That's is where things are going wrong I think. This selfless behavior and martyr type of attitude does not really exist in people anymore. There is is a thin life between self respect and concern..
Raghav literally butchered Pallavi's character and today he showed her the mirror. As usual in RR style he tried to undo or clean up the mess with a I don't care a damn style. He is what is he but Pallavi seems to pre exist in the 19th century.
For a show whose audience is not trp aunties, this kind of behavior won't bring brownie points. I hope she does not become Joan of Arc in the coming episodes.
She has to realize that Sulo will never accept her as family. Vijay Deshmukh is dependant on his brother for daily living expenses. Today it looked as if he is trying to please his sister in law.
I hope aai supports Pallavi.