Originally posted by: Indira12
@UL - Tum khud Ani ke baaton se contradict kar rahe ho, Faja 🤪 The first thing that Ani says upon seeing the patrawali ladki's letter was that he might need her support and saath more than the support and saath Bon needs from him.
@Italics - Aur kitni baar bas Ani ki pain ki pain ki hee baat ki jayegi? Isn't that being told a thousand times over? Isn't that being appreciated? Most importantly, isn't that being SHOWN? Was for a single time Bon's pain explicitly shown? Or talked about?
I referred to the pain of the marriage dissolution, of the sacrifice. But if the previous tracks are being talked about, like Ani losing his love of life for Bon, I disagree with the saying that Bon's pain got diluted that time. No, that's not the case. Bon had to leave her only universe then, her Maa, to stay with Ani. If a 20 year-old adult had to deal with the pain of leaving his lifelong love, a 8 year old girl had to deal with the pain of leaving her mother at such a tender age. Which one is more difficult - living without your fiancee as an adult or living without your mother at the vulnerable age of 8?
There too Bon felt pain. It was not shown, that's why viewers say things like we don't connect with her. The last track was hell for Bon yet makers did not bother to show the extent of her pain. Does that mean it was not painful for Bon? They don't show the pain of Bon, that's what is frustrating. The reason why people always say, Ani had to face a lotttttt of pain than Bon and for Bon. It's not their fault because it's the makers who themselves did not find it necessary to portray her feelings or her pain. But for people like me, Bon's pain will always be felt by us, doesn't matter if they show it or not. 😭
ul: Ani by himself is a walking contradiction.. to mere usse contradiction to banta hi hai.. 😆
bold: hum sab yahi chathi hai na....Her pain to be addressed.. I was in uproar for this the whole last track.. makers conveniently made her ever forgiving.. So only I said her to be shown to have some human side.. in sharing her pain, angst, anger, regret.. not just forgiving in the blink on eye.. forgive after addressing, after learning.. But since its shown as her takat.. I accepted it for the character, (may be not the best in my view.. but its how she is, makers freedom)
We have discussed this so na about annulment, Indu the pain with which Bon removed her marital symbols, that is solely woman's pain even if not a child, emotion breakdown of women is beyond a man's reach..I was angry at Ani was no explicit showcase of sadness too..
I see their development as a progression of events from beginning, Indu. Annulment being the last.. So in weighing the pain I cannot detach a part... Her pain at the age of 8 to be out of parental care Ani himself talked about, and he stood there at that point easing pain from attempts to bringing her mom to bed wetting.Infact child marriage as an evil practice would come there..and why he was always on geeli mitti reference.. to the now annulment.. its sad.. but its the track chosen..
Bon's pain is so huge, no one can deny.. but she seems visibly moved on whatever it be for... and stronger than Ani himself in it. So I am. also in for it to watch it as their journey in progress..and slowly moving in with them..
I may have my own share of disappoinment, but I just watch it for it is, unless something too much to take is shown
**I thought I am out of this logic and discussions.. dekho kya hua.. sabse zyada mein khud pe niraash hoon.. 😒
Hogaya mera paksh.. aur nahin..