Some things i wish had been different

1. Sai's dialogue about not spending a night with husband to pp. I think the way she meant it was to say you dont seem to have any lihaaz of a couples private space because you dont consider yourself married to samrat but the way the dialogue was written it came out wrong.

In KD, Sai had said why dont you make your husband your nominee- is it coz you dont believe/want him to come back. But they cut that out.

Sai is not the types to wish harm/bad on anyone.

2. Virat shouldn't have called it "beizzati". He should have said that "tumhaare shabdon ko thik seh chuno" or he should have defended Sai and said "usko voh matlab nahi tha" and taken over the conversation. because Virat should know that Sai is not the type to deliberately do beizzati of anyone or to diss someone over "not spending a night with the husband" . She doesn't measure her words before talking and Virat knows that. Because after that virat is seem agreeing and nodding/approving everything Sai says because it was entirely legit. He does say to pp "koshish karo samajhne ki jo Sai joh kehne ki koshish kar rahi hai".

3. I wish Virat had been more vocal about his refusal to be bank nominee and about the whole situation. He started off on the right foot, he was upset at the interruption- asked pp why she didnt knock, said teice "Sai theek hi toh kah rahi hai". But i wish he had beem the one to say more rather than just agreeing with Sai.

Its like he keeps going in this loop of guilt/soft corner whenever it concerns pp. He is clear in his head that he loves Sai so then why does he go from straight out being annoyed at pp's presence to going all "soft" on her.

If Sai hadnt been there giving the punches, it looked like Virat would have unwillingly given in to Pp's emotional blackmail. He doesn't need to start yelling/taunting but he is very much capable of firmly showing the line like he did in the episode when Sai was in GC.

It is his "soft" behavior that keeps getting Sai insecure. She is able to see his advances and is dealing with how to respond to it coz shes innocent and young , she gets confidence when she sees Virat side with her but then next moment they give a scene where Sai has self doubt about her place/her marriage being a deal/zimmedari because of Virats soft corner.

Sai trusts Virat with her life but not with her heart. Shes too scared to. It is difficult to constantly be around the woman who is obsessed with your husband, have the family elders not only watch silently but actually encourage her behavior and her husband is hot n cold too.

I know Virat is in a tough spot too but i really want to see him be consistent in how he deals with pp. He is clear in his head now. So he should stop feeling guilty and continue to push her away. He is not the one who is initiating advances but he needs to keep that same sternness he had in his tone/body language with her.

I dont understand why he looks confused about pp's motives n intentions. He knows more clearly than anyone that she harbors feelings for him and is jealous of Sai. If he doesn't understand why Sai is insecure, I'll still get it - because Sai herself is all over the place. he knows Sai isn't at the point where she is in love like Virat, she still keeps her distance, finds excuses to demonstrate her care without revealing her real feeling, and is struggling to understand what she really feels.

Yes even I did not like Sai saying that, but then both Patralekha and Virat have failed to understand after being told by Sai so many times directly and indirectly , she does not like to be interrupted at night by Patralekha without even a knock.. Neither Patralekha stops doing it, nor Virat in Sai's presence have ever mentioned to Patralekha to knock before entering.. He could have done both, Sai use better words..and Patralekha, understand what she says..

Yes it looked like he would have gotten convinced by her emotional blackmail , just like he could not deny her asking for his clothes to pack with hers in the same bag...

You see Patralekha calls Virat her kareebi indirectly by looking at him , Sai sees that and Virat has no expressions.. WOuld make any wife be insecure..

Imagine a gender reverse case, where the wife's ex, who is a jheth keeps entering the room and the wife is just being soft with him, giving the ex a benefit of doubt on a daily basis..

The beizatti dialogue by Virat too wasn’t in KD it’s an addition here

Is Vankar now trying to garner sympathy for pakhi by making sai look mean?

Point 1- Although I do not agree with Sai's choice of words, someone like Patralekha absolutely deserved it. She has a habit of commenting on other people's married life and interfering in matters that are none of her business. So it is only natural that sooner or later, someone or other will lose their patience and give it back to her in her own language.

Regarding Virat, I have come to understand that only person capable of eliciting extreme emotions from Virat is Sai, be it anger or love. With people like Patralekha and his family, he chooses a very passive stand, may be because he don't care or because he don't want to get into their silly arguments.

I agree totally with ur thought that Sai trusts virat with her life .. but she does not trust him regarding her heart ..

Virat has not done much to give her security.. I wish she voices it out to him

Looking at the week ahead .. looks interesting.. because she should have another showdown with virat .. if she can clear it with him .. she cannot accept a marriage where another person already has a claim in it .. she’s willing to walk out when there’s time ..

Originally posted by: Nja91

1. Sai's dialogue about not spending a night with husband to pp. I think the way she meant it was to say you dont seem to have any lihaaz of a couples private space because you dont consider yourself married to samrat but the way the dialogue was written it came out wrong.

In KD, Sai had said why dont you make your husband your nominee- is it coz you dont believe/want him to come back. But they cut that out.

Sai is not the types to wish harm/bad on anyone.

2. Virat shouldn't have called it "beizzati". He should have said that "tumhaare shabdon ko thik seh chuno" or he should have defended Sai and said "usko voh matlab nahi tha" and taken over the conversation. because Virat should know that Sai is not the type to deliberately do beizzati of anyone or to diss someone over "not spending a night with the husband" . She doesn't measure her words before talking and Virat knows that. Because after that virat is seem agreeing and nodding/approving everything Sai says because it was entirely legit. He does say to pp "koshish karo samajhne ki jo Sai joh kehne ki koshish kar rahi hai".

3. I wish Virat had been more vocal about his refusal to be bank nominee and about the whole situation. He started off on the right foot, he was upset at the interruption- asked pp why she didnt knock, said teice "Sai theek hi toh kah rahi hai". But i wish he had beem the one to say more rather than agreeing with pp.

Its like he keeps going in this loop of guilt/soft corner whenever it concerns pp. He is clear in his head that he loves Sai so then why does he go from straight out being annoyed at pp's presence to going all "soft" on her.

If Sai hadnt been there giving the punches, it looked like Virat would have unwillingly given in to Pp's emotional blackmail. He doesn't need to start yelling/taunting but he is very much capable of firmly showing the line like he did in the episode when Sai was in GC.

It is his "soft" behavior that keeps getting Sai insecure. She is able to see his advances and is dealing with how to respond to it coz shes innocent and young , she gets confidence when she sees Virat side with her but then next moment they give a scene where Sai has self doubt about her place/her marriage being a deal/zimmedari because of Virats soft corner.

Sai trusts Virat with her life but not with her heart. Shes too scared to. It is difficult to constantly be around the woman who is obsessed with your husband, have the family elders not only watch silently but actually encourage her behavior and her husband is hot n cold too.

I know Virat is in a tough spot too but i really want to see him be consistent in how he deals with pp. He is clear in his head now. So he should stop feeling guilty and continue to push her away. He is not the one who is initiating advances but he needs to keep that same sternness he had in his tone/body language with her.

I dont understand why he looks confused about pp's motives n intentions. He knows more clearly than anyone that she harbors feelings for him and is jealous of Sai. If he doesn't understand why Sai is insecure, I'll still get it - because Sai herself is all over the place. he knows Sai isn't at the point where she is in love like Virat, she still keeps her distance, finds excuses to demonstrate her care without revealing her real feeling, and is struggling to understand what she really feels.

Yeah the bizatti word which virat used was wrong . And also I dont understand why virat becomes soft to pakhi every time. He doesn't make it clear to her at all.in tamil version vikram actually shouts at pakhi for the bank nominee thing. Here virat is shown a bit soft to pakhi not sure why .

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

The beizatti dialogue too wasn’t in KD it’s an addition here

Is Vankar now trying to garner sympathy for pakhi by making sai look mean?

Like Didi is obsessed with Virat, makers are obsessed with beizzati word. They keep on using it for no good reason. 😆

Originally posted by: idkwhattoput

The beizatti dialogue too wasn’t in KD it’s an addition here

Is Vankar now trying to garner sympathy for pakhi by making sai look mean?

it was a superb dialog no doubt .. that u haven’t even spent one night with ur hubby ..

and look at you Sai n virat .. 6 months of married life ..

I just couldn’t comprehend Virat standing quietly when Pakhi calls Sai kudkarz again. That whole conversation between Pakhi and Sai, Virat could have said at least don’t call Sai selfish. Instead he says please listen to Sai and try to understand what she says.

When he was reciting shayari just few minutes before this happened. He needs to say something to Pakhi when she comes at Sai with guns loaded.

I understand he is reeling under guilt and doesn’t want to hurt Pakhi. But that doesn’t mean he will let Pakhi say anything she wants.

Coming to Sai talking about not living with a husband comment, I didn’t find it odd. Because that’s how Sai’s character is. She is quite unapologetic and says things without filter! How much ever cringe worthy it comes across for the person listening to it.

She really needs to learn to be polished in confrontations. Just for drama quotient they can’t write cringe worthy dialogues.

There has to be growth in Sai’s character as well. I really wish they show that.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Point 1- Although I do not agree with Sai's choice of words, someone like Patralekha absolutely deserved it. She has a habit of commenting on other people's married life and interfering in matters that are none of her business. So it is only natural that sooner or later, someone or other will lose their patience and give it back to her in her own language.

Regarding Virat, I have come to understand that only person capable of eliciting extreme emotions from Virat is Sai, be it anger or love. With people like Patralekha and his family, he chooses a very passive stand, may be because he don't care or because he don't want to get into their silly arguments.

And I have also understood that he would show them their place, only when he has wronged Sai because of them and he is not in talking terms with his wife..

That dialogue was not needed..

Sai has been absolutely clear about her not wanting Patralekha to be in that room , without a knock late at night since the day she entered the house.. But Patralekha never understand and Virat never asks her to knock before entering.. Sai was a bit blunt but also too tired and irritated with the same thing again and again.. Sai has been questioned way beyond on her married life and her husband by Patralekha..