Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #8 - Page 97

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

The worst part is that they're going to normalize this whole thing saying that "bhabhi maa hai, usko bachchon par haq hai" 😡

And even worse is that they will probt turn this whole track about Dhara.

Like her dialogue was that she tries everything to keep the together, but they don't want to stay toget, so now you be seperate. It will probably show how neither of the two brothers can make a do without Dhara. I know DevTa will struggle, but I hope ShiVi can prove themselves. They don't need Dhara. They can love and respect her, but no need to be dependent on her for their daily things.

If the show goes the wrong way I am going to be even more pissed. Like it's possible after today's episode!

Originally posted by: Transference

No amount of justification can suffice the beating that happened today. Sometimes, one should let family members function as different units once they get married. I don't get this obsession of staying together despite suffocation. Trust me; if they live in the same home and have separate kitchens and home units, they’d still love each other if their love is true. Lots of joint families make this arrangement for peace and stability

Love and togetherness in heart means much than staying together in a tight knit closed packed room and still calling it is a family of one. If hearts are united then immediately respect and love and the need to give some their private space also is well maintained.

Originally posted by: NephilimByHeart

Thank you everyone for quick update. I get the gist of episode from comments.

Please don't watch, it's not worth it. You can pick up the story easily from tomorrow's episode.

The beauty of the original series was that you rooted for every couple, but in at least the past month for Pandya Store, they seemed to unilaterally change the focus from the family to a literal mess. They've turned Raavi into the "perfect, quiet, submissive" bahu from the firecracker of a girl she was prior to the wedding where she had the perfect responses to Shiva whenever he bullied her. GauRa, who should've had more center focus, seem to have been pushed to the sideline (only coming in when there is conflict and not having a storyline for themselves), while DevTa seem to be stuck on a never ending honeymoon

Not to mention all the BS of "older = better"

Ugh... every day, I watch the episodes but look forward to the FFs on the forum more... that is a huge problem

Oh my God! Looks like I've to stop watching the show now.... they can not normalize physical and domestic violence..... it's a complete No No..... and worse was nobody objected!! What I thought was relief, turned out to be complete disaster. I'm not going to watch the show now.

My heart goes out to Shiva. The older brother Dev kept on leading an innocent girl to believe that love existed, didn't even open his mouth at the right time, lead that girl whom he called her friend to suicide, not even bothering once to check up on her or ask for her forgiveness, and the same brother showered his love on his wife while she kept hating his family!

Wow! Older brother!

I am sorry, but this taking Shiva for granted doesn't sit well with me at all! What has he ever done in his life to deserve all that crap dished by first Raavi, Maami, the world and now Dhara too!!!

They aren't f****king kids anymore!

Gaumbi, you coward. Just go and find some Chullu Bhar Paani!

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I hope we do not get scenes tomorrow of dhara crying in self pity and lamenting on how she was "forced" to beat her "bachche" to bring them back on the right path 😡

I will happily skip those scenes as well. Don't want to watch her self pity😡

Originally posted by: Namita-M

If they all patch up after a session of yaad on ki baraat, I’m going to openly give this show a crappy review on Twitter for everyone to see.

Not on Twitter, but do let us know what people there have to say about today's episode. Whatever Dhara wanted to acheive could have been done with silent treatment or straight punishment of seperation. Beating was not needed. I hope pepper comment about double standards. The only way I can make peace with it is if Dhara apologizes publically and makes DeVTa kneel and ask for forgiveness to ShiVi for their behavior and tells Rishita that she has to earn her respect. Rishita does not deserve to be called Bhabhi. Arghhhhhh. I want to punch her face the way she looks on proudly.

The show has taken a cue from the toxicity of another no1 show on SP. Abuse, toxicity = TRP’s

Originally posted by: mpks1

I will happily skip those scenes as well. Don't want to watch her self pity😡

Even though Shiva and krish were the victims in this whole fiasco and she was the perpetrator, they're going to victimize her and show how the family is nothing without her 😡

I just hate how they're going to turn this into a dhara glorification track