Originally posted by: Shri_12
No one asks her anything. No one asked her if she wants to move in with RR. Amma ne decision le Liya so she has to follow. Amma ne bola Raghav se door raho, so she needs to stay away. Starting ke episodes me RR was seeing Rishtas for her. He didn't even bother to ask if she wants to marry or not, if she likes/loves someone or not. Akash ke case me bhi RR went all hulk on him just because he saw them together. Did he bother asking who is he to Kirti? Akash uska bf nahi tha but Agar hota bhi toh so what? She has all rights to choose for herself. Even now with Sunny, sure Raghav can meet him, judge him, do background checks and all, but final decision needs to be Kirti's. Raghav and Amma both need to understand that Kirti is an individual, give her some breathing space and let her take her own decisions.
I agree with this too. Her equation with her brother is dependent on her equation with Amma and vice versa. It's unhealthy. She got caught in the middle of the family mess, plus she had to live with a sad and bitter Amma all these years and look after her singlehandedly. All that took a toll on her mind and made her somewhat bitter towards Raghav too for being the cause of the tragedy. If Amma hates Raghav, she has to hate him too, if Amma wants to go back to Raghav, she has to as well.
She is still treated as the kid in many ways, even though she has proven to be more maturity than most of the characters on the show in many ways. I think hanging out with unsuitable suitors is her way of rebelling. She wants freedom, perhaps. I wish they would explore this more. What makes her tick? What are her dreams?