SAAKK|Episode Discussion Thread #52 DT NT PG 99 - Page 80

Originally posted by: glowgetter

i wish before running away, he blasts her

I miss him so damn much !!

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Sab ka yahi haal hai 👍🏼 Mai toh ab OST sun sun ke mann laga rahi hu 😭

Yehi haal hai mera! 😭

Kya karoon mein Akshu?

I've tried to divert my mind by watching other shows. Didnt work.

I just want Shaurya Sabherwal. I to be precise and clear, i want Shaurya Sabherwal with Anokhi Bhalla. ( wish can be misread sometimes😆, got to be clear)

Originally posted by: wamavasant

Shaurya also never acknowledged her insecurities that might be one reason. Ab moral responsibility ke POV se dekhe to anokhi ko bata dena chahiye shaurya ko finality de deni chahiye. But we dont always assess a situation with a lense of moral responsibility if aisa hota to problem nhi hogi na koi. May be this incident will make her realize that sometimes its better to go and seek answers from a concerned person rather than seeking answers from a third party.

As a viewer i know aisa karna chahiye tha use but usne aisa nhi kiya but i connect to her because if i was in her shoes i might have done the same thing and or may be if you were in her shoes you might have acted differently.

It depends on person to person. Ab jhuth bolna morally incorrect hai but hum kya jhuth nhi bolte baad mein we realize humein aisa nhi karna chahiye tha. We make mistakes learn from it and move on.

Anokhi will realize to always ask shaurya if she has doubts related to it and shaurya will learn to support her publically. All this misunderstanding will make their relation stronger. This us the way they will learn and respect each other as well as grow together and rise together in love. Nobody is compatible since the start of a relationship the compatibility trust faith comes with time.

We just need to give that time to shakhi so that they grow together as well as individually and heal each other.

This!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I completely agree with every word.

They both need to learn to communicate.

Communication and comprehension are one of the most important aspects of any relationship. N that paves the way for trust between people. Trust, understanding and faith.

Compatibility is important, but you don’t always fall in love with someone seeing how compatible you are with them. Sometimes, Compatibility comes with understanding. Mutual trust and respect. With mutual growth and evolution.

Falling in love with someone is so easy, but remaining in love is what is difficult. Coz it involves growing and evolving together. Every phase of life be it career or anything requires unlearning and relearning. So, obviously does a relationship.

There are no hard n fast rules or guidelines for any relationship. Each one is different. N each one evolves in its own pace.

What Shakhi needs right now is to sit down and talk and more importantly listen to each other.

Originally posted by: lavs_157

This!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I completely agree with every word.

They both need to learn to communicate.

Communication and comprehension are one of the most important aspects of any relationship. N that paves the way for trust between people. Trust, understanding and faith.

Compatibility is important, but you don’t always fall in love with someone seeing how compatible you are with them. Sometimes, Compatibility comes with understanding. Mutual trust and respect. With mutual growth and evolution.

Falling in love with someone is so easy, but remaining in love is what is difficult. Coz it involves growing and evolving together. Every phase of life be it career or anything requires unlearning and relearning. So, obviously does a relationship.

There are no hard n fast rules or guidelines for any relationship. Each one is different. N each one evolves in its own pace.

What Shakhi needs right now is to sit down and talk and more importantly listen to each other.

Shift to CCC 21

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Originally posted by: mehr05

Yehi haal hai mera! 😭

Kya karoon mein Akshu?

I've tried to divert my mind by watching other shows. Didnt work.

I just want Shaurya Sabherwal. I to be precise and clear, i want Shaurya Sabherwal with Anokhi Bhalla. ( wish can be misread sometimes😆, got to be clear)

Have you noticed one thing?

Jabhi Anokhi ko lagta hai ki answer to her question will be 'NO' she makes her own decision.

Example:

1. Mr. Bhalla wouldn't have agreed to let her go for the competition, she didn't even inform him about it.

2. Shaurya would have refused meeting Astha on BDay so she herself brought him a bouquet and planned to leave before he came in.

3. She thought she had no chance against Shagun now that she is back for Shaurya, she didn't was not gonna go to date venu. But Reema convinced her.

She might be brave, but she does try to avoid the confrontation. I see same thing happening here. There is an underlying fear in her. Could be love or could her way to get her plan into action. Not sure.

She thinks Shaurya won't be supportive of her education and career, she is not giving him a chance to even refuse.

In a way, even Anokhi does it in 'My way or Highway', bas Shaurya is assertive and Anokhi is deflective.

What do you think?

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Have you noticed one thing?

Jabhi Anokhi ko lagta hai ki answer to her question will be 'NO' she makes her own decision.

Example:

1. Mr. Bhalla wouldn't have agreed to let her go for the competition, she didn't even inform him about it.

2. Shaurya would have refused meeting Astha on BDay so she herself brought him a bouquet and planned to leave before he came in.

3. She thought she had no chance against Shagun now that she is back for Shaurya, she didn't was not gonna go to date venu. But Reema convinced her.

She might be brave, but she does try to avoid the confrontation. I see same thing happening here. There is an underlying fear in her. Could be love or could her way to get her plan into action. Not sure.

She thinks Shaurya won't be supportive of her education and career, she is not giving him a chance to even refuse.

In a way, even Anokhi does it in 'My way or Highway', bas Shaurya is assertive and Anokhi is deflective.

What do you think?

Yess,actually you have point,you are right.

I have to say their past circumstances did take a toll on their present.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Have you noticed one thing?

Jabhi Anokhi ko lagta hai ki answer to her question will be 'NO' she makes her own decision.

Example:

1. Mr. Bhalla wouldn't have agreed to let her go for the competition, she didn't even inform him about it.

2. Shaurya would have refused meeting Astha on BDay so she herself brought him a bouquet and planned to leave before he came in.

3. She thought she had no chance against Shagun now that she is back for Shaurya, she didn't was not gonna go to date venu. But Reema convinced her.

She might be brave, but she does try to avoid the confrontation. I see same thing happening here. There is an underlying fear in her. Could be love or could her way to get her plan into action. Not sure.

She thinks Shaurya won't be supportive of her education and career, she is not giving him a chance to even refuse.

In a way, even Anokhi does it in 'My way or Highway', bas Shaurya is assertive and Anokhi is deflective.

What do you think?

I agree even i have noticed this pattern but i didn't notice b day bouquet scene but now as you have mentioned.

I think its out of fear.

With Mr. Bhalla she knew answer would always be "NO" she avoided asking him all together.

In the birthday scene she knew shaurya will not meet astha no matter what. She bought him a bouquet just for astha's happiness.

And now when she has listened to shagun and got confirmation from astha on the same she might have connected the dots and cacooned herself to avoid confrontation all together. So that she doesn't get to hear a 'no' from a person whom she loves and whom she has seen in a different light previously. With papa ji hearing a no was okay because she has been accustomed to his behaviour. During shaurya's b day she knew shaurya would never agree to meet astha so she brought him a bouquet for astha's sake. But now she loves him so shaurya telling her to stop her studies and forget about her career is A scary scenario she would have never thought shaurya, a professor himself and who always encouraged her to study will deny her the basic rights but since he never supported shagun why would he support her. All the unanswered 'ifs' are making her avoid confrontation only to save herself from a situation where shaurya actually turns out to be like her papa ji in terms of his regressive mentality towards women's education and career.

I hope mai bhavnao mein na beh gyi hu 🤣

Originally posted by: NG456

Yess,actually you have point,you are right.

I have to say their past circumstances did take a toll on their present.

I understand both their reasons. Thats why I want to see how and what happens for Shaurya to change his.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

at this point, their past makes them who they are. Shaurya and Anokhi have their own justified reasons to believe in their ideologies.

I understand both their reasons. Thats why I want to see how and what happens for Shaurya to change his.

Hmm,and I want to see both Shaurya as well as Anokhi to grow individually as well as together,what it takes to both of them to change or deal with their certain insecurities,mere liye dono ki hi kahani hai ye so would like to see how they change.