Why does BK have memory loss

Why is BK confused about Sai's problem with pp. Her dialogue of "pata nahi Sai ko humaari pp seh kya dikkat hai"is laughable..sai has spelt out in clear words what she thinks of pp-virat and how the elders encourage her to be "more than friends" with virat and use him as bait to keep pp in CN. She has also clearly questioned bk for knowing pp-virat history. Bk ne dhoop mein baal safed nahi kiye hai. She definitely knows everything.

Why are they suddenly potraying as if bk genuinely thinks pp virat are only friends and pp isnt overstepping her boundaries?!

If she is really clueless about virat-pp, then kuch nahi toh "izzat" ke khaatir hi she should actually ask pp to stay away from virat....it does not look good to have bhabhi devar be accused of an illicit affair right.

Sai has on more than one occasion called pp and family out for the way pp butts into her marriage with virat. So why is bk now behaving as if shes blind and cannot see pp's jealousy. Wasnt pp absorbed into bk gang only because of her blind hatred of Sai. Bk knows that Pp doesn't like Sai because she is Virats wife. Then why is she pretending otherwise. Did makers forget?!

My understanding was that bk has decided samrat is dead and is therefore ok with virat-pp relationship. Thats why she is not affected by pp-virat past or the way pp behaves with virat.

I am sorry but I have not thought that Kaku was ok with Pakhi having a relationship with Virat. I might be under minority.

She has never liked Sai and found Pakhi to be the a tool to put down Sai. She also found that Pakhi disliked Sai and how she can instigate Sai.

When Sunny had come to CN to take Pakhi to GC saying Virat was calling her, Ashwini raised questions and then everyone wanted to know why he had called Pakhi alone, Sunny made an excuse of how Pakhi likes nature and travel. Even then Kaku believed what he had said and only thought that they were friends and Pakhi also needed a change. She was her favourite bahu since she listened to her. It could also be because Ashwini had issues with Pakhi that Kaku started to support Pakhi. Ashwini used to taunt Pakhi and even Ninad had stopped her at dining table once. If you remember, Kaku would actually question Pakhi that night if Virat and her were only friends to which Pakhi had replied that they were only friends, had nothin between them.

Kaku, Ninad and Omi's share a really good relationship, how much ever evil they are. I think Omi has had issues because she has always been unfair to Mohit but he has stayed silent out of fear. Ninad respects her a lot and blindly trusts her. Ninad doesn't have any good opinion about Ashwini, he puts her down and doesn't think her to be worthy of him as a life partner. And Kaku was someone whom he has high regards for, she was a completely opposite person, she was just not like Ashwini in any way. I guess it has got to do with her complexion, with her status, her family, education that he thinks too high of his bhabhi.

Kaku only thought that Virat and Pakhi will be sharing or were sharing the kind of relationship she shares with her devars. Kaku came to know that they were friends.

Kaku had thought that Pakhi wasn't happy with Sai to be the right partner for Virat just like how she herself felt that Sai wasn't the right choice for Virat. She thought that Pakhi felt that Virat deserved someone better, she never thought that Pakhi wanted that place. Whenever Pakhi used to do things for Virat or when she used to ask her to take things for Virat, she only thought that Virat has a good bond with Pakhi and he will listen to her. She also thought that Pakhi will be able to keep Sai away from Virat by taunting Sai or instigating Sai or by filling bad things about Sai in Virat's ears.

Ninad listens to her, so she thought Virat will also listen to Pakhi because she could see that they have a good understanding and that Virat trusted Pakhi. Virat calling Pakhi for his wedding was like an evidence that shows how close Pakhi and Virat were. She has seen how much weightage he has given to Pakhi. He has even asked Pakhi to help Sai get dressed up, Pakhi to guide Sai. All these only indicated the amount of trust/faith Virat had on Pakhi. She has also seen how Pakhi has been successful in turning Virat against Sai.

- Kaku only wanted to use his trust/faith on Pakhi, Pakhi's hatred/cunningness towards Sai. She just didn't want Sai and Virat to get close.

- She always has seen Pakhi as Samrat's wife. Even on the day of holi, she assured Pakhi that Samrat would return.

- She has only thought that Pakhi was helping out Virat or she was keeping herself busy in taking care of her Devar which in turn kept her distracted from her loneliness.

- She thought that Pakhi keeping herself indulged in Virat's personal life will reduce her loneliness, she can keep her mind occupied in doing something rather than crying or getting upset or anxious about Samrat.

I think there were many benefits in this. One was to ensure Sai and Virat do not get close, another was that by staying busy like this Pakhi will also not think of leaving CN, so Mansi will keep getting the pension that she was once talking about.

If Pakhi had not indulged so much in Virat's life, she would have kept feeling lonely, she would have lost all hopes on Samrat, she would have started to think about her own future and would plan to move on in her life or will go to her maayka leaving CN.

About Sai confronting them about Pakhi Virat relationship

I think Kaku has disregarded Sai's questions to them as her misunderstanding, as her bachpana or immaturity. She would have known how Ashwini taunts her and Ninad or that Ashwini has not been able to completely understand her relationship with Ninad. She would have thought that Sai is also feeling that way and have misunderstood Pakhi Virat's relationship.

You make many valid points but i still find it hard to believe that bk doesn't see pp's truth. She hates Sai because she sees her as ziddi, " too liberal", lower class than her social status but she also knows that she doesn't lie. Despite everything that is happened it is hard to believe that bk doesn't see pp's feelings...

The Chavans are weird... hard to know if they are ignorant or really into EMA. 😆

Laksh

Then why did Bhavani not think a second to send Pakhi and Virat to Ladakh?

Could anyone of her age and experience make such a decision which will be against the norms and subjective to criticism if known to outsiders?

Why didn’t she ask Pakhi to let Sai accompany them since it would be morally and ethically right in every way?

Allowing Patralekha to intrude in Virat’s private space at home is ok for all the reasons you gave but

Sending them like a couple to Ladak definitely is something suspicious that I can not fathom reason or get convinced of Bhavani’s decision.

I feel like everyone behaves like a yo yo. One day they behave/say/think A, next day its B.

The writing is always all over the place.

Somedays bk seems to know all about pp-virat and even uses it to her own advantage to have pp use her "influence" on virat and then in some moments she looks aghast at the idea of being accused of supporting bhabhi devar romance. She is seen noticing Sai-virats closeness and Virats love for Sai so obviously she cant be blind to how pp looks at Virat and Sai.

Is she so blind in her Sai hate that someone as old and experienced as her cannot see the obvious?!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Laksh

Then why did Bhavani not think a second to send Pakhi and Virat to Ladakh?

Could anyone of her age and experience make such a decision which will be against the norms and subjective to criticism if known to outsiders?

Why didn’t she ask Pakhi to let Sai accompany them since it would be morally and ethically right in every way?

Allowing Patralekha to intrude in Virat’s private space at home is ok for all the reasons you gave but

Sending them like a couple to Ladak definitely is something suspicious that I can not fathom reason or get convinced of Bhavani’s decision.

Because of the trust that she had on their relationship. Forget Pakhi, Virat is their son and most importantly an upbringing of Ashwini. Also, she didn't find that to be wrong in any sense, she just thought that a devar was taking his bhabhi for a work and that too of his brother. Him being a police officer can always come handy and she knows that.

If there wasa necessity, even she and Ninad would travel or would have travelled in the past too. They have always respected their relationship but it might have hurt Ashwini if they had gone out like this and that is why when Sai had pointed out that Kaku wouldn't know since she always goes out only with Ninad, Ashwini had a smile on her lips, she enjoyed it. Even if Ashwini had trusted them, she might not have been happy with this kind of decisions. But there are families in which such things happen in real life too.

She didn't let Pakhi to let Sai accompany her only due to her ego, only so that Sai doesn't get to go. She doesn't like Sai, didn't find it necessary for Sai to accompany these two, she wouldn't have completely believed that Virat was the one who had forced Sai to join them. They had already discussed as why should Sai join them, she didn't like Virat deciding on his own that he is going to take Sai too along and letting them know at the last minute.

Also, no one expected that Pakhi will tear those tickets that way, not even Kaku. Kaku let Pakhi fight with Virat and Sai because Kaku felt that Pakhi might get successful in not taking Sai along with them. Ultimately, Sai shouldn't get this kind of pleasure, she doesn't deserve as per her, she has not accepted her as the bahu of the house or as Virat's patni, so she didn't like the idea of Sai accompanying Virat and Pakhi.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I feel like everyone behaves like a yo yo. One day they behave/say/think A, next day its B.

The writing is always all over the place.

Somedays bk seems to know all about pp-virat and even uses it to her own advantage to have pp use her "influence" on virat and then in some moments she looks aghast at the idea of being accused of supporting bhabhi devar romance. She is seen noticing Sai-virats closeness and Virats love for Sai so obviously she cant be blind to how pp looks at Virat and Sai.

Is she so blind in her Sai hate that someone as old and experienced as her cannot see the obvious?!

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Do you remember how Omi and Ninad were all praise for Kaku on the day of holi? She has got such looks from her devars, they were admiring her. So I guess, she thinks that Pakhi admires Virat for the person that he is and also because of the position that he is in.

One can look at Sai Virat's closeness and guess something is going on, if Virat had by any chance encouraged Pakhi, they might have been forced to look at it that way. They are all old schook thoughts people who would not be even able to believe that a "woman" can actually be behind her devar and that too a woman from Shahanukhuli khaandan. Pakhi doesn't project herself to be a modern girl, she even claimed that she left her job because women from CN were not allowed. The kind of image that she had projected has blinded them. On the day Sai and Virat had gone for admission, Pakhi had cleverly asked if she can work. This kind of an act only shows that she takes permission before she does things, she respects elders so much and value their opinions. How can this kind of a girl eye her brother in law? They are blinded by her fake image and will not be able to see the true colours of Pakhi. Sai claiming anything against Pakhi will make it look like Sai is wantedly alleging Pakhi of such things, as if Sai is taking a revenge.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Why is BK confused about Sai's problem with pp. Her dialogue of "pata nahi Sai ko humaari pp seh kya dikkat hai"is laughable..sai has spelt out in clear words what she thinks of pp-virat and how the elders encourage her to be "more than friends" with virat and use him as bait to keep pp in CN. She has also clearly questioned bk for knowing pp-virat history. Bk ne dhoop mein baal safed nahi kiye hai. She definitely knows everything.

Why are they suddenly potraying as if bk genuinely thinks pp virat are only friends and pp isnt overstepping her boundaries?!

If she is really clueless about virat-pp, then kuch nahi toh "izzat" ke khaatir hi she should actually ask pp to stay away from virat....it does not look good to have bhabhi devar be accused of an illicit affair right.

Sai has on more than one occasion called pp and family out for the way pp butts into her marriage with virat. So why is bk now behaving as if shes blind and cannot see pp's jealousy. Wasnt pp absorbed into bk gang only because of her blind hatred of Sai. Bk knows that Pp doesn't like Sai because she is Virats wife. Then why is she pretending otherwise. Did makers forget?!

My understanding was that bk has decided samrat is dead and is therefore ok with virat-pp relationship. Thats why she is not affected by pp-virat past or the way pp behaves with virat.

Don't forget Kaku did question Pakhi once about her relation with Virat. Kaku would never support such a relationship. She sees her own 'jhalak' in Pakhi and maybe she wants later on Pakhi to be the matriarch of the family. For her Virat-Pakhi share a relation similar to that of Kaku-Ninad-Omi. For her it's fine that Pakhi butts in in SaiRat's relation, it's something she herself did in Ashwini-Ninad's relation. Both times for the same reason; Ashwini and Sai being from a lower status.

Yeah but bk is not stupid. She knows the actual dynamics between people. She enjoys the attention of her devars, the fact that ninad values her word more than Ashwini. She may even have secretly enjoyed the fact that she got to go on trips with ninad without Ashwini- not necessarily in a romantic way (i personally find bk-ninad to be similar in some ways to virat-pp- and cringeworthy!) but just in a way to spite ashwini because she does not like her. In the initial episode she brags about how virat "values" her more than Ashwini. She wants to show ashwini that even in her husband and son's life she comes second. She enjoys the power n seems to get sadistic pleasure from hurting Ashwini.

It is possible for bk to ignore/overlook things deliberately for her own gain. So i dont think she is genuinely clueless about virat-pp history. She is just shown to be selective about acknowledging it or not as per her convenience.

In some initial episodes pre Sai coming to CN, she was stern with pp too. But she has become "sweet" with pp only because she hates Sai n Ashwini. And because pp staying guarantees money coming because as wife of samrat she is the next of kin entitled to samrats pension etc.