Discussion: Am I missing something here - Page 3

Originally posted by: Bana

3. No, it is very difficult. Much as I love Sai Joshi’s pure kind soul & righeousness & coursge & honesty, she wld not make a good spouse (or for that matter, colleague or teammate). No consultative approach, never takes advice even from known well-wishers, wants to do everything her way, is rude when crossed, & disregards others wishes. Though well meaning she consistently undermines & undervalues others. I would not want to work in her team in the hospital or be her roommate either.

Originally posted by: TotallyPagalSai

She has him wrapped around her little finger due to his guilt (and love) and she's using it. Every single thing Virat said in yesterday's episode was correct. Why do this? Why do this now? The family is still upset. Let's think about it. Every thing he said was right. She just steam rolled him to get her way until he finally said "Don't leave me. Jo karna hai Karo." He basically gave up because he didn't want her to leave.

It's cute and all to watch her boss him around but is it healthy? I don't think so. She needs to take a step back and I'm wondering who will make her realize that. Somebody should.

The Virat who strongly objected her ways during Amay’s track was missing in yesterday’s episode . Sometimes I feel Virat shouldn’t have fallen in love with her so soon . He should have been her mentor till she was mature and then they should have shown him falling in love

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Honestly I don't even want to talk about this matter because it's almost an unsaid rule here that we should not question Sai's actions..

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

I did not like Sai's attitude today. Didn't she come back for Virat? Why does she wants to create another drama in the house? For once, can she concentrate on Virat, even Devi doesn't wants to comeback.

I don't know what does she wants to achieve. She is too stubborn and doesn't ever listen to anyone's advice.

Being a medical student she knows after a serious surgery a patient requires more than medicines and food . Patient needs a healthy environment not a tension filled one . In KD , Rono was not as injured as Virat so this cut copy paste is the culprit

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Sai has made it very clear at the hospital and even when she was at CN that she doesn’t share any relationship with the CN or it’s members . She came back only to take care of Virat as it’s her responsibility.

1. Is it wrong to question on what rights she decides to involve herself in Devyani’s matter and expects people of CN to oblige her demand to invite Devkit for lunch ?

No! Agree that she is a motherly figure to Devi but CN isnt the place to show her rights. What'll happen if that rasam is not done? Already Devi is triggered because of the way Harini is behaving with her, if something happens at CN, who will handle her? Heck, why should she even get triggered? Just for a rasam?🙄🙄🙄

2. She has come to take care of his health but she is not bothered that the drama that would unfold when Devkit come home might effect Virat’s health . She saw how he was struggling to talk when CN created the drama when he came back home . Is she as insensitive as CN members when it comes to his health ? Is few rasams important than someone’s health ?

Exactly! She herself said that all this drama isnt good for him. So now when DevKit comes home for lunch, she thinks these toxic people will welcome them with aarti and all? 🤦🏻‍♀️ drama toh hona hi hai🤷🏻‍♀️

3. She disregarded Virat’s opinion on Devkit matter . Is it easy to be married to people who wants to control everything and wants to do everything their way without paying heed to partners opinion. Is this a sign of healthy relationship?

Since the Pulkit drama started, I've always said that Sai hiding things from Virat isnt healthy for their relation. I dont want to talk about vaada now because that's completely a different topic for me. Im not married yet but I know, if my partner hides such an important thing from me or doesnt consider my opinion like the last episode, I'll be very hurt. Just because Virat's mistake is bigger doesnt negate what she did. As much as I love SaiRat, things like these are not something to be ignored easily.

Looking at my parents, all I've learnt is that a couple should respect each other's opinions, discuss it among themselves if there is any difference of opinion before coming to a conclusion. I love them for setting such example for me. That's the reason I've problem with this. I dont say that what Sai doing is wrong, all I'm saying is about the timing and about not even considering what Virat said.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

So agree with you. Rolled my eyes today. She even dared to question why is she in the CV if she is not allowed to reunite Devi with her family. Duh, I thought she came for Veeru's health.

Bechara Veeru na family chain se jeene dete hain na Sai. 😳

If the rasam is so important then why not do it on her own as a saas like she did during the wedding.

I know right! What rasam is that even? I have a doubt here, I didnt see any such rasam during SaiRat's wedding. So why now? 🤔🙄

Banda goli khaake aya hai, koi mithayi khaake nahi aaya hai🤦🏻‍♀️

These makers and their obsession with drama! 🙄🙄🙄

Originally posted by: AninditaB

That I oppose, because marriage is a relationship of equals, there should be no one dominant.

Exactly! Both are equals! If things like these happen in reality, over a period of time, there is a possibility that the other partner can think that anyways his/her opinions arent considered, so there's no point in even opening up. This isnt healthy.

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

I know right! What rasam is that even? I have a doubt here, I didnt see any such rasam during SaiRat's wedding. So why now? 🤔🙄

Banda goli khaake aya hai, koi mithayi khaake nahi aaya hai🤦🏻‍♀️

These makers and their obsession with drama! 🙄🙄🙄

Hamari 19 year old could not decipher husbands advances towards her but knows all the rasams like a 60 year old. Her Harmones are also not working in their favor. Kare tho kya kare viru baba 🙁

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

Since the Pulkit drama started, I've always said that Sai hiding things from Virat isnt healthy for their relation. I dont want to talk about vaada now because that's completely a different topic for me. Im not married yet but I know, if my partner hides such an important thing from me or doesnt consider my opinion like the last episode, I'll be very hurt. Just because Virat's mistake is bigger doesnt negate what she did. As much as I love SaiRat, things like these are not something to be ignored easily.

Looking at my parents, all I've learnt is that a couple should respect each other's opinions, discuss it among themselves if there is any difference of opinion before coming to a conclusion. I love them for setting such example for me. That's the reason I've problem with this. I dont say that what Sai doing is wrong, all I'm saying is about the timing and about not even considering what Virat said.

@Bold: This. Virat is definitely not comfortable with this idea even Pulkit and Devi were not on board. Sai being Sai only listens to herself.

I didn't like her dialogue to Virat - Ki agar app nhi chahte mai kuch karun toh mujhe yaha roka hi kyu?

From the past three episodes she has been repeating the same thing that I have come back to take care of Virat. Is what she is doing taking care of him?

The writer's could have made a small change in the storyline by making Pulkit or Devi the one who wants to come back and take blessings from her family or something like Devi wanting to see her Viru as he is injured. Then also they could have got the same drama.

I don't understand why they wanted to show Sai so stubborn.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Hamari 19 year old could not decipher husbands advances towards her but knows all the rasams like a 60 year old. Her Harmones are also not working in their favor. Kare tho kya kare viru baba 🙁

This harmonies thing 🤣🤣 We all have doubts on how can she resist him

I agree that she is believing on to the vaada and doesnt know that he loves her, but this DevKit rasam, not considering his opinion and being adamant on doing it anywayA big no from me🤷🏻‍♀️