartedly though. Once she feels that he is all ignorant about her condition and changing his soch, and instead making her to accept the wedding, she'll go bonkers and will defo give him an ultimatum for sure.

Coming to Shaurya, he does'nt want to lose Anokhi at any cost, not even for his BM, so with the engagement thing eating him away and Anokhi not sure of their relationship's future, he did the sindoor kand being an ignorant, angry, egoistic person he is. The way he is behaving now shows the person he is, has'nt changed a bit and wants things to go his way. So now he is trying to make Anokhi accept the marriage unconditional.

And coming to romantic scenes, banda bandi cute hai romance karthe, enjoy karne me kya harz hai, as long as they fit in the story line.

Coming to Astha Shaurya relationship, it just started by his uninterested and superficial move. Lets wait for it to grow until bande ko BM ka asli roop dekhne ko milega.

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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I still don't get this now...

Anokhi has already accepted this marriage, and even in front of Shaurya - has shown him sindoor... Confirming her acceptance...

Ab aur kya bacha hai accept karne mein?

They have also taken the photographs... Which btw... I think will serve as proof if Anokhi backs out.. If Shaurya does back out under Bm's pressure... It could help Anokhi...

Most importantly let's say Anokhi verbally states

.. She accepts the marriage... Will Shaurya go and tell it to everyone??? I doubt... How does her verbal confirmation help Shaurya or Anokhi or their love story...

Anokhi... 🤪 respect? Where did that come from... He has even accepted your stupid condition... And Astha seemed to be OK with Anokhi's interference... This is like... What? And hence she wanted to ShaKhi together so that someday she can convince her son of how she was not entirely wrong and get one more chance...

And tomorrow... This could all be used by Badi Maa to claim that Anokhi never loved Shaurya... Astha was just using her to have Shaurya as beta back... And Anokhi was just playing along... Right from the start... 🤣 I would love to see that...

So I was also confused about acceptance part but this is my guess.

I think from shakhi’s talk on Monday it seemed like anokhi will accept the marriage if shaurya shows one jalak of his changed mindset. And that included astha condition and shaurya agreed to the condition. And anokhi accepted marriage by not removing the sindoor but till condition is fulfilled she is trying to hide from society. She also told shaurya on Monday not to have any additional hopes till conditions are met.

So maybe shaurya thinks that anokhi will accept marriage 100% in front of society if he fulfills the condition if he leaves the condition in the middle she might back out. Now the reason shaurya didn’t tell anyone about his doing when he came home was because of BM health and second he wasn’t sure how serious was anokhi regarding her condition and acceptance of the marriage. But yesterday when he saw sindoor in her maang he tried to ask let’s ignore and move on and she said no fulfill the condition and then talk. So he realized that anokhi will give their marriage a chance and he fulfills the condition.

Also today shaurya was saying that how anokhi wanted astha to come first and then she will come. I was confused about that cause anokhi never meant that. But maybe he was saying that astha will move to saberwal house first and then anokhi will goto saberwal house.

The respect part, I think anokhi also mentioned that during Goa track and many of us were confused at that time. Of course respect can have many meanings but on Saturday episode she was trying to equate respect with equality in a relationship. For her shaurya doesn’t respect her/woman because he doesn’t consider man and woman equal in the relationship, he thinks man are above woman.

And astha part I won’t comment now because so far it was just a small scene, there is still more to come. So like astha said their relationship dynamics will change with time so I will wait few more days to read the situation.

And well BM always blame astha/anokhi that I knew from very beginning of the show and specially with this condition BM will have something to talk about. Lol

Originally posted by: anuprem

I think Anokhi will be back to her old self once she comes to know about Shaurya and Shagun engagement. I think makers have shown Anokhi as accepting the marriage so that she has a heart break on hearing about the engagement and she may start ignoring Shaurya again. Just my assumption.. this is what is happening in the show, Anokhi accepts Shaurya's love, BM/Shagun plot something, she has a heart break and ignores Shaurya, Shaurya becomes more desperate..

But Shaurya is really taking everything very lightly. First he has to sort his engagement mess and then think about the marriage conditions posed by Anokhi. I miss the old Shaurya who was little matured.

I really hope so what you are saying becomes true but then this is the thing naa, they flip her whenever they feel like; Monday ko forced marriage phir last 3 days mein nihaar rahi hai sindoor ko, ek baar is fine ,lekin har episode mein? itni baar toh agar consensual Shaadi hoti tab bhi naa dekhe lol…

It is so difficult to connect with characters when they flip in every other episode imo.

@bold: same… even more than anokhi, this is what is bothering me more. He is ignoring her feelings as if kuch hua hi na ho, as if her feelings don’t matter. From that date night, not even for once he tried to address the insecurities of anokhi, to assure her.

Pehle wala shaurya wasn’t like this atleast acc to my interpretation. He wasn’t in his best behaviour with her in the start but still he was sensitive towards her which isn’t there now when he loves her. Ppl are questioning anokhi’s love, is shaurya’s love unconditional?

He married her without her consent just to keep her close to him, and is now not paying heed to her feelings…

Or maybe I am feeling all this bcs now we are getting shakhi romance but not an in depth convo which is actually more needed now. They don’t know much about eo’s lives. They need to have a heartfelt convo more than this forced romantic scenes.

(Sorry for such a long para lol)

Shaurya and Anokhi will want Social and Dhoom Dhaam ki shaadi is fine...

But what's the whole point of this sindoor nonsense? Does this provide him with extra scope for romance...

Astha - Shaurya - Anokhi equation is stupid... And I don't blame Shaurya for it! He is victim there... But zabardasti shaadi ki shaadi was still his fault... Only thing is... He has not realized it...

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You're right, sindoor kand usko romance karne ka license diya.. lol..aur hame dekhne ka.😲

Originally posted by: AK_2010

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Originally posted by: eternal_soul

@italics: I saw ppl were happy, and I understand, I would have been happy too if not for that off putting dialogue…

I enjoy shakhi scenes a little still but only bcs devir actually have an amazing chemistry, but I used to enjoy shakhi scenes a lot more back when they didn’t have forced romance; there character chemistry was such that an eye lock was all that was needed. But, now everything looks so forced and there is such a lack of depth ki that magic isn’t there.

There chemistry is amazing (only bcs of devir) but not magical like it used to be. Solely my opinion lol isi liye maine warning daali so that ppl don’t get offended, I really didn’t want to spoil anyone's mood warna I was disappointed with yesterday’s episode too; bas aaj listening to that dialogue, and then using words like zabardasti so casually threw me off.

I was internally screaming and cringing, as if tolerating forced marriage wasn’t enough. How to detach thoughwatch me rant here today and still watch tomorrow’s episode bcs I am so attached to the show🤪

If this makes me less of a shakhi fan, then I don’t really care… no show can run purely on romance and agar story ya scenes ajeeb hai so it’s natural for ppl to call it out.

When anokhi was his nothing, he was more sensitive towards her than now when she is apparently his everything lol;

@bold: ikr! Baad mein he was like jo bolna tha woh toh bola hi nahi lol; romance karne lage toh koi kya kare🤪 jab baad mein anokhi ko pata chalega kahi aur se tab royega baithke 🤣

I am seriously mad at writers today. Itne serious words ko itne casually jokingly kaise dikha sakte hain? This is so wrong, idt they are going to give him even 1% of redemption compared to the actions that he is doing.

Plus repeatedly getting in to girls hostel, ek baar ignore kiya, but if thought about it, this is downright creepy…

You are right with calling it forced romance, it definitely looks forced and just for the sake of it.

Rule is... Creepy and unfair things done by ML is acceptable... Because the character has depth in it.. Apparently... 😆

Coming to ShaKhi and chemistry... DebVir have the charm... And they really need not get into cheesy blushing and forced romance.... They spark even when argue, when they talk logically... Ab toh the moment they start talking... They are showing Shaurya taking the different route to make her blush... All that spark is reducing it all...

Talking about yesterday... Damn I can rant about it too but avoided it... I am not sure what makers are doing is to just show him cute in love or bringing out his soch that he wasn't comfortable with Babli and Anokhi staying together... You cannot toss other relationships for sake of love na...

His anger with Astha for me was justified... But you don't do tod phod and throwing things when angry... There has been no growth there at all... And when Anokhi stands by it, he vents out at her too... To accept the marriage...

But what's more in accepting the marriage.... Is exactly my post title...

@Green - Look at TRPs yaar... Ever since they have started showing Anokhi running behind Shaurya TRPs have shown its place... 😛 romance isn't everything for this show... Trp audience were little more say 1.2/1.3 when there was no romance... It was just Shaurya's attraction and Anokhi's ignorance as she focused on her exams and all... It started dipping after whole One Night at Hostel scenes 😆 guess karlo...

Also as you said.. We are attached to this show.. For me, I do have lot more time.. I do want TRPs to rise... But also story should be worth watching...

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

The half baked writing and character inconsistency is the major put off...we do appreciate when they are on track...and then they...deviate from the core...

i am only waiting to see..how are they going on with the astha condition track and it's significance...

Shaurya is gonna break engagement now or will he get played by devi again...

For the 1st time..i should say..anokhi brought it upon herself...neither is she hearing Shaurya completely...with half baked knowledge of astha Shaurya..and neither is she resisting or make Shaurya see the reality and giving him a check...

I don't know if the TRPs is an issue or writers.. I dunno... But if I don't see Shaurya taking a stand and continuing to stupidly romance Anokhi... I don't think it will lead this anywhere other than more heartbreaks...

Then let's guess...

Heartbroken Anokhi - Desperate Shaurya (either in accident or ran away) - Worried Anokhi with Shaurya - Unite - love like teenagers - - Repeat! 😆

And tell me how is this not predictable now... Fun will be if Anokhi does not react to the engagement crap at all... And just removes that sindoor mazaak... Let Shaurya just handle the mess...

Originally posted by: pratikshaa100

This is not Kekta's show 😆

People change and evolve with time, their soch, behavior all change, sometimes drastically. Why don't some people want Shaurya to have a chance with Anokhi? Who said Anokhi isn’t capable of handling both her marriage and Shaurya? Being careerist doesn’t mean you will disregard the ones you love. Also Anokhi is very much enjoying his haq jatana on her, if she was uncomfortable with his advances, he wouldn’t have done it.

I really dunno where is this coming from... Seriously... I hate Shagun... But my problem is purely Shaurya not taking that ring off or continuing to fall in BM's trap!

That's the only reason why I rant about ShaSha and torturing him...

No one is saying Anokhi or for that matter any woman is not capable of balancing both... But each of them should be worth fighting for... I won't work for a company that does not pay me enough or pursue career that's not satisfying likewise I won't pursue love if they don't respect me or my wishes...

I really again don't know where am I saying Shaurya is forcing himself on her... Why do people keep saying I feel Shaurya is being forceful to her... Help me if any of my posts makes anyone feel this...

I repeat... I see Shaurya and Anokhi's interaction as adults with mutual consent 😆 where you don't need even need Shaadi... But the fact that Shaadi was a joke and that Shaurya is officially engaged to someone else is making cheesy romance difficult to digest... And enjoy!

I am ShaKhi fan... I am definitely sure they will end up together and it's their journey... But for me they spark even when they argue... They discuss... They talk deeply about real things... And resolve their differences... ❤️ unfortunately, because of this I don't fit in the typical ShaKhi fan category in that case...