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Yes tabhi apne previious post pe yeh bhi doubt poocha tha ko anupama aur kavya samdhan banne ke baad bhi ek doosre bus khaali naam se bulayengi ?

Btw thanks for clearence

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes tabhi apne previious post pe yeh bhi doubt poocha tha ko anupama aur kavya samdhan banne ke baad bhi ek doosre bus khaali naam se bulayengi ?

Btw thanks for clearence

Welcome

Yes Both will address each other with their names only.

Btw hamaare yahan samdhan ke beech itni closes nahin hoti

Pehle aisa hota tha ki hamaare yahan ladki ki taraf ladies shaadi mein jaate hi nahin they bus gents jaate they. Ab to Ladies bhi jaane lagin hai

Ladki walon ki taraf se bus gents jaate they

Aur ladko walo ki taraf se bus father daughter sister Brother son jaate they aur mother to ladke wale ki taraf jaati hi nahin thi apne bete ki shaadi mein kyonki unhe bahu bete ki swagat ki taiyaari karni hoti hai

Aur ladki ki maa bhi apni beti jahaan pur phere ho rahe hon wahaan nahin jaati bus khaali jahaan varmaala pad rahi ho wahi bride ki mother jaati hai

Bride ki mother ko phera dekhna allow nahin hota

So is hisaab se hamaare yahan samdhan ke beech jyaada communication nahin hota hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Btw hamaare yahan samdhan ke beech itni closes nahin hoti

Pehle aisa hota tha ki hamaare yahan ladki ki taraf ladies shaadi mein jaate hi nahin they bus gents jaate they. Ab to Ladies bhi jaane lagin hai

Ladki walon ki taraf se bus gents jaate they

Aur ladko walo ki taraf se bus father daughter sister Brother son jaate they aur mother to ladke wale ki taraf jaati hi nahin thi apne bete ki shaadi mein kyonki unhe bahu bete ki swagat ki taiyaari karni hoti hai

Aur ladki ki maa bhi apni beti jahaan pur phere ho rahe hon wahaan nahin jaati bus khaali jahaan varmaala pad rahi ho wahi bride ki mother jaati hai

Bride ki mother ko phera dekhna allow nahin hota

So is hisaab se hamaare yahan samdhan ke beech jyaada communication nahin hota hai

Hamaare mein thoda close hote hai..

Means a girls parents can stay at her daughter's Sasuraal...

Shaadi ki saari rasamo mein male female dono hote hai. Par respect se sab ko bulaate hai

Hamaare yahan ladke wale akad mein rehte . Woh sochte hain hum maanya ( respectable ) hum ladke wale hain to hume poora samman milna chahiye . Samman do to bhi nakhre dikhate

Yeh sub mujhe pasand nahin

Samman dono taraf hona chahiye

I love tumhare yahan dono taraf ek doosre ko respect dete hain

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Hamaare yahan ladke wale akad mein rehte . Woh sochte hain hum maanya ( respectable ) hum ladke wale hain to hume poora samman milna chahiye . Samman do to bhi nakhre dikhate

Yeh sub mujhe pasand nahin

Samman dono taraf hona chahiye

I love tumhare yahan dono taraf ek doosre ko respect dete hain

Yes yeh baat Gujarat Mein bahut acchhi hai

No dowries, no differentiation

Even I am from my Bhaiya's side, but still I can go to stay at Bhabhi's place to stay.

Meri Bhabhi ki Naani bhi aati hai hamare ghar pe

Hamaare yahan jo sambandh hota hai means jo aana jaana hota

On father side mein . Father ke father aur mother aur unke bachche aur unke bacchon means bua, tau chacha aur unke bachon se hota hai aur dada dadi se hota hai

Aur bahut hua to father ke chacha tau bua aur unke bachche se hota hai

Aur mother side wahi mama mammi mausa mausi nana nani aur bahut hua to mummy ke chacha chachi mausi

Waise dekha jaaye to hamaare yahan bahu ke mayka aur damad ke mayka se bahut aana jaana nahin hota. Bus ek do baar kahi mil leta hain warna woh bhi nahin hota

Haan ek baar humare phupha ke maa hamaare winter vaction mein tehri thin

Meri maami ke yahan khaali unke bhai apni bhanjion ke birthday pe aate they but aaj tuk mami ke mummy apni naatin ke birthday mein nahin aayi bus khaali mammi apni mummy se milne jaati thin

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Hamaare yahan jo sambandh hota hai means jo aana jaana hota

On father side mein . Father ke father aur mother aur unke bachche aur unke bacchon means bua, tau chacha aur unke bachon se hota hai aur dada dadi se hota hai

Aur bahut hua to father ke chacha tau bua aur unke bachche se hota hai

Aur mother side wahi mama mammi mausa mausi nana nani aur bahut hua to mummy ke chacha chachi mausi

Waise dekha jaaye to hamaare yahan bahu ke mayka aur damad ke mayka se bahut aana jaana nahin hota. Bus ek do baar kahi mil leta hain warna woh bhi nahin hota

Haan ek baar humare phupha ke maa hamaare winter vaction mein tehri thin

Meri maami ke yahan khaali unke bhai apni bhanjion ke birthday pe aate they but aaj tuk mami ke mummy apni naatin ke birthday mein nahin aayi bus khaali mammi apni mummy se milne jaati thin

Ham to har ghar par reh sakte hai...

Chahe woh mummy ki side se ho papa ki side. Same goes to my Mama and Mami....

Aise free hote hai hum jaane ke liye....

Hamara Maasi ke sasural saath bhi bahut achha relation hai. Hum jaate hai to log shikayat karte hai. Ki yahan khana kyun nahi khaya.

Same goes with Mami's Chachi's side

My Two Jijus accompanied us in a tour. The tour was from inlaws side.

Waise to ek baar main apni mausi ke sasuraal gayi aur mausaa i behan ki s shaadi mein gayi woh bhi bulane pur gayi phir nahin gayi

Aisa kabhi nahin hua ki mera man kiya to main mausi ke sasuraal ya phir maussa ke behan ke ghar chali jaaon. Mera man kare bhi to bhi nahin jaa sakti

Woh jub mujhe bulaayenge tabhi main jaa sakti hoon

Aiur yeh bhi hamare yahan jo sister hoti jiski shaadi nahin hui hai aur agar 18 se above hai to use behan ke ghar jaane nahin dete kyonki aisa maante hain jija aur wife ke behan ki beech affair ho sakta hai aur isse sister ki sister ke ghar tootne ke chances ho jaate hain

Waise to agar kisi mummy ko apni beti ka ghar beti ke shaadi hone ke baad agar jaana hota tha jaise meri nani agar mummy ke ghar aati thin but woh apne saath apne ghar ki poori sabji achar aur apna paani bhi le kar aati thi aur apna hi ghar ke laaya hua poori achar sabji khaati thi. Mummy aur apne damad ke paisa ka khuch nahin khaati thi

To nani mummy ke ghar agar chahe to ruk sakti hai but nani apne ghar ke laya hi hua khaana hi khaati hai

Nani naati ke kamai ke khaana kha sakti hain

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Waise to ek baar main apni mausi ke sasuraal gayi aur mausaa i behan ki s shaadi mein gayi woh bhi bulane pur gayi phir nahin gayi

Aisa kabhi nahin hua ki mera man kiya to main mausi ke sasuraal ya phir maussa ke behan ke ghar chali jaaon. Mera man kare bhi to bhi nahin jaa sakti

Woh jub mujhe bulaayenge tabhi main jaa sakti hoon

Aiur yeh bhi hamare yahan jo sister hoti jiski shaadi nahin hui hai aur agar 18 se above hai to use behan ke ghar jaane nahin dete kyonki aisa maante hain jija aur wife ke behan ki beech affair ho sakta hai aur isse sister ki sister ke ghar tootne ke chances ho jaate hain

Waise to agar kisi mummy ko apni beti ka ghar beti ke shaadi hone ke baad agar jaana hota tha jaise meri nani agar mummy ke ghar aati thin but woh apne saath apne ghar ki poori sabji achar aur apna paani bhi le kar aati thi aur apna hi ghar ke laaya hua poori achar sabji khaati thi. Mummy aur apne damad ke paisa ka khuch nahin khaati thi

To nani mummy ke ghar agar chahe to ruk sakti hai but nani apne ghar ke laya hi hua khaana hi khaati hai

Nani naati ke kamai ke khaana kha sakti hain

I have heard earlier also that at your side people are more reserved regarding the relationships. We people here are so free that we find this shocking.

We are also reserved to some extent like we follow some rituals and all. But not to this extent