Originally posted by: Indira12
She is a 12/13 year old girl. That she has this much maturity is more than enough for Ani. Koi punya ka kaam kiya hoga jo usse Bon mila aur koi aur ladki nahi. Have you given a thought about this what if she did not forgive Ani's father for his wrong doings against her? This character aspect of Bon is actually helpful for Ani since it easily gives a pass, be it him or his family members. She loved his family much much before than the family loved her. Much before than even Ani felt affectionate for her. What if Bon did not forgive Ani for her last doings? This learning of Bon to take stand for her own self will take time. Will come up with age. 12/13 saal mei itna maturity dikha di, shayad hum adults bhi nahi dikha paaye. Shaadi tod li kyunki Ani ne kaha. Rishte tod li sabke saath. Bina sawal kiye. š
I too want her to learn this over time.. not the child Bon but eventually with time as she grows up..
@bold..exactly my point, dont want an easy ride for Anirudh, if Bon is easily forgiving Ani would never have to go beyond his comfort zone.. he can be happily impulsive and act and then think
The whole point was forgiveness and love is the base of family bonding.. But just bcos family, snakes should not be fed again to get bitten.. like in sampoorna and Mami..
Bon has done that Indu, when mami harmed her mother she asked for justice. she still convinced Ani to be there with in the same roof, that was the learning yet being with family.. When Ani broke his promise on being with her on master entry, she questioned....It was not that she was hostile.. she forgave on knowing the reason or on his acceptance of mistake.. I wanted that thing to be intact. with family one has to be more forgiving than outsiders, but one should not be taken advantage of is my point..
(women stay in toxic family background even the day for such reasons
Being sacrifical always made women in the household won praises in terms of patriarchy.. which not just in the show but I see around too.. I feel women can be human too, a mother and a wife can be human with having the privilage of learning from mistakes and grow.)
With regard to breaking the rishta on Ani's terms.. I personally feel he would not have expected such a strong stand from Bon.. Not just rishta even her goal is Ani inspired.. or just for him and them.. which has to be reconstructed, which will take its own time.. Bon has accepted education is needed even if she never was in awe of it because of Ani, she has accepted Child marriage is a kuprata even if she never felt it so for her because of Ani.. Be it in her good or bad, she has than trust on the primary care taker over him.. He had hit many lows, still she belives innately he fights for her good. To break this and reconstruct, time itself has to play its role with redefining dynmaics of them