Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 95

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

same here! i loved gaura's tension and i want more for what they did to shiva and krish 😈😎

i feel like such a sadist 🤣

I hope CVS gets what we are saying and bring changes to the script asap. And change this show back to showing shift in family dynamics organically and not arm twisring way with selfish Dhara.

It's interesting how this show trended with Dhara's awful behavior on episode 99 and didn't on 100th episode with planned trend because most of us were miffed with how this show was going. There was literally nothing to celebrate for 100th episode. (Well apart from that topic in our forum, but CVs don't get credit for that).

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Exactly! They seem to live in the 70s.

Haha, that would be one DevTa scene I'd enjoy. And honestly, I was hoping there to be ShiVi moments where ShiVA helps her cutting veggies and washing dishes as she'd have to take care of it all. Why can't they show both couple having 50-50 partnership in household chores. Most men in my life I know here do their fair share of housework. Including cleaning bathrooms, etc.

@bold, I was hoping for the same too. Pre-marriage, he and his brothers were cutting up vegetables and were ready to make a dish for her as a surprise. He certainly could've offered to help her, especially after she'd mentioned she wasn't in the mood to cook. But maybe that's too much to expect from him right now 🤔, and all this "I'll force you two to stay together" won't help anything. Dhara shouldn't force the two to be together, she should instead give them privacy

My own parents had an arranged marriage and it took them 6 years to actually fall in love with each other (my dad went to America for 4 of those years so they were long distance and only spoke for like 10 minutes each week due to technology limitations). And my mom always tells me the reason she didn't like my dad much in the beginning was because of the constant interference in the family. The more his family forced them to be together, the more she hated him and his family.

Raavi's probably too nice, so she might not end up hating Dhara, but I can't imagine Shiva would be okay with all the extra "forced" time he would need to spend with Raavi. Her interference makes ShiVi lose whatever independence they've had as a couple.

Is there a way we can get update on rating if each episode like American TV shows? I'd love to see how the ratings were for the beating day and the day after.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Shivi ko apne love story kudh likhna chahiye! Isi ummed mein har roz ye serial dekh rahi hoon. Dhara ki plan bilkul fail hona chahiye. Suman aayi hai na, woh sab dekh legi😆

dhara can make all efforts to force them together, but ultimately i think shivi will come together at their own pace!

the same happened for KM, and i really hope the writers don't deviate from that and make it all about how shivi realized their love because of dhara 😕

Originally posted by: EmeraldPrincess

She has a fetish with danda and beating🤣

she needs to be on the receiving end for once, but sadly the makers will never show this, and we can never see this😆

I still cannot fathom what kind of a person Dev is - he did not even say a single thank you, forget thank you, he did not even acknowledge that Rishita cooked for him, even though she almost had a panic attack the night before. Instead of that Mr. Dev goes and shamelessly eats the parathas that his bhabhi made!! Why did he not go into the kitchen and make some nice hot tea for his wife so that she feels better? And this guy has the nerve to say "Tumhe toh pata hai mai bread nahi khata, blah blah"

Trust me if I were in Rishita's place and my husband does this, I will say straight to his face "Khudka khana khud bana le"! This ungrateful behavior is beyond my normal tolerance threshold

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Pandya brothers hail Dhara for her upbringing. What upbringing are they talking about?

1. Pampering the boys to such an extent that they are completely blinded by her love and refuse to see any other woman except their bhabhi? If thats the case why did they get into the hassle of getting married? They could have lived with their bhabhi for their entire life!

2. Not teaching your kids even basic cooking!! Come on this is the 21st century. Dhara could have atleast taught the guys basic cooking like making tea, omelet, sandwich. This will not make the guys lose their manhood!

3. Emotionally blackmailing your kids so that they dance to your tunes? If you say this I will leave the house, if you do this I will not talk to you. What kind of a parent are you? You treat your kids like they are puppets and you are holding the strings.

Dhara needs to question her parenting and for once Gaumbi needs to stop pacifying her, show her the mirror and tell her where she went wrong!

i hate how they butchered gaumbi too.. he was always a sensible and reasonable man who calmly evaluated situations and reacted

even his methods of giving gyaan are more palatable than dhara's emotional overaction

but now he is literally a "petticoat chaap" who is terrified of dhara

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Don't know if you noticed. But when Dhara found Rishita first, she screamed legit everyone's name except Dev's. I was so confused since Dev was Rishita's husband, but Dhara conveniently forgot about him..

yeah I noticed that. I laughed so hard at that 🤣

everyone is so used to dev being like a stone that he has now become invisible to them

they know they will get nothing from him except stoic silence, toh usko bulana hi kyun 🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

Exactly. I would freak if I were Raavi.

Yup. Maryada and mother figure be damned. If I were Raavi, I would have a counter threatened her. I would dare her to beat and threaten her to reserve a space for her in jail for pulling that kind of stunt.

If she didn't have any non-threatening things to say, she should have just stopped at you should maintain your fights within this bedroom, especially when Ma and others are home. And left.